Zhengzhou National Medical Hall: Almost all parents have said "harsh words" to their children, which experts believe is more serious than the consequences of corporal punishment. Psychological punishment is very harmful to children, mainly in the following aspects:
Psychological punishment hurts the child a lot.
Intimidation and neglect of children. Whenever a child is mischievous or makes a mistake, parents will unconsciously threaten the child with words such as "I don't want you" to make the child "submit" because of fear.
Adverse effects: Fear of timidity and developmental delay can easily lead to emotional instability in young children, resulting in nervousness, anxiety, depression, sensitivity, timidity, fear and other reactions. , may even lead to developmental delay, mental retardation, neurasthenia, paranoia, compulsion and other symptoms.
Compare the effort to "erase" the child. Many parents strive for perfection and ignore their children's efforts, obliterating their achievements simply because their children do not meet the standards of "best" or "ideal".
Adverse effects: Inability to evaluate yourself correctly. In the process of growing up, children will continue to turn external evaluations into self-evaluations. Long-term negative evaluation of the child will affect the child's correct evaluation of himself and lose confidence.
Exaggerating and distorting facts affects children. Parents often do not pay attention to the exaggeration in their words, "small things become bigger".
Adverse effects: Easy to make mistakes when you grow up. Parents' distortion and exaggeration of facts affect children's behavior, laying the foundation for many bad behaviors in the future, such as lying, quarrelling, cheating, stealing, and aggressive behavior, and children are prone to make mistakes when they grow up.
Parents should be good mirrors for their children. When a child is disobedient or mischievous, parents cannot solve the problem through "verbal violence", but the trauma to the child's heart is profound. Teachers and parents should be aware of its seriousness.