Yang Xianshun's story:
01
Being able to marry a wife in this life is a blessing that I have cultivated in my life, and she is really a good woman.
She gave birth to a son and a daughter for me, she did all the work in the family, she did the food, my mother also liked her, she was diligent and could do it, and she could stand two by herself.
We grow cassava and peanuts at home, and she gets up at five o'clock to help my mother pluck peanuts. The cassava in the family was also picked up by her.
She didn't let us interfere with her two children, one person cleaned up properly, and if anyone else, one of them was in a hurry. People in the village praised my wife for her ability.
When the child is older, she still goes to get the handicraft back to do, she does not like to go out, does not like to dress, does not have any friends, and will not spend money indiscriminately. There is no such wife that no man does not want.
02
She was introduced to me by my classmates, and she had a very good relationship with my classmates, and here she was such a friend who would tell her anything.
She doesn't ride an electric car, she goes to get the goods, her good girlfriend is from the next town, go to help her get the goods, because the conditions at home are average, her girlfriend also gave her a lot of clothes she wore, and some snacks.
She regarded her girlfriend as a benefactor, praised her girlfriend all day long, and said that she would repay her girlfriend well when she had money in the future.
Later her girlfriend divorced, after the divorce she ran our house very diligently, she was married for many years without children, and now it is very lonely to live alone in a big house.
Always come to our house to play, often buy food for the children, the two children like her.
03
Although she was my classmate and my matchmaker, I had always been a gentleman's friend with her, and I never had any intimate gestures with her, not even vague jokes.
She also always treated me as a brother, because she often came to our house, our relationship was getting better and better, and she and I were more and more casual, and often spent the night at our house when she played late.
She loves singing and bought a singing device to put in our house and sing with me after dinner.
My wife doesn't like to sing, she only likes to work to make money, and I refuse to sing no matter how I persuade her, saying that she sings ugly.
For a while I found that my wife began to learn makeup with her girlfriend, and I also liked to go shopping with her girlfriend to buy clothes, and she was still clamoring to go to work.
04
I thought it was her girlfriend who brainwashed her and didn't care about her changes.
Her girlfriend had a birthday that day and set up a table at our house, and then her girlfriend got drunk and told me that she had an affair, and I didn't believe it, thinking she was talking nonsense, and I absolutely believed my wife.
She showed me a message from my wife that she was in love with a man five years younger than her, met online, and she knew she wasn't doing it right, but she couldn't control herself.
I talked to my wife once, I told her a lot, but she knew to cry, I asked her not to deal with that person in the future, she would not give me assurances, anyway, she did not say anything.
I wanted to take her out for a walk, and then stay with her all the time, so that she didn't have a chance to meet the man, and she naturally forgot about it after a long time.
05
I took a few days off and took my wife to play with her girlfriend, but she has always been sullen, and I know that she has real feelings, but the child is still young and cannot live without her mother.
Once when we went to go boating in the lake, she suddenly jumped into the river, we couldn't swim, and there was no one else next to us, because it took some time to rescue her, and people were no longer able to do it.
After she left, I was really sad, crying for days and nights, my eyes were swollen, and half a year later I married her girlfriend, she kissed my child, and she offered to help me take care of the child.
I have nothing, she can figure out what I want, just hope that my wife can rest in peace, I will take care of the children, and I will always keep her in my heart.
summary:
The more honest a person is, the less they know how to control their feelings. The woman is trapped in love, can't extricate herself, and feels that she is against morality, very self-blame, and she does not know how to get out.
The more generous her husband is, the more she blames herself, but she can't let go of the people she loves, so she will choose to go to extremes.
If the feelings are really gone, maybe letting go is a better choice, only let her live with her lover, and she will let go until she suffers. It's better to let her choose for herself.