Many times, dads are always busy watching WeChat, brushing videos, chasing various hot news, and throwing the responsibility of accompanying and taking care of children to moms.
But I don't know that the child who is always ignored by his father has already been scarred in his heart.
Author | Qianhe
The phone "stole" my dad
"Son, have you seen Daddy's phone?"
Just now, Dad asked me while rummaging through boxes and cabinets looking for my mobile phone.
"No, no." I stuttered in reply.
"Strange, you really didn't see it here just now?"
"No, I forgot where, you look for it again, I'll write my homework first."
I had the courage to say it and fled back to my room.
At this time, Dad's mobile phone was lying quietly in the garbage can at my feet.
Looking at this nasty guy, I really want it to disappear immediately.
Yes, I "stole" my dad's phone, but who let it "steal" my dad first?
Watching my dad look around looking for his phone, I couldn't help but get nervous.
Suddenly, a jingle-bell call rang, and I hurriedly picked up the phone, not knowing whether to hang up or hide first.
Dad rushed to see me, and he grabbed the phone and greeted me with a scolding that covered his face:
"Why do you want to do anything bad with my phone?"
"You just asked you to lie to me, when did you learn to lie?"
"Do you want to peek at cartoons, play games, and study hard every day?"
Looking at my father's angry look, I didn't say a word, stubbornly didn't defend myself.
But Dad seemed to be more angry, "Don't finish your homework today, don't eat!" ”
After saying that, he slammed the door shut.
Looking at the back of my father turning away, I could no longer hold back the tears in my eyes and cried loudly.
I don't understand why my dad can't coax me to sleep, play with me, and give me lectures like someone else's dad, but instead knows to hold the phone all day long.
Dad, you know what?
Other people's children are loved and liked by their parents, but you who look at the mobile phone are only impatient, perfunctory and disgusted with me.
Mobile phone ah mobile phone, God knows, how much I hate this damn thing.
Father
I don't want you to argue with your mom over your phone
Just yesterday, because of the mobile phone, Mom and Dad broke out into a fierce quarrel.
Mom yelled at Dad, and Dad didn't want to show weakness, and I hid in the house alone, my body shaking uncontrollably.
Dad, I was really scared at the time.
I secretly looked at you and my mother through the crack in the door, and you were like two angry lions, eager to swallow each other into their mouths.
"Divorce! Just go over with your phone! ”
Mom slammed the cup on the floor and rushed into the bedroom to start packing up.
I ran over and grabbed my mother's clothes to prevent her from leaving, and my mother cried, and the tears flowed down her face like broken beads and dripped on me.
I was so sad to see my mother's look, Dad, do you know how hard Mom works every day?
In the morning, before dawn, she would get up to prepare breakfast for me, wake me up, send me to school, and often be too busy to eat;
After work in the evening, she rushed to the school to pick me up, bought vegetables and cooked, helped with homework, and did laundry and mopping the floor until late at night.
You are busy at work, every day out early and late home, your mother understands your hardships and takes the initiative to undertake various housework.
But you take this for granted, except for work, your phone takes up all your free time.
Your mother is therefore nagging and expressing dissatisfaction with you, and you are still particularly impatient.
Yesterday, my mother's unit had an emergency, she picked me up after school and took me back to the unit to work overtime, calling you to make dinner.
At eight o'clock in the evening, we came home hungry, only to find the kitchen a mess.
It turns out that you are lying in bed playing games and forget the time, the rice is all pasted in the pot, and you almost burned the bottom of the pot.
Seeing mom cleaning up the kitchen in a panic, you sat on the couch and picked up the phone again, Dad, I think mom has a big fire.
Last night I was hungry and tired again, and my mother wiped away my tears and coaxed me to sleep.
At night, I had a terrible dream, I dreamed that my mother was gone, only me and you were left at home, you only knew to look at the phone, I didn't pay attention to how I called you.
In the dream, I cried so sadly, I hate your mobile phone, it is it that occupies you and robs us of the happiness and sweetness that originally belonged to us.
I don't want you to always look at your phone and not look at me
When I was a kid, I used to think that the phone was your child.
I'm Mom's son, and you're the Dad of "Cell Phone."
When my mother held me, you always held the mobile phone, my mother fed me to eat, coaxed me to sleep, played with me, you sat on the sofa to read the mobile phone, lying on the bed to look at the mobile phone, crouching in the toilet to read the mobile phone.
