People live a lifetime, and there are only two things that really belong to them, and they can understand that the general is not simple
Zhou Guoping said in "May Life Be Calm":
"If a person really loves their life, they should take good care of it and put it in good shape."
People who really live a good life must not rush to achieve success. What they have in common is that they know enough about their interests and abilities to know where they are headed. Therefore, we can walk on this road calmly and enjoy the harvest on the road calmly. "
The purpose of this passage is to tell us that a truly intelligent person does not worry about everything, but is calm and steady enough. They know what they like and what they want, and they will have a plan to achieve and get.
Not only that, but they will also enjoy the journey of life and accept all the good and bad because it is a rare life experience and experience.
And these, to a large extent, will shape our outlook on life, values and worldview.
That is to say, what you experience will eventually become a kind of person, which confirms the classic line in the movie "Casablanca": in a person's temperament, there are the roads he has traveled, the books he has read, and the people he has loved.
A person's life seems to be long, but in fact it is only a few decades.
In these decades, there is not much that really belongs to us. In a sense, there are only two things. It is generally not easy to understand people, because they have seen through the true meaning of life.
The same: the experience of life
In a way, the word experience is enough to run through our lives. From birth to the end of life, all of this is constantly experiencing, growing, and maturing.
The ups and downs of life, love, friendship, and family affection in life are all extremely important parts. Some experiences were wonderful, others frustrating. Whether it is the highlight moment or the low point of each period, it cannot be repeated anymore, and it has a certain meaning.
A writer once said that people's lives are just about experiencing and enjoying.
Only when you experience it first and become mature and steady enough will you know how to enjoy it. Otherwise, even if you have more material, your heart is still barren and you still don't know how to cherish them.
So in the end, what people really have is their own life experiences, and these experiences constitute all your memories. When people are old, the most they can have is memories.
Until then, take good care of yourself and manage your life. Don't wait until you're old to find that there are many regrets in life, and it may be too late.
The second: wisdom in life.
If there is something in life that others cannot take away, it must be the wisdom of life, which is accumulated in the process of your continuous experience, and belongs only to you.
From a certain point of view, what kind of wisdom a person has, what kind of life will be lived.
If you are smart enough and have strong organizational skills, you can make correct judgments about many things in life, and you can be emotional, mature, rational, and sleek enough in interpersonal communication.
The wisdom of life is also the key to opening the gap between people.
Some people live rich lives, some people do nothing and achieve nothing. In addition to one's own abilities, another key factor is whether a person has the wisdom to manage their own lives.
The former is very open-minded, not too tense, not entangled with others, while the latter is just the opposite. The choices are different, the endings are different, and the life experiences are naturally different.
In the end, what a person really has is their own wisdom in life. This requires us to be an emotionally intelligent person in our daily lives, have opinions, and think.
In my opinion, time is the only fair thing in the world.
What kind of life you want to live, you have to work hard and have the same time as others. Maybe your starting line is different. Others have good backgrounds, good conditions, good education, good environments, etc., but everyone's fate is ultimately in their own hands.
As long as you do not accept defeat, do not accept fate, and work hard in a planned way, the dominance of fate is still in your hands.
People live a lifetime, and in the end, what really belongs to them is experience and life wisdom. If you understand this, you will understand the importance of letting go. If you look at everything and know how to let go of yourself, you will live a lot easier.
Don't leave so many regrets in life, try to do what you like, and cherish those who are worth cherishing. It's the smartest way I can think of.
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