#肖战· Fragmented Thoughts #2022.02.10 I would like to ask fans or Lu Hao a question, who is the person who makes you feel both annoying and extremely disgusted? I guess the answer is no

#肖战· Broken Thoughts#

2022.02.10

I would like to ask the fans or Lu Hao a question, who is the person who makes you feel both annoying and extremely disgusted?

I guess the answer is not Kuroko, but those who love to "go out on the police"! [Cover your face]

Because for Phi Pi Black, if there is no "no return to black" fan conscious obligation to contain, we are afraid to go back is a matter of minutes, completely without any psychological burden! But how can you be afraid of the real fans who run to your door and blow their beards and stare at your eyes? How do you break up with him? And how to reason with ta?

I think the normal name of the word "police" should be "mutual reminder", literally permeated with a sense of calmness and mutual respect, how did it evolve step by step into today's derogatory term with infinite self-deprecation and helplessness?

The general direction of the network environment is not discussed, the "police" behavior into the narrative text context to describe is "deep self in the field of others forcibly offended", the deep psychological reason, that is, due to lack of self-confidence and through a contrasting "self-crazy" behavior to overcome the inner humility, and finally developed into a "self-aware" extreme "self"!

The big vernacular is that what I say is right, what I say is the standard, you are all wrong, you have to follow me!

If you go on with this logic, you will sadly find that in fact, the police officers are not here to listen to your explanations at all, no matter how you put the facts and reason, try to rationally prove that the reason for ta questioning or covering their mouths is untenable, people have no intention of listening, but a stick is recklessly knocked down, labor is correct! Labor is the standard! You have to listen to me, I say you are wrong, you are wrong, yes must be wrong!

Some people say that those who make unreasonable trouble will be directly blacklisted! But the question is, how do you distinguish between what is a "normal reminder" in cyberspace? What is an "unreasonable police attack"? When you're faced with a cold ID, what criteria do you use to determine whether the stranger behind you is being a kind reminder or going crazy without reason?

And the insoluble solution to this problem lies in the fact that each of us is self-contained, and we will involuntarily think that we are right, and under the action of the innate exclusive subconscious, we will naturally reject and resist the different opinions and ideas of others! In this case, how do you convince the other person to give up using TA's point of view to convince you? How do you prove that his police behavior is wrong and that he has been wronged?

Some people say that as long as your attitude is sincere, the words are rational, and the views are beyond the thinking of the fan circle, two people can communicate. And I used to think that as long as the other party and my own level of education, ideological realm and maturity in dealing with people are on one level, we can have friendly and rational bilateral dialogue. But is this really the case?

Not really!

What are the facts? As long as you take the initiative, only you move the idea of wanting to "warn" or "correct" others and break into the private sphere of others to put them into practice, whether you are holding up the "banner of self-righteous truth" to argue aggressively, or holding the "recognized standard of truth model" reasonable and pleasant, as long as you run to other people's territory to start BB, you lose!

Because, whether you admit it or not, each of us is an independent individual, it is difficult to let go of the "self" position, and more importantly, this "self" is often accompanied by "not knowing it"! It is offensive to others without self-knowledge, stupid without self-knowledge, self-righteous without self-knowledge!

The premise of smooth communication between "shared burdens" is not that you love the same idol, nor is it based on the offline communication standards of "how should I be", but back to the old proposition, that is, "how to build trust between strangers"?

No letter to understand anything? How to communicate without understanding? How can trust be built without communicating? get! Go around and around, go around and go back!

Therefore, arguing with others in cyberspace is itself a meaningless behavior with high energy consumption and low efficiency, which consumes not only your time cost, but also the fragile trust connection between people.

People always live so hard, so carefully, eager to understand and trust, but at the same time doubt everything, knock down everything; longing for warmth and beauty to come, but all the time repelling warmth, creating cold!

It's a disease, a cyber disease! Interpersonal apathy in the online environment!

The source of the disease lies in the extreme self, and there is no self-confidence and no self-knowledge! In the Internet age, everyone is a carrier and disseminator of the source of the disease, and everyone is not spared, but the symptoms are different, the lesions are different, no one is much more noble than anyone, and no one is qualified to laugh at others.

Where are the special drugs? Directly cut off the network, do not see the heart is not bothered! Of course, this is also a nonsense, then... Freedom of speech, self-talk, go back to each home, each find each mother!

As a certain great god said, we are not soul appraisers, whether it is true or false, whether it is right or wrong, you and I do not count! Where is there any real interpersonal interaction between strangers, and if there is, please put the sense of boundaries first!

Doubt is never sin, doubt evil is good! Because, the world is impermanent, the cycle of cause and effect, one day, you will also change from the righteous policeman who "labor is justified" to the innocent victim who drowned by the saliva!

In the future, all the words I want to say will be published in public, and I will no longer communicate privately to reason with anyone.

I also advise you: there is a risk in the police, and you must be cautious when covering your mouth! As Ah Xian said, your hatred and admiration are so cheap, whether you admire or hate, what do you have to do with me? All your emotions are nothing more than the turmoil and chaos of your own rivers and lakes, and my world is peaceful and tranquil, you should eat, drink, and nothing!

The same sentence is used to warn those crazy critics who fall into the fantasy of war and then make themselves panic and nervous, he is very good, 2022 will only be better, the future will be better and better!

It's a virtue to manage yourself, don't be blind BB! Encourage ~~