Once I asked you curiously, "Dad, why do you always look at your phone?" ”
You say, "Daddy has to work on his phone, And Daddy has to earn money to support his family." ”
At that time, I thought that all the fathers in the world did not have time to spend with their children like you, working at work during the day and working on their mobile phones when they came home at night.
But when I grew up, I found that although you sometimes have to work with your mobile phone at home, you spend more time with your mobile phone to chat, brush videos, and play games.
I was in the community and saw other people's dads running, playing football, and playing fun games with their children;
I was in the same school, and I saw other people's fathers cooking, reading, and teaching homework problems for their children;
I was at school, and I saw other people's dads picking up their kids from school and school, and there were endless words.
I just learned that not all dads hold their phones all day like you.
Dad, do you know how much I envy others?
I envy children who can share happiness with their dads;
I wish you could share it with me and give me encouragement when I'm trying to achieve something, instead of simply saying "awesome" and turning around and looking at my phone.
I envy children who can tell their fathers about their hearts;
I wish you could help me find a way to comfort me when I feel confused when I have a problem, instead of not noticing my presence at all and just staring at the phone.
I envy children who have their fathers by their fathers all the time;
I wish you would come back from work and play with me for a while, listen to me at the dinner table about school, on the weekend our family of three can go to dinner and buy things together, we can talk and laugh, instead of me and my mother walking in front, you look at the phone in the back.
I don't want my phone to harm your health
But, Dad, none of this is what ultimately made me decide to steal your phone.
I sneaked away your phone because what I'm most afraid of is that it will damage your body.
Some time ago, I saw a news item on TV.
It is said that there is a young uncle who caused a heart attack and cardiac arrest because of playing mobile phones for a long time, and did not rescue him.
I was shocked by the news, I didn't expect the harm of playing with mobile phones to be so great.
I ran to my mom and asked, "Is it going to kill people playing with my phone?" ”
Mom was stir-frying, and she looked at me questioningly and I said:
"Is it true that someone on TV played with his phone for too long and died of a heart attack?"
"Of course it's true, so you're going to use less of your phone to watch cartoons, you know?"
Dad, because of this matter, I was absent-minded in class all afternoon, and I was really worried about you thinking of you looking at your phone every day.
When school was almost over, I plucked up the courage to ask my most trusted teacher, Teacher Zhao, how harmful it was to play with mobile phones.
Teacher Zhao said that playing mobile phone death is a very rare case, but excessive playing with mobile phones will indeed damage vision, but also cause cervical spondylosis, lumbar spondylosis, if you stay up late for a long time to play mobile phones is indeed very detrimental to physical health.
Dad, you have thick eyes, poor vision, often look at your phone while eating, and a few times I get up in the middle of the night to go to the bathroom to see that you are still playing games.
I'm really worried about your body, I'm afraid you're going to get sick and die from playing with your phone, and I won't have a dad.
Although you didn't spend much time with me, I remembered the only few happy times I had and my heart was still full of sweetness.
Do you remember?
When you were a child, you always liked to lift me high, let me sit on your back and ride a big horse, and once you took me to the park to fly kites, how much fun we had.
I really don't want to lose you.
If you can choose
I want to turn into your phone
Dad, if you had the option, I'd love to turn it into your phone.
If I were your phone, the first thing you would do every morning when you wake up is to hold me in your hand and look at me with loving eyes.
The last thing you do every day before you go to bed is to touch me reluctantly and say goodnight to me.
If I were your phone, you would take me wherever you went and wouldn't leave me for a moment at home.
If you can't see me for a while, you'll look for me everywhere.
If you accidentally forget me at home, you will always think of me and be haunted all day.
If I were your phone, no matter what you ate or walked, you would look at me, think of me when you slept, and even if you stared at me all day, you wouldn't get bored.
When you eat good food and see the beautiful scenery, you will share it with me, and all the joys and sorrows you encounter will tell me at the first time.
Dad, if I were your phone, I would be the most important person in your heart.
As long as I am there, everything else is a floating cloud.
You may be absent-minded when you eat, work, and chat with friends, but with me, you will be very focused.
But, Dad, I don't know how to turn it into your phone.
Some people say that the most distant distance in the world is not the distance between life and death, but the distance between you and him, and he is playing with his mobile phone.
Dad, I wish you could put down your phone and spend time with me.
My childhood was only once, don't let me grow up with regrets, okay?