The woman was 9 years older than her husband, married for more than 20 years, but did not want to have children, and then her husband died of illness, leaving her a 128 square meter house and an inheritance of about 300,000 yuan

The woman is 9 years older than her husband, married for more than 20 years, but unwilling to have children, and then her husband died of illness, leaving her a 128 square meter house, and an inheritance of about 300,000 yuan, the 81-year-old mother-in-law proposed to let her daughter-in-law give her 170,000 pension, who expected the daughter-in-law to say: "My husband died, there is no hope for the rest of my life, you still ask me for money?" ”

Mr. Li has been working in the field for many years, rarely returning home, although he has been married for more than 20 years, but he does not even have a child, he is happy about it, as long as it is something that his wife does not want, he will never force the other party.

In the eyes of others, his wife Xiaoyuan is not worthy of him at all, and Xiao Li, who was 23 years old at the time, insisted on marrying Xiaoyuan, who was 9 years older than himself, knowing that she had a marriage history, and he did not care.

After marriage, Xiaoyuan may not feel safe, afraid of losing she seems to be very strong, everything likes to manage the husband, Mr. Li obeys his wife's words, according to his colleagues in his unit once, Mr. Li and them eat out together, Mr. Li received a call from his wife, hurried home.

After about half an hour, he returned, and the colleague curiously asked him what he was doing. Mr. Li said he went home to cook for his wife.

The Dink couple originally had a very happy life, but who wanted to have an unexpected storm, 43-year-old Mr. Li was very tired for a while, and when he went to the hospital to check it was the late stage of uremia, he died in less than three months.

Mr. Li's mother was devastated, and her wife was gone 9 years ago, but fortunately she and a daughter would often return to her mother's house to take care of her.

The mother had been immersed in the pain of losing her son for the first few months, and had never talked to her daughter-in-law about how her son's inheritance should be distributed, but her daughter-in-law's approach made her cold.

When the mother learned of her son's death, Xiaoyuan did not even give him a funeral, but only buried him hastily, on the grounds that she was not in the mood to handle it, and since her husband's death, she had never taken the initiative to call her mother-in-law once, as if with her husband's departure, her mother-in-law had nothing to do with her.

The old man is so old that he has no source of livelihood, so he took the initiative to contact his daughter-in-law, hoping that she would take out some money to give herself a pension, but Xiaoyuan refused for various reasons, and finally even directly blacked out her mother-in-law and sister-in-law.

The intolerable mother entrusted her daughter to handle the matter on her behalf because of the inconvenience of her legs and feet, and they went to the TV station for help.

When the sister-in-law rushed to Xiaoyuan's location with the reporter, her attitude was very bad, saying that this was a matter between the mother-in-law and her two, and had nothing to do with the sister-in-law, and she did not want to get a penny from it.

The sister-in-law accused her of being unreasonable and unconscionable, she learned that her brother's 128 square meter house was worth about 500,000 yuan, and his pension may add up to more than 280,000 yuan, which is hard earned by her brother, and her mother can naturally inherit a part.

Xiaoyuan also knew that it was not good for her to make a big fuss, so she said that she did not say no, but at that time, she was in a bad mood, and her mother-in-law always said about money, which made her very annoyed.

The most painful thing in this world is that the white-haired person sends the black-haired person, and the mother's feeling of losing her son can be imagined. But Xiaoyuan said: "My husband is dead, the rest of my life is gone, my mother-in-law is still looking for me for money, who can understand the bitterness in my heart?" ”

No matter how sad it is, the matter that should be dealt with should be negotiated as soon as possible, and it is obviously useless to escape. Speaking of this sister-in-law, the sister-in-law is a lot of dissatisfaction.

After so many years of marriage, she seems to have only come back once, and every time her brother went home alone to visit her father, and what was even more infuriating was that her father died that year, and as a daughter-in-law, she was reluctant to come back, on the grounds that there were too many mosquitoes in the countryside and the weather was too hot.

She never paid attention to her mother-in-law at all.

In the face of other people's questioning, she said that the reason why she did not want to go back was because she was married for the second time, and her mother-in-law was not satisfied with her at the beginning and did not want to go back to see her face.

In fact, the old man said that he had already accepted her, which was just an excuse.

In the end, the mother-in-law took the initiative to propose that she did not want a house, only hoping that the daughter-in-law could give her 170,000 pension money, at first Xiaoyuan did not agree, only willing to give 100,000 yuan, and the sister-in-law thought that the mother should at least 200,000 yuan to be suitable, after all, she gave up the house.

Xiaoyuan said that she has no children and no daughters, and now she has retired only about 2,000 yuan per month, if she gives her mother-in-law 170,000 yuan at a time, then her future life will be no guarantee.

But why didn't she want to have children?

The mother-in-law learned from her son that Xiaoyuan was pregnant several times, but she beat it off for various reasons, and once said that she had a cold and could not ask for it.

Xiaoyuan is also very aggrieved, she has been pregnant four times in the years of marriage, and it is her husband who agrees that she does not want children. Only here did she regret that she had not been able to have a child, otherwise she would not be alone now.

Under the persuasion of everyone, Xiaoyuan finally agreed to give her mother-in-law 170,000 yuan, and also promised to call her mother-in-law in the future to fulfill her filial piety.

The matter can be resolved satisfactorily, but also the two sides have given up a step, and the two people who have released their previous suspicions have put aside their prejudices, hoping that they can warm each other and comfort each other.

Source of material "Search for Love"

A loss of a husband, a loss of a son, for both of them are painful things, before the daughter-in-law did have a lot of places to do not do, and now to go to the root of the matter has no meaning, people have to learn to look ahead, encounter problems in time to solve, do not escape.

Although things are twists and turns, the daughter-in-law can know the mistake and change it is still a good comrade, in fact, many times the contradiction between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law may be the lack of effective communication, and through the help of others, open each other's heart knots, understand each other's needs, learn to empathize, the problem can be solved well.