Yale University research shows that children brought up by fathers tend to have higher IQs, more self-confidence, and better, and will be more likely to succeed after entering society.
WHO research also shows that children who spend more than 2 hours per day with their fathers on average have higher IQs and emotional intelligence. The role of the father has an irreplaceable impact on the child's learning, personality, emotions, quality, physique and other aspects.
If you want to make your child more excellent, as the child grows up, the proportion of parents' companionship will have a huge change and adjustment, and the mother's love will show a decreasing trend and the father's love will show an increasing trend.
What is the difference between a father and a mother with a baby?
For the sake of their children's future, old mothers have also begun to include their fathers as one of the tools for bringing their babies. If moms with babies are warm movies, then dads with babies are action movies, thrillers, and even disaster movies.
Recently saw a set of pictures, especially interesting, put out for everyone to see.
Every scene is familiar, right?
In the matter of fathers and children, the world is simply regardless of race, no borders, and the style of painting is highly unified.
The only difference may be that foreign bear fathers have bigger brains and more outstanding performances.
What are the benefits of a dad with a baby?
Psychologist Gerdy said: "Men are more adventurous, exploratory, tolerant and curious, these characteristics will be vividly reflected in the education of children." ”
What does this mean, Dou Mama to everyone to translate it, definitely seconds to understand!
Because of laziness, children can be more self-reliant:
thirst? Pour yourself water, and pour me a cup by the way.
Because of the big heart, it is more able to cultivate children to be brave and tenacious:
Fell? What a big deal, get up on your own, run two steps will not hurt.
Because the gall is fat, it can cultivate the child's adventurous spirit:
What kind of bug is that? Let's go, let's grab it and have a look. ah! prick the hand! Remember to wear gloves next time.
Because the brain circuits are different, it may give children more updated perspectives:
The same picture book, mom reads is a fairy tale, dad reads may be a war game...
In this way, it is not easy to get to the point of scientists.
Children often depend on their mothers in the small things of daily life, but rely on their fathers in critical periods and major issues of life. Mother-child conversations tend to be meticulous, while father-child conversations are philosophical.
Therefore, in terms of educating children, the use of different ways and roles are different, but they are equally important, indispensable, and it is a 1+1>2 effect.
How to encourage dads to bring more babies?
1 Leave it alone!
Don't worry about the father not doing well, he will never hurt the child.
What kind of children paste, eat and sprinkle on the ground, bath water flood the golden mountain...
Leave it alone!
Let them mess away! Just say well in advance, who pollutes who will clean up, draw a good regional range, and let Dad toss it himself.
Trying is not necessarily done well, but it is not necessarily good to try.
2 Don't get angry!
Come, follow the bean mother silently: kiss the husband kiss the husband kiss the husband ...
No matter what your husband does with the children, don't be in a hurry to get angry.
Going to the park rolling meadows? Dig sand and bury yourself? Learn Paige to tread watering holes?
Don't be angry...
Or that sentence, who pollutes who governs, as long as you come back to take a good bath, throw clothes in the washing machine, these are all small things!
And usually dads are more athletically gifted than women, and they can exercise their children's big sports development by tossing and turning with their babies.
All Mom has to do is let go of her hand!
3 Don't laugh
Not to mention our surroundings, looking at vibrato will find a lot of such mothers:
Dad coaxed the baby to sleep, the baby opened his eyes, and the baby snored violently.
Don't be in a hurry to laugh at Dad, even if you're joking( just laugh silently in your heart...). Hahaha... ）。
Dads themselves are big kids and need encouragement, and "frustration education" often backfires.
Mothers may wish to have a sweet mouth, praise a little more, no advantages to find an angle of hard praise is also OK.
Praise, trust, and anticipation have an energy that makes people confident, gain a positive drive, and try to meet each other's expectations to avoid disappointment.
Therefore, in the matter of parenting, saying more good words is more conducive to "reducing the burden"!