Zhengzhou Traditional Chinese Medical Hall: Nowadays, this family has two kinds of "sandwich biscuits". The first is the son between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law, and the second is the ego between the parents and the child. Whether it is sweet or bitter, only the person concerned knows. Can you only get angry in the face of immature parents? Many adults quarrel with their parents, but in fact, it is just a quarrel between the older children and the older children.
Why do children work so hard with their parents?
Many people get angry when communicating with their parents, or they can't stand their parents' emotions. In fact, it is because their parents have been very strong and unreasonable since they were young, so they have never had the opportunity to be respected. Although I have grown up, once I get along with my parents, I feel that my parents are not like my parents at all, but I can't be a parent myself. To put it bluntly, it is actually a quarrel between the older child and the older child.
Always blame the mother.
In fact, the lunch box was hidden by a naughty classmate. Because his family was poor, his mother only brought pickles, and his classmates laughed at him. The boss in the class asked him to drive, but he refused. And he said, "Remember for me." Then he finished eating and went back to clean, and the lunch box was gone.
However, when the mother's family is in trouble, she is under a lot of pressure. She lost a stainless steel lunch box. She thought she would spend dozens of dollars to buy it, so she was in a hurry, afraid of being scolded by her father. Therefore, her mother beating the child is actually venting the pressure of the family, and there is no place for each other.
Willing to accept imperfect parents
The only way to get to know each other is if this generation can say: Okay! I just didn't get the ideal parents. We can accept that our parents didn't give us what we deserved, but we grew up, so we started going back and treating him like a child. Once you jump into this state of mind, knowing that your parents are stuck in something, that there are difficulties and limitations, and that your inner maturity is not as high as yours. On the other hand, if you look at it with this attitude, you will have the opportunity to reconcile with your parents.