Left-behind children (picture has nothing to do with text)
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You've seen your son taken care of, a family of three reunited, leaving your daughter at home to become a "left-behind child", with grandparents.
Recently, I saw a video with the following copy: Sorry to make you a left-behind child, you have grandparents at home, but your father only has mom and brother.
Mom is reluctant to let Dad get up early in Shenzhen alone, Mom and Brother have passed, your dad is tired, at least there is a spiritual sustenance.
I'm sorry, Dad is going to work, pay you a mortgage, and let you study...
Obviously, this copywriting is what the mother said to her daughter, sorry for not being able to take you with her, and also said some high-sounding reasons.
In the video, the girl cries and tears her heart out, but she still can't let her mother take herself with her.
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In the video comments, the one with the highest number of likes is: "What the sister needs is not grandparents, don't say that the preference for sons and daughters is so fresh and vulgar."
After reading the comments, I learned that the woman's son was still breastfeeding, not a year old, the woman followed her husband to Shenzhen, mainly to consider that the man returned to the rental house after work, which was very desolate...
How to say it? Without the suffering of others, do not persuade others to be kind! Maybe she has bitterness and is also helpless.
But taking her son and letting her daughter stay behind is really impossible to get rid of what others say she "prefers sons to daughters"!
Instead, I have not worked for the time being, my son is breastfeeding, my daughter also needs her own love, and between my child and my husband, I may choose my child for the time being.
Either stay at home and take the two babies with you; or find a way to take the big treasure and the little treasure with you; or put the big treasure and the little treasure at home, wean the little treasure, and follow your husband to work.
If you only bring your son and don't bring your daughter, I don't know what psychological shadow it will leave for your daughter.
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According to the situation of the woman in the video, staying at home for the time being with the baby may be the best choice, and at the same time, the in-laws help to take the baby, and they can also relax.
After the son is weaned, then consider whether to stay at home and find a job to take care of the two children, or let the two children stay in their hometown and follow their husbands out to work.
Whether it is a woman's selfishness or a "son preference", in the end, women should not have children casually.
Since you know that your life situation is difficult now, don't worry about having children, and then consider having a baby when the economic conditions are better.
After the child is born, it is necessary to be responsible for it, and it is even more necessary to level the bowl of water, even if it is not truly fair, it should not be "favored over the other".
And men, more to measure their earning power, if you do not have the strength to make money to support your wife and children for the time being, then do not let the woman get pregnant and have a baby, give you "inheritance".
Wait until your earning ability is better, or you can return to your hometown to "reunite with your family", do not let your child become a left-behind child, do not let your wife become a left-behind woman, and then consider having a second child!
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