After retirement, don't be aggrieved and live with a smile. Sunset, infinite beauty, only near dusk. Nothing to do, travel with your wife, talk and laugh with your children... Imagining retirement is especially beautiful. As a matter of fact

After retirement, don't be aggrieved and live with a smile.

Sunset, infinite beauty, only near dusk.

Nothing to do, travel with your wife, talk and laugh with your children... Imagining retirement is especially beautiful.

In fact, this is not the case. Retirement also means that little by little you get older, become worthless, and become decadent.

The years have mercilessly urged people to grow old, and the white hair on their heads and the wrinkles on their faces were miserable.

Of course, in the future, no matter how difficult it is, we will have to rely on ourselves.

It is useless to be wronged, it is better to smile, there are always more ways than difficulties.

01

When you're poor, take out your pension.

A relative of mine works in a large coal mine. Because he has always been an ordinary employee, his pension is very small. At that time, he could only get more than 300 yuan a month.

As soon as relatives came to my house to complain. He said, how do you live? A little money? Really, it would be great if I had lived in the countryside all my life. At least I have a piece of land, A house, and I won't starve to death.

My father said, why don't we change, you give me a pension, I give you land and a house?

The relatives suddenly fell silent and changed the subject: "Come and drink."

Whether the rural people are good or the workers are good is an incomparable question. But for the elderly, having a stable income is a hundred times better than farming.

After all, it is difficult for people to face the loess and the sky when they are old.

In fact, many elderly people live in the mountains, and the monthly expenses are very small. Maybe one or two hundred dollars is enough.

Ah, there are too many people. Saying you're poor is really a bad word. Say you have money and more confidence in life.

02

When you are lonely, integrate into society.

In the TV series "Opposite Direction", Bai Jinghui's lover died early, leaving her an old lady to live in a big house alone.

When you are young, you will feel very happy to guard a big house. It is a symbol of a decent life.

But the old man is different. Emptiness can be uncomfortable. What's even more frightening is that seeing things, thinking of people, and seeing what my wife left behind makes me particularly uncomfortable.

The child is not around, there are no relatives and neighbors around, and I am embarrassed to disturb you every day.

In order to make life more lively, Bai Jinghui sang in the square every day. I made friends and met Zheng Lu, a retired pediatrician who loved her.

Two people fall in love back and forth, and a dim relationship ignites the enthusiasm of life.

Society is a big family, and whether there is a lover or not, you can actively integrate into it. When you are lonely, society will give you a lot of warmth.

In addition, loneliness can be enjoyed. A person's time, reading, writing and watching TV, time will pass. If you have a special hobby, you'll be busy all the time. How can I focus on "loneliness"?

03

When you can't walk, you live in a nursing home.

I watched a joke: Chongyang Festival, many young people think of filial piety to the elderly. Together, they went to the nursing home to wash the feet of the elderly.

In the afternoon, an old man complained: "Usually no one comes to wash their feet." I washed my feet seven or eight times today and my feet were wrinkled. ”

Life in a proper nursing home wasn't as good as I thought. There are many ordinary days, some bleak days, and occasionally a little happiness.

In fact, nursing homes are really not too bad. With the passage of time, many nursing homes have become like resorts. From time to time, someone organizes an event and someone chats with each other.

The point is that when the elderly get together, they become more popular. When things happen, they are not afraid to be left alone.

Of course, not all elderly people are encouraged to go to nursing homes. It's just that when a man reaches old age, if his children don't care about you, his wife will go first, and if he has money in his hands, there will be a way out.

The elderly who can move in and out freely will have a brighter life. Life and death have a destiny, riches are in the sky, why sigh every day, what will happen tomorrow?

04

When you are sad, learn to live on your own.

A Japanese designer once said, "When life is stagnant and there seems to be no hope, it is this sentence that helps me: when the fisherman can't fish, he will mend the net."

When people get old, the key to learning to live on their own is to live on their own.

The ups and downs are life, and you were once at the top. It is enough to make the other mountains look low under the sky. Insight.

A mountain cannot accommodate two tigers, so you can take the initiative to go downhill so that you will not fall. It's really hard to be pushed down. Learn to make way for young people and you will have a sense of happiness.

You feel like you're seventy or eighty years old, but your heart is getting old. In the eyes of other old people, I was still an older youth.

Most importantly, you should make the most of your spare heat and help others do something.

There is an old man named Bai who has helped more than 300 poor children realize their dreams of going to school on a tricycle. He didn't care how much his pension was, he only had a sincere heart.

A group of people said: "I am ashamed of his kindness and selflessness. A man who had been willing to make camels, cattle, and horses all day long was gone, and everyone had to bow their heads. ”

When you are old, you must live a noble life, do not complain, do not be ungrateful.

Time is always passing. The only thing you can do is race against time, do something, fulfill your own wishes and the wishes of others.

05

Mencius said, "Those who are not familiar with each other are better off being born."

Grain is the best thing. If it is not cooked, it is better than weeds.

Among the five grains, the most precious is their "benevolence".

In other words, for a person, the best thing in life is a mature attitude, and the key is to be full of "heart".

The snake that eats the elephant eats the elephant, be a man, do not be wronged, and be content and happy.

There is a saying that people who can live a wonderful life are riding the wind and waves and never stopping.

Despite the difficulties ahead, what does it matter if you have to live as if you were still alive? It was just an experience. It is enough to be alive.

Different ages, different landscapes, nothing more.

Retire, put away your grievances, and happiness will come.