Jiang Kun has two children, one named Jiang Shan and the other named Jiang He.
As a father, Jiang Kun watched his children's career getting better and better, his daughter Jiang Shan's film and television culture company was thriving, and his son Jiang He also fell in the acrobatic industry.
But just when everyone was happy that Jiang Kun had two obedient children, he posted a "search notice" on the street to help his son Jiang He find his biological parents?
It turned out that Jiang He was not Jiang Kun's biological son, but an orphan he adopted in a welfare home 23 years ago. For more than twenty years, Jiang Kun regarded his adoptive father as more qualified than his biological father.
How did they get together, and has Jiang He found his biological parents now?
In October 1998, as the leader of the China Radio Rap Troupe, Jiang Kun led Feng Gong, Dai Zhicheng and others to the Beijing Social Welfare Institute to hold a "send warmth" activity.
Because the children in the welfare home have not experienced the warmth of the family, they each have to bring home an orphan from the welfare home and let them experience the warmth of the family for a week.
The child that Jiang Kun was holding at that time was a 6-year-old boy named Xie Tan.
Abandoned by his parents since childhood, Xie Tan grew up in an orphanage, skinny, with charred hair and bulging eyes that made his face look small.
Jiang Kun looked at the child in his arms, and his eyes were full of pain.
Probably because he also had children, he had more compassion for such poor children.
At that time, because her daughter was sent abroad to study, his wife Li Jingming also went abroad to take care of her children.
In the big house, Jiang Kun and a nanny are left.
So after Jiang Kun took Xie Tan home, he added more warmth, Jiang Kun took good care of him, personally boiled porridge for him, covered him with a quilt at night, and told him stories when he couldn't sleep.
The magnetic voice and the back of Wei An made this 6-year-old child realize for the first time what fatherly love is, and slowly let go of the estrangement and strangeness in his heart.
Even if Xie Tan always brushed his hair and poked his ears, Jiang Kun would not be angry, and even the two of them always laughed when they sat together.
But a week soon came, Jiang Kun told him that I was going to send you back, xie Tan pouted with tears in his eyes. He hugged Jiang Kun and said, "I'm not leaving, I'm going to stay with you." ”
The child's true feelings made Jiang Kun's heart soften, thinking about what the child had experienced, maybe he really longed for a home.
In the evening, Jiang Kun dialed his wife Li Jingming's phone and told her about his desire to adopt the child.
Unexpectedly, my wife said strongly: "How old are we, and we already have a daughter, I am afraid that it will be impossible to raise another son."
After listening to his wife's words, Jiang Kun did not sleep well all night, thinking about the crying of the child during the day, he was very distressed.
Early the next morning, Xie Tan stood outside the door early, waiting for the people from the welfare home to pick him up.
Sensible, he saw Jiang Kun's embarrassment and decided to leave.
When the people in the welfare home were about to arrive, Jiang Kun suddenly rushed out and took Xie Tan's small hand and said, "Child, I will be your father in the future, do you agree?" ”
Xie Tan didn't mention how happy he was to hear this, threw away the things in his hand, and jumped around saying that I have a father, I have a father.
Seeing that the child was so happy, Jiang Kun could no longer send him back to the welfare home, and his determination to adopt this child was getting stronger and stronger.
Not long after, Jiang Kun took the child to go through the adoption procedures and officially named the child Jiang He.
When he came out, Jiang Kun took Jiang He's hand and said, "From today onwards, you will be a part of our family, and I will be your father from now on."
Jiang He pinched his hand, and worried that he was dreaming, it turned out that all this was true.
However, if you want to truly become a member of the family, you must pass Li Jingming's level.
During the summer vacation, Li Jingming returned home with her daughter, and when she saw that the name Of Jiang He had been written into the household registration book, she was very angry and asked Jiang Kun: "Such a big thing, why don't you discuss it with me?" ”
In order to make his wife accept the child, Jiang Kun told her about Jiang He's origins, hoping to get her consent.
Jiang He is also able to observe the color, and at Jiang Kun's suggestion, she timidly called out "Mother".
However, Li Jingming, who was still angry, did not buy it at all, and ran upstairs in a huff.
At that time, Jiang He understood that "Mother" did not like herself.
In order to make her change her attitude, Jiang He circled around Li Jingming all day long.
When he learned that she was going out, he quickly ran to the front to get her shoes, and when he saw that she was going to water the flowers, he handed her the watering kettle, Li Jingming always had leg pain because of arthritis, and Jiang He ran to give her a massage.
Li Jingming, who used to always roar at him, was finally moved.
While Jiang He was still pressing her legs, she hugged him and said, "I'm sorry child, I was not good before."
Li Jingming was stimulated by this adopted child to love his mother, and he cried uncontrollably with excitement and said to him: "In the future, my mother will definitely be as good to you as my father."
The two of them hugged each other and cried.
And this scene was just seen by Jiang Kun, who had just returned home, and his heart did not mention how warm it was.
Once, Jiang He couldn't stop coughing, his lips were purple, and Jiang Kun and his wife were very distressed when they saw him, and rushed him to the hospital.
Doctors said he had severe bronchitis and that allowing it to develop would not only affect the child's development, but would also be life-threatening.
Both of them were stunned when they heard these words, and quickly asked the doctor to help cure him.
Because Jiang Kun was too busy with work to take care of the children, Li Jingming took the initiative to say let her take care of it.
