Qianxi's childhood was boring and fulfilling, and learning various skills occupied all his spare time.
He's learning when other kids are learning, and he's still learning when other kids are playing and laughing.
Skills learned include dance, drawing, calligraphy, magic, accordion, face changing, etc.
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When he was a child, Qianxi also did not understand why other children could play, but he had to keep learning. Mom told him, because you're going to be a different person.
The later Qianxi was indeed a different person.
He is the youngest film emperor nominee, he is the first post-00s to break the billion film people, he not only has traffic, but also strength.
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And all this he has is inseparable from a woman.
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The first step to success is companionship!
Qianxi's mother was born in a small village in Shanxi, and the family's economic conditions were not good, so she could only support her to go to high school. After dropping out of high school, she had two paths ahead of her: marry or go out to work.
Qianxi's mother resolutely chose the latter and went to work in a factory in Shenzhen. Here, she meets the man she is destined to marry and have children with. This man is Qianxi's father.
On November 28, 2000, Qianxi was born in Hongjiang City, Huaihua City, Hunan Province.
Qianxi's birth brought a lot of happiness to the couple. But because of the pressure of life, they can only leave Qianxi in their hometown to bring to the elderly. In this way, Qianxi became a left-behind child.
When Qianxi was 2 years old, her mother was fed up with the pain of separation from him, and resolutely quit her job to concentrate on accompanying him to grow.
Xiao Kangjun nagged
Whatever else, when Qianxi's mother consciously accompanied her child's growth, she had already taken a big step towards success. Because a sound personality is the basis for success.
Many families with ordinary economic conditions will face a problem after having children: do they grow up with their children or go out to work?
Most parents will choose the latter on the grounds that: What do you do without working to support your children? Who doesn't want to be with their children, but to be with them, what to eat and drink?
As it is: I can't hold you with a brick, and I can't raise you when I put down a brick.
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In such a dilemma, there is a question that can quickly help parents clear their minds, that is: What kind of person do you want your child to be?
If you want him to be mentally sound and independent, it's best to be by his side or take him with you.
Of course, this is not to say that all left-behind children are not psychologically sound, but that children who are accompanied by their parents with high quality will be more psychologically strong. Because for children, the companionship of parents is the source of security, that is, the confidence to face the world.
Such children are more likely to spend puberty peacefully.
Xiao Kangjun shared with you a sentence that Professor Li Meijin once said: "In the early education of children, only the careful companionship of parents can obtain lasting psychological influence and control over children. ”
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The second step is to lead by example!
Qianxi's mother gave Qianxi a lot of interest classes, and at most there were more than a dozen. However, this interest class is not randomly selected, but is selected according to Qianxi's preferences.
Speaking of this, there may be many parents who think that qianxi's family must be very rich, otherwise how can he support him to apply for so many talent training classes?
But the fact is that their family's economic income, in addition to the basic living expenses, has been used to report to him. It's not so much about having money as it is about being open-minded.
Before giving Qianxi a dance class, my mother reported to the class in advance so that during Qianxi's practice, she could point out his mistakes. It can be said that Mom was Qianxi's first dance partner.
Qianxi once said in an interview: "When I went to dance classes at that time, I always changed my dance clothes on the bus. Leave class at 10 p.m. and catch the last bus back. Sometimes the bus is out of the way, and my mother and I can only try to find the nearest subway to go home. ”
At that time, his mother took him to class every year like a rush, and meals and homework were usually solved on the bus.
Qianxi's mother once said, "These things between me and Qianxi are really hard."
Many parents have a set when educating their children, and a set for themselves. For example, children are not allowed to watch TV when eating, but they are unscrupulously brushing their mobile phones when they eat; teach children to read more books and hold their mobile phones after work.
The reason why Qianxi's mother can cultivate Qianxi, in addition to Qianxi's own talent and efforts, is inseparable from her mother's example.
Teaching by example is greater than words, and his mother inspires him with practical actions.
As Dong Qing said: What kind of person you want your child to become, you should first become what kind of person you want.
The Yi family is not only Qianxi, but also Nan Nan (Yi Qianxi's younger brother Yi Yuhua).
Nan Nan used 1 minute 50.66 seconds to create a world record of 2 second-order Rubik's Cubes for continuous blind twisting.
He also shoots web dramas, records songs, and walks on the catwalk, this little doll who used to be in Qianxi's arms is walking out of a path of his own in the company of his mother
Well-off jun bar boo
There is only one Yi Qianxi in the world, and the reason why he succeeds, in addition to his mother's teaching, is inseparable from his own talent and hard work.
But like Qianxi's mother, we can guide our children to find their own preferences and help them take root and sprout
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