Today's children live in happiness, simply little emperors, little princesses. However, with the growth of children, they will still become independent in society in the future, so the quality of a person is very important. As a child's parent, as the child's first teacher, the quality and quality of the child determines how far the child can go in the future, especially when the child reaches the age of two and three, the words and deeds of the parents will play a decisive role in the child.
Mr. Shi's family is old and has children, the eldest is a girl, education should be good, but he who has a son is unusual, and he is obedient to his son, all kinds of indulgence, sometimes, even the daughter can't look down, often say that the father is eccentric. But what a mess! I wanted to have a son, but this came, an accident, fulfilled my wish to have a son. He was really good to his son!
In the new few days, the son has a lot of income, the elders, family and friends come to the house, have given this small stuffed red envelope, the little guy also gives strength, staring at this expensive thing to buy. Up and down, inside and out, playing, using, all are hundreds of thousands.
In addition to material abundance, the little one's daily behavior is also indulged without restriction. In fact, it can also be understood that how can the children who are surrounded by so many people be domineering and exposed?
Fortunately, there is another person in the family who understands, that is, the child's grandfather. The old man watched the child's words and deeds become more and more disciplined, and finally spoke, and the child had to beat people. Hit the kids? Mr. Shi can't get his hands on it, and the child's mother is also aggrieved. But Grandpa was still the most authoritative person in the family after all.
In fact, some of the child's excesses really should be beaten. For example, a child lies. Another example is the child's rolling. In this case, parents must expose their purpose in time, and if necessary, they will be beaten and never be soft. Otherwise, the child will definitely pay for his own rules in the future.
In the following three aspects, parents should pay special attention to how precious the child is, and parents should also intervene in time.
First, the child appears to threaten the parents
If your child likes to blackmail his parents no matter what he does, he is not satisfied, even if he cries and makes trouble, rolling on the ground, it means that there is a problem in education, parents must change, and at the same time, the management of children must also be a little cruel, but also clean up, do not let children take the blackmail of parents as a habit. In the future, there will be parents who will suffer.
Second, do not respect the elders
When we find that children have no others in their hearts and do not respect their parents and elders, we must intervene and manage them in time, unless, you do not care what kind of person your children will grow into in the future. Filial piety or filial piety is not a problem. Then please lead by example, become a filial piety to the elderly, and at the same time let the children also respect the old and love the young, with courtesy and courtesy.
Third, wasteful and boring
If you find that the little guy doesn't care about everything when he is not big, both wasteful and idle, it means that the child has a big problem, the parents cannot intervene in time, and the child's future problems will become more and more serious.
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