Why does the child only listen to the mother, but the old man can't shout?

Why do some old people always complain that "why do children only listen to their mothers and not listen to me".

In Li Danyang's "Your Parent-Child Relationship Is Worth Tens of Millions", the mother of rice cakes tells the secret.

Who does the child listen to?

Someone with whom he has a good relationship.

How can I have a good relationship with my child?

That is to play with him, to do interesting things with him, to make him feel "with mom and dad, I am very happy", this is the concentration of parent-child relationship.

If you're a working mom, you can play a little game with your child after work, before he goes to bed.

Or, before going to sleep, read a picture book with your child and talk about what interesting things happened at the end of the day.

This parent-child interaction time before going to bed is an investment in the parent-child relationship and the highest attention and companionship for children.

What will be the result of insisting on parent-child interaction before going to bed?

Although the elderly at home spend a lot of time taking care of their children at home, working mothers spend less time on their children than the elderly because of work, but working mothers only need to give their children the highest attention and companionship after work, and the emotional connection with children is not worse than that of the elderly.

Because the old man is very hard to take care of the child, but her time is spent on sweeping, washing, cooking, she pays attention to the child is not cold, hungry, concerned only about the child's physiological level of satisfaction, and the mother can do the second layer, and the child play, read picture books, chat, so that each other's emotional connection is closer.

This is why the children only listen to the mother, but the old people can't shout.

Dr. Laura tells us that building the ideal intimate relationship with the child is the only key to the peace of the parents and the happiness of the child.

The relationship problem is solved, many families have parenting conflicts, and even war will not happen.

This also solves the anxiety of many mothers who cannot balance the workplace and parenting.

If you spend less time with your child, will your child really not be able to manage it well?

The choice of the mother of the rice cake is to spend time on the blade, which is to maintain the parent-child relationship.

To sum up, who does your child like to listen to?

The man who has a good relationship with him! Spending time on the blade and maintaining a good parent-child relationship is a compulsory course for every parent.