Recently, many parents have asked me that the year is almost over, and the date of the start of school is gradually approaching, how can I let the divine beast in the family quickly take back the heart and study it carefully?
And many people's practice is to be very impatient to tell the child, you should accept the heart, how to play crazy every day, you have to work hard to study seriously.
In fact, this sentence can be said to be useless for children, and children feel that it is parents nagging, because this sentence has no execution, and some children do not know how to collect their hearts.
At this time, parents should not be impatient, be calm, communicate with the child more, listen to the child's ideas, and help the child slowly adjust the state, guide the child to do some things to collect the heart, here are a few points for your reference and reference.
First, work with your child to make plans for the next week.
This is the most important thing to do with your child to make a plan for the next week, not only for learning, but also for work and rest, school supplies preparation, and so on. Always remember that this plan should involve children together, listen to children's opinions, and even let Hazi make it up for himself, and parents will help him revise it.
The ultimate goal of this plan is to get children to act. Therefore, this plan must be understood and recognized by the child, the child believes, and can still remember, so that your child will not be able to put it into action smoothly.
For example, you can tell your child that we are going to start watching the 20th and 28th times of Water Margin next week, once a day. This 20th time from which day to start, right from tonight, let the learning and time points seamlessly, have new goals, and have a specific way to arrive, the child will be easy to do.
Second, guide the child to gradually adjust the work and rest time.
You should make it clear to your children that the New Year should eat, drink, play, and play, and the New Year is also fully relaxed, and now the Year is about to end, you can't play day and night, and you have to prepare for the intense study.
The first thing is physiological preparation, to gradually adjust the work and rest time, can no longer go to bed late and get up late, adjust the biological clock, gradually begin to restore the regular schedule of school, with a new attitude, full of spirit to prepare for the start of school.
Also help the child adjust the diet, can not eat too many melon seeds peanuts and other snacks that are too heavy on the fire, and really make physical preparations.
Third, accompany your child to check the completion of winter vacation homework.
Sit down with your child, check how well you are doing your winter vacation homework, it is not yet completed, and seize the time to finish it carefully. Children who have already done winter vacation homework can review the key content they learned in the next semester, the so-called warm old and new.
You can also guide children to calm down and read more books, books that are beneficial for learning, or books that broaden their horizons.
Fourth, talk to your child about your plans for the start of the new school year.
The beginning of the school is about to start, which can inspire children to talk about the plans for the new semester, and parents can also work with their children to formulate a learning plan for the new semester, so that children can enter the learning state from the state of loose play in advance, eliminate the discomfort after the holiday, and help the child build confidence.
Fifth, let the child use his own pressure money to buy some school supplies.
Finally, you can take your children to visit bookstores and stationery stores, so that children can use their own pressure money to buy the necessary school supplies for the new semester, which has many benefits, which can solve the problem that parents do not know how to let children use the pressure money, and are afraid of children's indiscriminate use, but also let the children feel that they have dominated the pressure money, bought what they want to buy, and let the children truly feel that the new semester is coming.
There are also 5 sentences that parents are advised to tell their children in person and listen to their thoughts on it.
The first sentence, money can not be spent indiscriminately, making money is very difficult.
New Year's Day, the child took a lot of pressure money, then you should take this opportunity to talk to the child, the parents and elders to make money hard, busy work. Therefore, it is not easy to be more considerate of the elders, and we must be grateful for the parenting of our parents.
At the same time, you can't spend the money indiscriminately, you can open your own bank card to save, you can also buy some school supplies and books you want, you can also use a little to buy funds or stocks, and learn financial management from an early age.
The second sentence, do not compare, than than knowledge.
You can tell your children, don't compare your family situation with your classmates, where to go to play in the New Year, who takes more money, these are not their own efforts to get, it is meaningless, it is better than knowledge, than grades.
Don't be afraid to compare yourself with good-achieving, good-achieving classmates. In fact, people who are better than you are not terrible at all, the terrible thing is that people who are better than you are still working harder than you, if you have average grades and average family background, why don't you work hard?
See if the child will be touched. You can also tell the child that in fact, some students go to bed early and get up early every day during the winter vacation, neither play games nor crazy play, and learn efficiently every day, they are willing to do this.
Third, never pretend to be working hard, because scores won't accompany you in your acting.
This sentence should be understood by the child as soon as possible. Study must not work hard for three minutes of heat, always three days of fishing and two days of drying nets, so it is certain that the academic performance will not go up. Some children will say that everyone is playing in the New Year.
Don't think that your classmates are playing, you just see everyone's relaxed moments, you can't see their learning figures, you see only the surface. Tell children not to habitually deceive themselves, feel that they are particularly excellent, especially can not see their true position, only hard work, sweat, pay, there will be gains and returns.
Fourth, your parents will not urge you to study every day but pay attention to care, so that you have more choices in the future.
Tell your children that learning is their own business, parents will not supervise learning every day, if they do not want to learn, the mind is not here, all the time to supervise is useless. Fall in love with learning, don't have to push, you will be very proactive.
But parents will pay attention to your studies, because your academic performance largely determines your future career, and there will be more and better choices in the future.
Fifth sentence, no one will help you for a lifetime, only your own continuous efforts will be bright in the future.
Let the child understand early that parents cannot help themselves for a lifetime, and only by relying on their own efforts and their own efforts will they have a bright future. When you are young, you will suffer more from studying, and only in the future will you be able to eat less of the hardships of life. Young people learn more skills, and more skills are not pressed.
The year is almost over, the children begin to learn, there is a scenery outside the window, there is a future in the pen, looking down is the sea, looking up is the future, come on, with hard work, pay and sweat, all the beauty will come as scheduled, and all the luck will meet unexpectedly!