The Beijing Winter Olympics are in full swing, and Xiao Kangjun is nervously watching the events every day.
The Chinese short track speed skating team, composed of five powerful cadres, Fan Kexin, Qu Chunyu, Zhang Yuting, Wu Dajing and Ren Ziwei, won the gold medal in the 2000 meters mixed team relay race!
Today, Xiao Kangjun wants to tell you the story of Fan Kexin, how did a girl from a cold family become a world champion? Her story, for all families with children, is worth learning from, and gives us a lot of inspiration as parents
Rent a 7 m2 cottage,
Also let the child learn to dance...
Fan Kexin was born in 1993 in a small village in Qitaihe, Heilongjiang. Later, due to the failure of business and economic embarrassment, the family came to Qitaihe City to seek a new way out.
When I first arrived in Qitaihe, the whole family only had 300 yuan and could only rent a 7-square-meter cottage, and the source of subsistence was Fan Dad's shoe repair craft. This small room is both their humble home and shoe repair shop.
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You know, the winter temperature in the northeast can reach more than thirty degrees below zero, but the residence of Fan Kexin's family is so simple, how difficult life can be imagined.
Fan Dad said that even when there was a Chinese New Year's Eve, the dumplings were sent by the enthusiastic neighbor next door...
Little Fan Kexin did not abandon the poverty of the family, and together with his parents, he saved money and used money to tide over the difficulties together. She often went with her mother to collect scraps, and even a pair of pants on her body was picked up from the dumpster and worn for several years.
However, even in this situation, even the basic life is difficult to maintain, parents have not forgotten the cultivation of their children.
Because Fan Ke is lively and active, her mother wants her daughter to develop her strengths and enrolls her in a dance class.
Why did you start by learning to dance, and then turn to skating?
More than once the mother let the child back off,
But the child bravely moves forward...
Yes, at first, Fan Kexin's parents wanted to cultivate their children in dance, but later, Fan Kexin said that he would not learn dance at all.
It turned out that the dance class had to pay 150 yuan to buy clothes, and he knew his family's difficulties, and although Fan Kexin liked dance, he finally decided to give up.
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The child's understanding is painful, and the opportunity does not slip away from her filial piety. It should be known that Qitaihe is the "rallying ground" of the mainland speed skating champions, and is the hometown of Yang Yang, Wang Meng, Sun Linlin and many other speed skating champions.
With so many speed skating champions coming from here, this place definitely has the atmosphere of a champion. One of them played an important role, he was the famous speed skating coach Ma Qingzhong, who was also Wang Meng's enlightenment coach.
(Source: CCTV)
At that time, a neighbor told Fan Kexin's mother that there were children training in the stadium every day, and kexin could try it. Therefore, Ke Xin met Coach Ma, and Coach Ma also felt that this child was a good seedling.
In this way, Fan Kexin began his ice career. Speed skating is a very physically demanding sport, and it is easy to fall and get injured, and the hard work of training can be imagined. When the mother saw the tired scars on the child's arms and legs, she was very distressed and advised the child to give up.
However, Fan Kexin knows that only by training hard can he get ahead and make his family's life better.
Every time on the ice, others are gone, Fan Kexin will have to slide 30 laps, 50 laps, and even in order to make himself a little more time on the ice, he will not take off his clothes at night.
Under the hard training, her speed skating performance is getting better and better. However, at this time, Fan Kexin encountered a "roadblock" on the road of life.
In 2007, 14-year-old Fan Kexin was already a student at the provincial sports school and had won several national championships, but at this time, her body was anemic due to the intensity of training and insufficient nutrition, her face was bloodless, and she was dizzy.
For ordinary people, anemia may not be a particularly serious thing, but it is fatal to athletes, and if it cannot be recovered, it means saying goodbye to sports careers.
At that time, Fan Kexin lived in the semi-basement with his parents, and his father still repaired shoes for a living. Although the parents felt sorry, they paid more attention to their daughter's body and strongly discouraged their daughter from training. But Fan Kexin has a strong will and a clear goal, that is, "desperately must also train, can not give up halfway."
Fortunately, Fan Kexin's body later recovered her health, and then she entered the national team and hung up her life until she won the Olympic gold medal.
Fan Kexin often performs a special training at home, that is, to let his father ride on his neck, plus a bag of 50 pounds of rice and a piece of mineral water, do squats 100 times, and train his strength. Seeing his daughter's sweaty clothes, dad was heartbroken.
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In order not to let his parents worry about himself, Fan Kexin has not told them the time every time he enters the national team, afraid that they will stay up late and affect their physical health.
Fan Kexin's home can be described as a real "cold door", but in such a cold door, the parent-child love is very strong, coupled with extraordinary talent and unremitting efforts, it is not strange that takako is not strange...
Parent-child love,
It is a huge driving force for a family~
In Fan Kexin's growth process, her parents seemed to play the role of "pulling back their legs", and seeing the hardships that their daughter suffered, her parents advised her to give up more than once.
Because the training is too hard, although the child shows talent, in their eyes, she is not born to become a champion, she is just her own daughter, parents hope that their daughter can live a comfortable life and enjoy the sweetness of life.
When Fan Kexin's mother talks about her daughter, she always has a spoiled face: "Little sister" and "so beautiful". When Fan Kexin was training as a child, she skated at the ice rink, and her mother followed her round and round outside the ice rink, perhaps Fan's mother wanted to accompany and encourage her daughter in this way.
Parents who truly love their children never think about how to let their children give full play to their own value and contribute to the family, but only hope that their children will live well.
And when they know their daughter's thoughts, they give her full respect, and try their best to support their daughters and support their children to achieve the goals in their hearts.
As a child, Fan Kexin, she saw the hardships of her parents and the embarrassment of her family, and when she was very young, she wanted to rely on her own strength to make her family live a better life, and this belief also gave her great motivation to urge herself to make progress.
Because she loves her parents deeply.
This kind of parent-child love is a huge driving force for a family. A child who is loved by his parents and loves his parents will not be bad.
Recently saw a post, which is written that a young mother took her daughter to the mother and baby shop to buy things, the mother told the child: "Mother in order to buy you things, do not buy beautiful clothes, you must work hard to study when you grow up, enter the university, buy a big house for your mother, a good car Oh! ”
True maternal love is definitely not like this, but like Fan Kexin's mother, she only hopes that her child will live well, regardless of what she can bring to the family, which is the real parent-child love.
Love is mutual, and children who grow up under the love of their parents will naturally be close to their parents.
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