Zhengzhou Traditional Chinese Medicine Hall: Wayward children are similar in the eyes of their parents: crying in order to achieve their goals makes their parents exhausted. Some parents scolded and didn't work; some parents let go, but the children still didn't give up. The parents only lamented: they are all only children, too spoiled. I've never heard of anything like this before.
Maybe that's not the case.
As the physiology develops, the child is gradually exposed to more things. Whether these things are right or wrong, they can't make decisive decisions like adults, but can only compete with their own emotions and interests, even if these things are often unfavorable, unfavorable, or harmful to him.
However, parents mostly consider the results of their children's participation with an adult mindset, completely ignoring the emotions and interests of children's participation. In fact, this kind of emotion and interest is the psychological need of children who want to contact more new things.
Children in the embryonic stage of independence want to do everything themselves and want to get a thorough understanding, which is originally a good thing. However, this "hands-on" mentality is often manifested in reality. This willfulness is essentially a rebellious psychology of the parents, and its root cause lies in the parents' initial lack of attention to his psychological needs.
In the face of this situation, parents must not simply treat their children as wayward children. As long as parents understand the psychological needs of their children, recognize their children, and pay enough attention to their children.