Taking children out as guests is a frequent thing to do, which can not only allow children to see the outside world more, but also increase children's verbal communication skills.
But it is still a child who is a child, so many times the "truth" spoken by the child will make people feel embarrassed, and this time will have some impact on the atmosphere.
On this day, Ms. Wang took her children to play with her old classmates.
Because the old classmate has just moved here, so he has not bought a big house, he plans to buy a small house first, and then change to a larger one when the family life is more abundant in the future.
But it was because of this house that it caused a small orgasm when they met.
As soon as he entered the door, the child greeted everyone first, and when he sat down, the child blurted out: "Auntie, your house is so small." This sentence made Ms. Wang feel unable to answer the conversation for a while, and the old classmate's face also showed an embarrassed look.
But just when the whole scene was quiet, the child said another word, and the child said: "But the aunt is so diligent, the house is clean and clean, and I want such a home when I grow up." ”
After the child finished speaking, the atmosphere began to come alive again, and everyone present praised the child's high emotional intelligence.
In fact, it is very common for children to say something that we did not expect. Because the child's thinking itself is different from that of adults, and the child will not look at the occasion, but just feel that he wants to say it.
Although the words spoken by children are sometimes embarrassing, it is the most basic to let children have a good heart and not to hurt others. As long as the child has this awareness, there will not be too much wrong.
Do you know what to do?
1. Start from the small things in life and give children the correct awareness
Some parents feel that what their children say in front of their families does not need to care, as long as the children are happy. But in fact, the words and deeds of children at home will continue to live outside the home.
After a child develops a habit at home, it is easy to hurt people in their interactions with other people.
Although the speech atmosphere at home is relatively casual, those offensive words and hurtful words, it is best not to let the child develop the habit of speaking. Parents should let their children have a kind, unbreakable heart.
2. Pay attention to your own education style when your child is not inferior
When the child is hurting, the mother should remember to let the child apologize to others. Only the child's sincere apology can make the child deeply understand his own wrongs, which will also help the child's future character shaping.
Not only that, when the child makes a mistake, don't rush to educate the child in public, after all, the child also needs self-respect. After returning home, it is more conducive to children to correct their shortcomings.
To be precise, it is not too much of a mistake for a child to say the wrong thing, and the cultivation of emotional intelligence cannot be completed overnight.
Those children with high emotional intelligence have a common feature in the process of education, that is, parents are very patient and can always consciously cultivate their children.
Therefore, perseverance is the most critical place in education, this one is effective whether it is for the child's personality or the child's emotional intelligence, bao dad and mother cheer ah!