Zhengzhou Traditional Chinese Medical Hall: When the child is about two years old, his self-awareness begins to become stronger, so he will change from the previous "little obedient" to a helpless "little devil". He always likes to start with a "no" and his favorite thing is to respond with a "no" in front of your command.
So how should parents discipline their children during this period?
(1) Remember not to be too democratic.
A lot of parents seem democratic. They discuss everything with the child. Shall we go to dinner? Shall we brush our teeth together? In this case the child will answer "No!" "Then you start to lose your temper or be reasonable, and the baby won't listen."
(2) Let the child do multiple choice questions.
Before asking your child, give him two options in a way that you can accept! Like do you want to eat rice or noodles? Do we go out now or five minutes later?
Of course, some children will give extra answers, and you can clearly tell him that this is not within the scope of the choice, and then repeat your proposition carefully. In fact, many times, children do not want to cause too much impact on their parents. Usually at this time, they will choose according to their own range.
On the one hand, this can give the child a good guide, on the other hand, let the child feel that you respect him very much, and have a sense of being the master!
(3) Don't always communicate in a commanding tone.
For example: don't throw toys around! In fact, you just said, "Babies should put away their toys!" He was more willing to accept this sentence.
If the parents are rude, the child will learn from your rudeness and then will endlessly "fight violence with violence", so the parents will first change 1%, and then the baby will change 99%.
(4) Give your child time to prepare.
Although the child mainly plays, this is also his "job". If you rudely stop, he must stop immediately. You should give him some time to respond.
For example, remind us as early as possible before going out, and we will be out after 5 minutes! Another example: "Go wash your hands and eat!" Don't rub it! "Baby, in five minutes we'll be eating!" ”
Think about which way your child would prefer to accept it? Different ways of communicating naturally lead to different results!
(5) Let more people participate in the growth of children.
The child is not born to the mother, but the child who is raised with one hand has already figured out the mother's temperament, so it is easy to win in the "battle of wits and courage".
If the father can communicate with the child more, no discipline, no need to be reasonable, as long as he plays with him and shows him, he will naturally understand what the rules are and what are the rules!