There is such a hot topic, why are many young people in their early twenties eager to become so-called winners in life?
Why are young people in their early twenties eager to become winners in life? I think it's probably because the pressure from society and around me is too great. After reading too many stories of successful people on social media, it is inevitable that you will feel that you have to hurry up and achieve something. In addition, friends show their achievements and lives one by one, and it is inevitable that they are not anxious.
The family also has high expectations, always looking forward to their children's early grades, and this pressure pushes them to run forward. With modern social and economic pressures, high housing prices, rising prices, and fierce competition for jobs, who doesn't want to succeed early and live a good life sooner?
I think we all have a need for self-fulfillment in our hearts, and we want to prove ourselves through success. But this pursuit of quick success can sometimes overlook the process of growing up, and instead bring more anxiety and stress. There's nothing wrong with pursuing success, but it's also important to remember to maintain balance and focus on mental health.
Netizens also fried the pot
- Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty became an emperor in 20, and Kangxi became an emperor at the age of 8. Now that he is in his 20s, he has not become an emperor, and he is afraid to go out. [covers face] [covers face]
- Those middle-aged people who have a mid-life crisis, when they are young, are just as anxious, eager to succeed, and strive for progress, and they are no worse than us. But most people end up still being ordinary. This is normal, success has always belonged to a few. So there's nothing wrong with being anxious, it's just helpless. Of course, you can't just be an indifferent person. The passion and pressure that comes with aspiration are sometimes necessary for success.
- I think the idea of becoming famous as soon as possible is deeply ingrained in the minds of almost all students, but this idea leads to boundless fantasies during the school days and discouragement and early discouragement after graduation. This world is full of all kinds of impetuousness, all about survivor deviations. Those people are not necessarily elites, too many luck factors. Then how to work steadily, step by step, and slowly become rich is the method that the general public should see.
- I used to think that material things are important because I value them too much, but now I think it's good to have money, at least I can have a place to live, the people I love don't have to work so hard, my children have books to read, and my parents can support their old age with peace of mind. It's not that we're getting tacky, but we all have to live well, and because money is important, we have to try to make it unimportant, don't we?
- When a smart person can't go on this road, he will understand it, and if he can't understand it, it will become more and more painful. Most people live in the world, and most of them can't help themselves.
- How many of us are born without a strong backing as armor and no extraordinary talent, so what should we do? Do you admit it? When there are no fewer people, if you are still young, you have recognized the best age, in fact, you have recognized your life, maybe hard work is just a small hill under the command of the bigwigs, but at least it is the peak in front of many people. The important thing is to surpass who you used to be...... The one who settles for laziness on you.
Write at the end
I think that young people want to become "winners in life" not only because they have more money and a bigger house, but also because of their inner world, wisdom and experience.
These are the things that really make you shine.
As a young person, don't be afraid of failure, don't be afraid of challenges, boldly pursue your dreams, and experience every moment of life with your heart. As long as you don't give up and keep trying.
One day, you will stand at the top of your life and become a real winner. Come on, young people, the future belongs to you!