Today, when I grow up, I have seen that the original human flower heart, whether male or female, is because of genes. Men want to pass on their excellent genes, while women want to find a good gene for their children to pass on.
But there are still dedicated and loyal species like voles in the animal kingdom. That's because they have two oxytocins and another particularly technical term called what they're calling, making them the only option, and once they've identified a female or a male vole, they'll be particularly attentive.
It is also very ridiculous to say that we are high-level animals, and many people in the male group have this gene for flowers, and women also have it.
It is only in the promotion and development of human civilization, after a large number of social activities, that we have a high degree of binding force, many national policies and the needs of our human emotions, let us begin to focus on a person single-mindedly, so that we can obtain great psychological security and stability and longer-term happiness.
With the development of human civilization to this day, the opening of the country's door and the opening of reform have allowed us to see and learn the kind of freedom and openness of Western countries.
But human feelings are all community, it has a unique attribute, exclusivity and the privilege of possession, it will be dissatisfied, jealous, and even angry when the lover and partner have other feelings for another person.
This is the emotion of others, which has violated their own sense of security, made themselves distrustful of their lovers, and have a sense of fear of their own boundaries.
Whether it is moral constraints, or legal sanctions, or the constraints of rules, everyone must have long-term stable emotions, which is more conducive to people's physical and mental health, rather than arbitrary, which is the need of human civilization and the needs of social progress and evolution.
Men and women should not let go of their emotions because they have such a factor in their genes, see one love one, abandon one and find another, but should have a high sense of responsibility, since they have determined that a person loves a person, they must be responsible for their lives, but also for their own happiness and others' happiness considerations, to do a good job of long-term tolerance and patience, the management of gender feelings.
Although the heart of the gene cannot be erased and disappeared at once, we humans have a high degree of self-discipline and rational constraints, so we can also put a fence around our feelings and treat our own emotional life as a home with peace of mind, rather than being moved by wildflowers outside.
Although loving one person for a lifetime may seem a bit monotonous, it greatly guarantees that two people can soar freely in a relatively stable and free space.
You can try to get two people to have common hobbies, to do all kinds of interesting interactions on the largest possible scale, to have responsibilities, to be responsible, to have obligations, and to grow more.
The need to grow together will make us deeper and deeper in the same relationship.
If most of us humans do not have such as oxytocin and other inhibitors to resist external temptations, we can use our high degree of rationality and profound cognition, and after weighing the pros and cons between love and desire, we can make rational and clear and decisive choices, let us guard our lifelong love and guard our happiness.
Don't make excuses to say that it is the nature of some people to spend their hearts, and everyone can resist this improper temptation from this self-discipline construction and higher level of emotional awareness.
Love a person all your life, white head and old age, this is the most romantic thing, let us move towards such an ideal direction, in real life bit by bit, in the midst of many beautiful, let them build the longest and most lasting happiness for us.
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