When I was in elementary school, Little Miss Man was in the same class as me, and her family was particularly poor, and she always had only one piece of clothing in the summer, washed it at night, dried it, and continued to wear it the next day. Winter coats have not been changed.
At that time, our classmates would bring lunch to school, and the students would discuss with each other what dishes you ate and what dishes she ate.
Little Miss Man never participated in our discussions or had lunch with us, and I later learned that there was no dish for her lunch.
Her mother sprinkled some salt on her in the meal, a little taste, and counted it as a lunch.
But she loves to learn, her grades are very good, every exam is excellent, essay competition, speech competition, open class competition, can win awards.
Once, the teacher arranged the seats and arranged me and her together, and she and I slowly became acquainted.
My mom loves to read and wants my friends to be good grade kids, so I often invite her to play at my house.
My mom fried fritters and made tamales for her to eat, and she devoured them each time, and then she did her homework together.
On National Day, the school holds an event, and every girl wears a white shirt and pink skirt to participate in the flag-raising ceremony of the opening ceremony.
Every girl in our class was ready, but Little Miss Man did not, and the teacher did not let her participate in the flag-raising ceremony, because we were missing a person in our class and was deducted from her attendance.
The class teacher, Teacher Li, was going to visit her home and called me to lead the way.
When I arrived at her house, even Teacher Li couldn't look at it anymore.
It was a tile room with two pillars supporting the roof, a bed, a table, and a wooden cabinet. The place to cook was just outside the door with a stove. Xiao Man's father died early, and his mother struggled with her two daughters.
The bright red award on the wall looked abrupt and glaring. Her mother was disheveled and her eyes were blank.
In the end, Teacher Li paid 50 yuan, gave it to Xiao Man's mother, and left.
In the second semester, that is, the second semester of the sixth grade, Xiao Manjie dropped out of school and went to Ningbo with others to work.
Until I graduated from college, Xiao Man never came back, and I heard that Xiao Man's mother died, and Xiao Man du only stayed for one day and left.
In the year I got married, Little Miss Man came back, and I asked her: Why didn't you come back for so many years, your mother died, why did you stay only one day?
Little Miss Man choked up and said, "I hate my mother, she is lazy, she has land at home, she doesn't plant, she relies on relatives to give her some money, others want her to go out to do things, she doesn't go, every day she guards that little grain at home."
Uncle built a new house with some bricks left, to give us a family, let's get the house a good look, she doesn't want, said too tired, just live like that, anyway, the daughter is going to marry out.
Her laziness ruined my sister's future. I owe it to her in my previous life, and I will be her daughter for the rest of my life. After I went to Ningbo, I learned that people, as long as they are diligent, will not die of hunger.
The family was diligent, and the days were running, and it was my mother who killed the hope of the first half of my life. ”
Little Miss Man hates her mother, but unlike her mother, Little Miss Man is diligent, although she does not have much culture, but never gives up self-study, she is an excellent female worker in the factory every year.
There is a saying that goes like this: a woman affects three generations, and the mother's three views hide the future of the child. Little Miss Man must be a good mother.
#Why are you still poor##妈妈对孩子的影响大, or daddy's influence?# #People# #人物故事 #
