Making friends is not only a need, but also a manifestation of wisdom.
The fact that he can make many friends shows that he is very capable, but it does not mean that he is very wise. On the contrary, he has few friends around him, which can only show that his social willingness is not strong, but it cannot be said that he is not wise.
Friends, it is not that the more the better, but the higher the quality, the better. Just think, do you want to be surrounded by some villains with bad intentions? Definitely not.
An emotional counselor once said that the ones that make you miserable are not your friends. And only those who benefit you a lot are your best friends.
For example, some people want to count you all the time, so what is the meaning of your association with such people? Or, some people are not good, so when you interact with them, isn't it self-inflicted?
People are old, there is no need to interact with too many people. Perhaps, the following 6 types of people are people in temperament, worthy of our deep friendship for a lifetime.
Workplace
01
For appreciating your Bole, it is worth a lifetime of gratitude.
A thousand-mile horse, no matter how strong its ability, needs the appreciation of others. Without Bole, this maxima may not have any good results.
In the workplace, if you can meet a leader who appreciates you, or a leader who promotes you, then you must cherish the friendship of others for you, and do not live up to the expectations of others.
You know, with the support of Bole, less struggle for ten years. And without the support of Bole, or unable to stand out for a lifetime.
Dealing with others in the workplace, or to talk about "utilitarianism". Wasting time on unnecessary people is nothing more than a waste of one's own energy and resources. Not worth it.
02
For the teacher or senior who cultivated you, it is worth a lifetime of gratitude.
Professor Zeng Shiqiang said that in this life, people only need to have good parents, good partners, good teachers and good chiefs, and that is enough.
In fact, the "good teacher" mentioned here is not the person who teaches you empty knowledge in the school, but the workplace master who takes you as an apprentice and teaches you real skills.
Although this statement is a bit unpleasant, it is particularly realistic. The people who teach you vague knowledge, no matter how you learn, are all wandering around in the pavilions. Only when people who have practiced teach you by hand can you have great gains.
Therefore, cherish the person who mentions you in the post, that is the noble person in your life.
Social
03
The person who sends charcoal to you in the snow is worth a lifetime.
In this world, it is easy to add flowers to the cake, and it is difficult to send charcoal in the snow.
There was once a celebrity who, when he was not yet in the background, basically no one would pay attention to him. However, a friend particularly appreciated him and gave him a sum of money to start a business.
In the end, the celebrity was successful in starting a business, and his friends also made a lot of money, and their assets increased by more than ten or twenty times.
In fact, the more difficult times you are, the more you can see who is a false friend and who is a true person. Sincerely, he will not look down on you because you are humble. On the contrary, he will pay special attention to your friendship with him.
Some people, in their lifetime, will never meet a person who sends charcoal in the snow. If you can meet them, then you may as well cherish them. At the very least, they are the nobles who push you uphill.
04
Friends who have been friends with you for more than ten or twenty years are worth making friends for a lifetime.
Some argue that the vast majority of friendships last no more than three years.
In fact, there are many friends who will disappear after we change jobs or encounter problems. At this time, those friends who have been friends for more than ten or twenty years are particularly precious.
Some people meet at the age of 30, but they are still friends at the age of 60. People like this who have deep feelings, even beyond ordinary friendship, are a blessing from God that we can never discard.
In this world, it is very simple to meet a real villain, but it is very difficult to meet a true friend. Maybe you can't find it with a lantern.
Family
05
Loved ones who are really good to you are worth dating for a lifetime.
Relatives, in fact, can be divided into relatives who are not good, and can also be divided into relatives who are pushing your heart.
You know, the gap between relatives and relatives, that's huge. Familiar strangers, that's relatives. And people who are familiar and related are relatives.
Some relatives will help us when we are down, and some relatives will step on us a few times when we are down. Who is a man and who is a wolf, we must distinguish clearly.
For our loved ones, we naturally have to treat each other sincerely, that is a kind of conscience. As for the wolf, then we must not be merciful, but we must fight back fiercely.
Man must not become a weak and indistinguishable soft sheep, which will harm himself.
06
A partner who truly loves you is worth a lifetime together.
The biggest difference between lovers and partners is that lovers are hypocritical after all, either for money or for beauty. And the partner is a comrade-in-arms who can accompany us for a lifetime.
There was once a big boss who, after his discovery, still stuck to his heart, did not leave the wife of the chaff and even treated his wife who was already old and fading.
His peers are particularly puzzled, after a man gets rich, should he not find a few more lovers? Why do you have to guard your wife, who is already old?
The boss said that no one would be by my side when I was down, including you. If I hadn't made a mark, you and I wouldn't have met. Perhaps, the most cherished thing is to accompany your lover silently.
Cherish the one who never abandons him/her, perhaps, he is the noble person you will spend the rest of your life.
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