As we all know, now with the development of the economy, people's concepts change, the divorce rate is getting higher and higher, there is no lack of divorced relatives, friends, colleagues, classmates, neighbors, etc., you find that no, some people seem to have never quarreled, it seems that they are also a very happy couple, but divorced, some people are arguing at both ends for three days, but they are not divorced, which is a bit confusing, what is the situation?
There is a neighbor a couple married for 20 years I heard that there has never been a quarrel, but sent their daughter to college to study a few days after returning from a few days to leave, there is a friend and husband and wife are also rarely quarrelsome, it seems that the family marriage is very harmonious, but there is no sign quietly divorced. And there is a distant relative, every three to five are complaining about each other, but also often noisy, in the outsiders look very unbearable marriage, but also think that others will soon divorce, but after a decade or two, the two people are still living well, there is no sign of divorce. Many people can't figure it out, why is this happening?
In fact, many of us only see the appearance, but do not deeply understand the essence of marriage, will not know the truest situation of others. There are two kinds of marriages that are not shocking, either the real calm as water, or the calm water surface contains terrifying waves, more is the latter one, the water in the small pool is very calm, but there is little vitality, the beach is rough, but it will always bring all kinds of vitality, do not communicate the most terrible, most of the hearts of both parties have died, no feelings, and are too lazy to argue, are ready to divorce at any time, and will part ways at the right time.
This kind of marriage is the most terrible, different pillows, do not sleep together, do not walk the heart, do not enter the eyes, do not communicate, like a strange road, blunt knife killing is painful, a knife and two breaks is simply, this type has a lot, three views are not compatible, lazy to communicate! Cold heart, tired not to say, not noisy, in the end husband and wife like strangers, this is called marriage cold violence! Cold violence hurts people the most and hurts the body, in fact, divorce is the best ending, but there are also many people who want to leave, all for the sake of children and outsiders' eyes in the making up.
The ancients said: bedside quarrels at the end of the bed, the most taboo cold violence in marriage, quarrels are to vent mutual resentment, but also a form of communication! Vent, and then comfortable, although most of the time it is difficult to hear, but it does express some of the real usually dare not express the idea, but also with you to quarrel, indicating that you still care, even quarrel do not want to quarrel, indicating that it really does not matter, in this case to say that leaving will really leave, the head does not return to the kind. Noisy and noisy into a habitual family, the woman at most is to earn a face, out of the face of the gas, repeated can always succeed, naturally there will be no trouble, since the ancient love husband and wife is not long, noisy and noisy to the whitehead. Marriage implanted in life, tea rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea, no bump where to romantic? Quarrels still have passion, because they care about quarrels, the days are harmonious, and it is a splendid, calm family, generally there is no passion, the undercurrent is often surging and the probability of change is large.
Now that the economy has developed, both men and women can support themselves, and with economic conditions, the confidence is enough, and there are not a few who part ways without saying a word. Marriage is really a very strange thing, seemingly happy marriage is really vulnerable, seemingly terrible marriage is quite long, really people can't figure it out, don't fight or scold, don't quarrel because it's sad, fight and cry all day long because there is hope for marriage! Noisy and noisy throughout life, life is trivial, life is bumpy.
Marriage is really uncertain, just like some people usually look physically strong and then die suddenly. Some people are entangled in three heights, every day can not be separated from a variety of pills, but can live to seven years old and eighty, is this truth, of course, marriage is not happy they know, different personalities deal with things in different ways, it is difficult to say accurately, you say yes? (The picture comes from the Internet, if there is infringement, please contact the must delete). This article is original by Youtaobang, welcome to pay attention, take you along with long knowledge! Xiaobian throws bricks and leads jade, welcome everyone to express their opinions in the comment area, thank you!