Time always allows us to see many things clearly, and it always makes us see people's hearts clearly.
Sometimes, when we first contact a person, we may feel that the other party is good, but after a period of contact, we may find that the other party is not the same as imagined, or even completely different.
Maybe the other party is too good at disguise, or it is possible that people have many faces, and they don't encounter some things, and they can't see clearly at all.
Originally, if we were just talking to each other in a more ordinary way, too many things would be hidden, and we would not be able to see them at all.
Occasionally, we will inevitably look at some people wrongly, and we will make the mistake of paying some sincerity, but it is precisely because of this that the mistakes we have made, the truths that are not so good, make us understand better who is really worthy of dealing with.
In life, one day we will find that too many people are not so worthy, and too many friendships cannot stand the test.
There are never many people who can make us feel worthy, that lies in character, but also in each other's souls and dispositions.
Be able to communicate and accept each other as the truest.
The more people we come into contact with, we will clearly perceive that in front of many people, we simply cannot confide our hearts.
Because they are not on the same channel at all, there is no way to communicate, because the other party is always on top and has a very superior look, because the other party will always be jealous and laugh at us.
There is no way to chat with a person, say some real feelings, such a person, let alone a lifetime, even if it is only occasionally to get along, we will only feel very uncomfortable, simply can not get along well, and will not be willing to communicate at all.
Long-term comfortable relationships, that is never dependent on bondage, but on commonality and attraction.
That is to say, each other appreciates each other, agrees with each other, and can show their truest side in front of each other.
When we tell each other the truest thoughts, whether it is good or bad, the other party will not criticize us in various ways, when the other party has seen our worst appearance, it will still not be disgusted, or will think that we are cute, very real, and it does not matter.
Being able to communicate your true voice well and be your own person in front of each other is the person we have been in contact with.
You can sincerely give each other a blessing, will not laugh at each other, when together, each other will be very relaxed.
Consistent in appearance, always maintaining us.
In real life, too many people, in front of us, he is a different look, behind us, it is another look.
In front of us, they will speak very well, and they will look like they value us, but behind us, they will say that we are not, and all kinds of people will say that we are right and wrong.
Not only will we talk with others, but when others make us very unbearable, we will only coax with others, and we will never stand on our side or stop those people.
It seems that the relationship with us is very good, but he who talks about us the most behind the scenes and says the most bad things about us happens to be him.
No matter how sincere a person like this is when he is with us, he never really takes us seriously, let alone takes us in his heart, and often just is very hostile to us.
He is hypocritical, and he has never really regarded us as friends, and when we are such a two-faced and three-faced person, we must stay away.
On the contrary, if a person is very kind to us when he is in front of us, where we do not know, it is the same, and he does not want others to say bad things about us, he will always protect us well, and we must of course cherish this feeling.
People who can match their words and deeds, who are always the same kind of person, that is the good character of others, and he really cares about us.
When needed, be willing to send charcoal in the snow.
There are often people who sigh, thinking that there are many people who care about themselves, many people who think that they are sincere to themselves, and many people who think that they are friends, but once they are in trouble, they find that this is not the case.
In this life, when the scenery is beautiful, there will always be a lot of people around us, and there will be many people icing on the cake, but when they are down, many people will only leave in a hurry, and they will never know us and have never intersected with us.
There are never many people who can really give us a help and give us charcoal in the snow.
And it is these few people who will not leave even if we are in a bad situation, and when we need money, we can be generous, that is the really important person, and it is worth cherishing.
Willing to help us, not because he has more money, not that he likes to be nosy, but in his heart, we have more weight.
At the low point, no one helps us, we are not good at saying anything, but there are such people, we must know how to be grateful.
Always remember the help they gave us, the kindness they gave us, in the days to come, don't easily lose such people, always treat well, and go well with each other.
People who deserve to be together all the time must not only share prosperity, but should be able to enjoy the best together, and can bear the worst together.
Everyone's life, more or less, will seem a little lonely.
So it's really nice to have someone walking with us.
However, the people who want to walk with us should not be able to do it, we still have to know how to screen.
Be with people who feel comfortable with yourself, with people who know how to protect us, with people who can bear some of the storms with us.
Only such people will be more sincere in their affection and more comfortable together.
Of course, when the other person is worthy, we must not fail the other party.
A lot of relationships, a lot of things, that is mutual after all, the other party is worth it, we cherish, the feelings can really be long-lasting.
Text/Tan Meng
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