These two days of New Year's Eve, the night is relatively late to sleep, I just turned off the light and lay down, I heard the downstairs door from the grandfather's shouting.
He shouted, "Xia, Xiao Xia hurry up, Xiao Xia..." As soon as I heard that Grandpa was sick again, I wanted to get up and go back to him, but there were so many people in the family, it was not the time for me to answer.
Sure enough, after a while, I heard the window of the second uncle's house next door open, and my second uncle shouted: "Dad, why don't you sleep yet, and shout there, others think what's wrong with our family, go to sleep." ”
Grandpa listened, so he asked the second uncle: "Second elder, what about your mother, why is your mother not at home, where did she go so late?" ”
There was no way, the second uncle ran down again, and said angrily: "My mother is in the back mountain, how do you go to find her, do you still want to find her?" Every night I got up and shouted that when she was alive, why not be nice to her. ”
My grandfather was not angry with him, so he said: "Why are you so loud, haven't I forgotten, you are so unfilial, every day you know to scold me, are you such a son?" ”
How to say this, my second uncle is not wrong, Grandma died three years ago, Grandpa has a little amnesia, many things he remembers, but Grandma is not there, can never remember.
Let the three sons be annoyed, Grandpa is still behind the ear, so you don't make it louder, he can't hear it; if it's loud, say you scold him, no wonder some people say that the old man is like a child, you have to coax.
Grandpa may go to bed at 7 o'clock at night, and when he wakes up, he finds that Grandma is not around, thinking why she has gone, he went downstairs to find it.
Because, these days, grandpa is eating at my house, and it is cooked by my mother-in-law, so I will remember to go deeper and come to my mother-in-law when something happens.
I lay in bed, always thinking of Grandpa alone, bored and ignorant, staying in the room, no one to talk to.
On the stone bench in the doorway, he sat for an afternoon, and if you didn't call him, he would sit and wait until you called him.
When you say that there are many children and daughters, when everyone has their own families and their own troubles, I think the old man can make himself a little easier, don't add trouble.
Really, now I'm starting to be afraid, I'm afraid that I'm old and annoying, like my grandfather, what to do?
When you are old, you either have a disease in your body or you have a disease in your heart.
My grandfather was sick in his heart, a disease that cannot be cured by medical treatment, and it can slowly get better over time and worse over time.
In the past, when Grandma was there, she took care of his daily life, cooked three meals a day, and told him to eat; the child had something grandma would help to do, and Grandpa was actually a very blessed person.
Who knows that when he is old and has such a disease, the whole family will look at him like a child, and when they don't see him, they will quickly ask Grandpa where he is, and quickly look for him.
Every day that people are not at ease with him, I see from my grandfather that the most painful thing in the world is that you are gone, but I am still in this world, looking for you foolishly.
Live every day well, take good care of your body, live badly, and don't let your health be bad;
If you have a problem with your body, don't let your heart have a problem, your brain has a problem.
Grandpa is 90 years old this year, and I hope he is healthy, think less about Grandma, and will be happier.