The beginning of the movie is very similar to the beginning of the MV of "Something Just Like This", which is a little boy dressed as an astronaut and "traveling" in the context of the cosmic galaxy. But here, the helmet that can cover the face symbolizes not the boy's yearning for the vast galaxy, but the obscuration of his own appearance.
The boy, named Auggie, was born with a facial defect, and several plastic surgeries distorted his face until the fifth grade, when he began to go to school and truly stepped into the "small society". Despite the encouragement of his parents, Auggie, who had just entered the school, was hit by his classmates because he was "different".
Little Auggie was in pain, and he asked his mother, "Will everyone always look at what they look like?" "I don't know." Mom was silent for a while and could only answer him in this way. Auggie knew exactly why he was treated differently, and despite his efforts to ignore the difference, he couldn't change the fact that it existed.
Fortunately, Auggie still has the support of his family behind him, his mother will always patiently ask and enlighten Auggie, encouraging him to say his own ideas, and his father teaches him to learn to fight back, and Auggie's changes are inseparable from their company.
This movie teaches us that caring for your children, listening to their hearts, love and patience are the best education, not scolding.
"You can't fit in, just because you were born different, they want to see, let them see." 」 This is what sister Via said to Auggie, and this is what the film wants to tell everyone.
Being different from everyone is not a disadvantage, so don't let it become your shortcoming, accept your own difference, and accept the different eyes of others, this is the process of growth, and everyone will experience it.
My sister once said, "If my home is the earth, then the sun will always be the younger brother." And not the sister. "In a family, if one child is poured out a lot of love, there must be another child who is distracted from the original attention.
It's like the sister Via in the play. Of course she was wronged, but she was also sensible, and she knew that she didn't blame her brother for being ignored, and she loved him as much as her parents.
"I only wish she had that once, to have a good look at me." Mom ignored her sister, but she didn't know that maybe we would blame Mom, but it wasn't all her problem.
When Auggie was born, she was only one thesis away from getting a master's degree. She just paid too much attention to him.
Fortunately, the mother finally realized her neglect of her sister and reached a reconciliation with her sister through communication, which also made the family atmosphere more harmonious. It's not so much about reconciling with your sister as it is about reconciling with yourself.
It can be seen that the importance of communication, in a family, there is love as the basis, there is nothing that an effective exchange can not solve.
"No one is ordinary, everyone deserves everyone to stand up and applaud him once, my friends are worth it, my teachers are worth it, my sister is worth it, because she always supports me." My dad was worth it because he always made us laugh, especially my mom, because she never gave up on anything, especially, me. ”
A good homeschooling can move people from inferiority to self-confidence, and so can Auggie, and so do we. Growing up in a loving family is more important than anything else, because love inspires miracles and possibilities. Love is a necessity for us to build a better self.
Looking closely, Auggie's miracle was not created by one person, and in the process of Auggie's self-esteem cringe from inferiority to brave counterattack until he was self-sufficient, he was inseparable from the guidance and help of teachers and friends, the eternal support and encouragement of his family, and Auggie's own self-knowledge and acceptance.
It was a group of people doing their duty and obligation, maintaining justice and kindness, and only then did augey's miracle.