In those days, Li Jingming stayed with the child at all times, and slept in a narrow bed at night.
After his condition improved, Li Jingming took him home and personally gave her boiling medicine to drink, and Jiang He was getting better and better under the care of his adoptive parents.
The relationship between mother and son is also getting better and better at getting along day and night.
Later, Jiang He was sent to school to study, and Jiang Kun would be called to the school every few days, because Jiang He not only had poor academic performance, but also was very naughty, either climbing trees or digging bird nests.
Jiang Kun was also very angry and always taught him to study well, but Jiang He did not seem to listen to advice.
One day, Jiang Kun's good friend Niu Herd came to the house as a guest, and Jiang He was writing homework in the room under the supervision of his mother.
The cattle said they wanted to see his son, so Jiang Kun called out to him.
Jiang He jumped out of the room three times, jumped on the handrail of the stairs with an arrow step, and slipped down.
At first glance, this child is really flexible and active.
Jiang Kun scratched the back of his head, active is active, that is, his academic performance is not good.
The cattle patted their heads: "You let him learn acrobatics, such a flexible hand, it is definitely a good seedling."
Jiang Kun suddenly woke up to the general, yes, cultivate children's hobbies in order to make him develop better.
So I asked him, "Is it okay for Daddy to send you to learn acrobatics?"
Jiang He was very happy to hear it and said, "It's so good, you can perform acrobatics on TV like your big brother in the future."
In 2002, Jiang Kun sent his child to Shenyang National Art School.
Jiang Kun thought about staying here for a few days, waiting for the child to familiarize himself with the environment and then go back.
In those days, he watched his son practice under the guidance of the coach, and his toes were broken to "creak", and Jiang Kun was so distressed that he almost cried.
He didn't want his children to suffer this sin, but if he didn't experience this, how could he support himself in the future? So Jiang Kun gritted his teeth and left the training hall.
Two years later, Jiang He finally learned something, not only winning awards in various competitions, but also performing in front of Jiang Kun from time to time.
Such a Jiang River made Jiang Kun and his wife very pleased.
However, after a little fame, Jiang He, because he had not experienced too many things, suddenly so many honors were added, making him more and more floating.
In the past, Jiang Kun gave Jiang He more than 800 living expenses every month, and sometimes Jiang He was still too much to use.
But now, Jiang He felt that 800 was not enough to spend, and Jiang Kun wanted 1500 living expenses every month.
Of course, Jiang Kun found the clues, he found that after his son contacted more and more people, he spent more and more unrestrained money, always liked to spend money to invite others to eat, and also loved to show his achievements.
Jiang Kun did not say these things.
After Jiang He returned from school, he thought that the family would greet him warmly, but when he returned home, there were only three simple dishes and one soup, and his sister Jiang Shan, who had just returned.
The family's expression was solemn, and Jiang He seemed to feel that something was wrong, and sat there without a word.
Jiang Kun talked about Jiang Shan's days of studying abroad, saying that her sister was very thrifty and had excellent academic performance.
Jiang He felt that his father was saying that he was spending a lot of money, so Jiang He cried and said, "Compared with my sister, I have too many shortcomings, and I must study hard in the future."
The husband and wife looked at each other and smiled, and the son finally matured.
After understanding things, Jiang He did not spend money indiscriminately, and he studied harder.
In 2005, Jiang He was admitted to the Soldier Acrobatic Troupe of the Guangzhou Military Region with excellent results and became an excellent acrobat. Later, he grew into an acrobatic backbone actor.
No matter when Jiang He won the award, he would mention his father, Jiang Kun, "I am very grateful to him over the years, and I will definitely repay him well in the future."
In fact, Jiang Kun also went to the performance of Jiang He, and after hearing these words offstage, he did not know how relieved he was.
But for so many years, Jiang He's heart has always had a problem that bothered him.
Who the biological parents are, what they look like, and how well they are doing well.
Because he was worried that his adoptive father Jiang Kun would not be happy, he never said it.
Once Jiang Kun saw Jiang He sitting there alone and sullen, so he went over and asked him what was wrong.
Jiang He refused to say, Jiang Kun took his hand and said, "We regard you as a son, and if you are unhappy, just say it."
Jiang He muttered, "I have only now discovered that many children in the orphanage have found their biological parents."
After saying that, he lowered his head and did not dare to look at Jiang Kun.
Of course, Jiang Kun knew that his son was looking for his biological parents.
After returning home, Jiang Kun told his wife Li Jingming about the incident, and the two decided to help him find his biological parents after discussion.
With the help of Jiang Kun and his wife, there were two times when couples who resembled Jiang He's biological parents came to him. Although everything was right, Jiang Kun was still not at ease and took them to do a paternity test.
It was finally determined that none of them were Jiang He's biological parents.
For these things that Jiang Kun did, Jiang He was all in his eyes, and he thanked this adoptive father from the bottom of his heart.
So he told Jiang Kun and Li Jingming: "Whether you can find your biological parents in the future, you are my greatest parents, and I will always honor you."
After 23 years, Jiang He is no longer so attached to the matter of his biological parents.
Perhaps the moment his biological parents left him, they did not intend to find him again in the future, so Jiang He was also relieved.
He just wants to work hard and repay his adoptive parents Jiang Kun and Li Jingming in the future.
When Jiang Kun decided to adopt this child many years ago, he may not have the luxury of repaying himself in the future, but after 23 years, this child has become more and more excellent, and it has become their pride and pride.