Zhengzhou Traditional Chinese Medical Hall: Many people want to have good interpersonal relationships, but for various reasons they can't. So why do we have to cultivate good interpersonal relationships and get along well with others? It can be said that a good interpersonal environment contributes to the all-round development and healthy growth of the individual. Therefore, how to cultivate interpersonal relationships is very important. In general, the cultivation of interpersonal relationships should start small:
The first step is to develop language skills.
For children, due to the particularity of their own age stage, their thinking is simpler and more direct. Children with strong language skills have a better chance of standing out in communication than children with poor language expression skills, because they can make others better understand themselves and identify with them, so as to have an advantage in communication. Therefore, parents should pay special attention to the cultivation of children's language expression ability. This includes statement training, clarity training, and language coherence training. Only by doing these trainings well can children express themselves more completely and clearly, and have a certain advantage in communication.
Second, overcome timidity and shyness.
Many parents often find that their children can talk at home and speak very well, but when they go outside or in unfamiliar environments, they either blush, or can't say what they have said before, or simply shut up. Mainly children are timid and shy.
Third, cultivate self-confidence.
Self-confidence comes from the nature of children, but often in the day after tomorrow's life, some children's self-confidence will be weakened for various reasons. Self-confidence is very important in interpersonal communication. A person does not have to be beautiful, does not necessarily have a very moving voice, and does not even have a healthy body. However, as long as he is confident, he will always unconsciously touch the hearts of others. Self-confidence is a message that is inadvertently sent from the inside out, full of power and charm in interpersonal relationships.
Fourth, teach children to appreciate others.
In fact, this is the opposite of the principle of interpersonal communication. Everyone wants to be supported and recognized in communication, and so do children. In the process of interaction, the child always has a good feeling for the person who is good to him. We should educate our children. Since we have such demands on our friends in our hearts, the other party will inevitably make such demands on us. This requires us to praise others while expecting more praise, so that children learn to appreciate others. This is very important for many children, just because many families' children are only children, and children often enjoy praise in a well-nurtured family environment, and neglect how to appreciate others.