There is an unreasonable mother, what to do? Yesterday afternoon, the little sister called and said that the cousin who had not been here for many years the day before yesterday had come to the house, brought a cousin's child, and took less than one value

There is an unreasonable mother, what to do?

Yesterday afternoon, the little sister called and said that the cousin who had not come to visit the New Year for many years the day before yesterday had come to the house, brought a cousin's child, took something worth less than a hundred, and the mother wrapped two hundred red envelopes. It was good to have a back and forth, but the problem was on the pack of lychees that I brought. When the cousin went back, the mother took the things in and put them in, and this one saw that the lychee had been eaten, and there were shells and nuclei in them [laughing and crying]

This was unbearable, immediately angry, let the eighty-year-old father send it back, and also threw a few harsh words to the cousin. The cousin himself did not know, and quickly took other things to make up for it, and was sent back by his father. Then the aunt came to the door to apologize again, and was scolded back by the mother. This is still not angry, and even ran to the aunt's house to scold...

As soon as I heard the little sister talk about the situation, I felt that there was a high probability that the child had eaten it secretly, afraid that the adults would find out, so they would put the shell and the core back in and seal it. Such a simple thing, but in the first month of the song sang this big drama, making everyone in the village know. And no matter how much we persuade us, we just don't listen to a word.

People say that their mothers are the closest, what can be said casually, quarrel a few times will not be assured. Our family is just the opposite, my sister and I have been afraid of my mother since childhood, and we have been scolded when it is not right, and we have never had an affirmation, in short, we are not as good as other people's children. If something is said that is not in line with her wishes, then cry, make trouble, hang herself, and the whole family will be restless. So we agreed with Dad: we could only let her.

My grandmother died of illness when my mother was four years old, and she was fostered in her uncle's house, so she developed an inferior and sensitive personality. When I was a child, I was much more depressed, and when I got married, I broke out. In her eyes, no one else but herself was good. Those closest neighbors were also offended by my mother one by one, and rarely interacted. I thought that when I got older, I would slowly soften up, but I thought about it and became more intense.

More than twenty years of diabetes, but eat everything, including sweets such as frozen rice candy. My sister and I kept advising her and never listened. Say: If you listen to the doctor's this can not eat that can not eat, will be dead a long time ago.

Our family is just two sisters, not having a son has become a lifelong heart disease of the mother, always feel inferior. Therefore, my sister and I, on the one hand, want to prove that our daughter is not worse than the boy, and on the other hand, we want to get the affirmation of our parents through hard work. After going to work, all salaries are handed in. And I, in order to change the state of the family, went to Singapore to work, and all the money was taken home to build a house for the old couple.

As for the little sister, it is close to home, and as long as there is some food, take it home. Although nine times out of ten, I was disliked by my mother, but I still took some food.

My sister and I grew up being scolded by my mother since childhood, and for a long time we were very inferior, until we slowly adjusted after starting a family. But the character is not strong, will not quarrel at all, will only be cruel to themselves.

The father in his eighties is often scolded like a grandson and does not dare to say a word. Chinese New Year's Eve call home, just after the argument, my father lost a cruel sentence: such a life is not as good as death. Old Mother Liso answered: Then you hurry up!

But when it was mom's turn, no one in our family dared to put this sentence, not afraid of ten thousand, just in case.

Sometimes I really can't understand, the house is the eldest daughter built in full, the younger daughter is always on call near home, the two old landless insurance adds up to 5,000 pieces per month, are seventy or eighty years old, how do you have to three days two chickens flying dogs jump to find death and find life [tears].

It is said that there is an old treasure in the family, but to be honest, this baby in the family and my sister can't eat it!

Friends give a trick [To make a move]

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