Mature people, silent, low-key, widowed.
"Zhou Yi" has a saying: "Ji people have few words, and there are many words of manic people." ”
Mature people like to talk less and do more, like mature ears of rice, know how to bend over, rather than toe high.
And the more impetuous a person is, the more he likes to evaluate people in words, count people down, and pester.
People who like to fight for high and low in everything, and who are difficult and sarcastic everywhere, the years will tell them what is to blame.
On the contrary, mature people, steady, calm, not curious about things that have nothing to do with themselves, and will not be nosy.
They only know that living themselves well and doing a good job is responsible for life and responsible for life.
1: Mature to do things
There's a hot question: "What is the lowest EQ behavior you've ever seen?" ”
One of them replied, "Always be better than others in words." ”
In fact, in this world, it is too simple to be better than others in words, and it is not enough to be a troll?
He who likes to trump others in words, what others believe, he doubts, and what others determine, he denies.
When others say east, he has to say west, and when the other person says west, he wants to talk about east.
There is no right or wrong in their minds, only negation, negation of everything, especially negation of everything of others.
Even once they are denied by others, they will not be spared, and it is right to insist on their own ideas.
Just like Li Xiaolai once said, there is always a group of people in this world, they will only firmly believe that "the earth is flat", even if you hold a globe in front of them, they will deny that this circular globe is man-made and false.
In fact, the more people are accustomed to outperforming others in words, the more difficult it is to harvest happiness from reality.
Because one day, the people you have denied will slowly alienate you, alienate you, and stay away from you.
It is very likely that you will only be able to become a network keyboard player, and you can only continue to vent your incompetence in the virtual world of the Internet.
Wang Xiaobo once said: "One of the main reasons why I choose silence: from words, you can rarely learn human nature, but from silence you can." If you want to learn more, then you have to continue to be silent. ”
In the face of the deliberate ridicule and provocation of others, mature people will not argue, laugh and laugh, even laugh without laughing, just walk away.
Because a mature person, their talent and wisdom are never gained in arguing with others.
Meaningless arguments can only waste time, mispay mood, and consume attention.
There is nothing commendable about a person who occupies the peak of "speech", and it is worth climbing the mountain of "action" to do.
The self-discipline of mature people lies in knowing how to restrain the desire to judge, criticize, and verbally overcome others.
2: Mature people
After maturity, a person will always have a thoughtful thought about his words and deeds, ideas, and future.
Even if the results caused by this kind of thinking are always unclear, at least they have been responsible for their own lives and lives, imagined.
Wang Guozhen said: "The head that is hanging down is just to let the mind rise, if you have an indomitable soul, there will be a solid land under your feet." ”
What is the meaning of thinking, and what is the value of thoughtfulness? Maybe it's about starting to make yourself understand that you always need to do something in this life.
Therefore, choose to be a mature person, no longer rush to argue with people who do not agree with their own beliefs and values, and gradually understand that not everyone will understand you and recognize you.
To be a mature person is to know that it is necessary to pay the corresponding actions and efforts and be responsible for your own life.
When everyone is young, it is estimated that there will be a moment when facing other people's doubts, misunderstandings, and even different views, they are eager to grab each other's collar and say for three days and three nights, so that the other party can completely understand their own meaning.
However, when you become mature, and you are also faced with the denial and questioning of others, and even misunderstanding and ridicule, you immediately turn around and leave, no longer taking care of it.
There is a saying in the Aphorisms:
"Self-cultivation is the key to a pure heart, and to be cautious in the world is the first."
Mature people, when cultivating their body and mind, do a pure heart, enter the society, and know how to be careful in words and deeds.
Instead of fighting with people without any basis, it is better to hold up the pattern, open your horizons, be wise, keep silent, calm down, sink your heart, and do yourself well.
In silence, low-key people, mature people, Taoguang obscure, to achieve thick accumulation.
3: Become a mature person
Actively become a mature person, you will find that the world is vast and beautiful.
Huang Tingjian once said: "Ten thousand words are better than silence." ”
The water is deep and quiet, and people are stable and quiet.
Mature people, rich in experience, rich in experience, knowledgeable, and calm.
They have the power of maturity, and they can rely on this power to open their eyes, open up patterns, and shape their personalities.
As Zeng Guofan said:
"The future is not welcome, the present is not complicated, and the past is not read."
In this way, having a more powerful realm, it is bound to be able to create its own wonderful life in the next few days.
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