Nowadays, there is often a saying that "people should live out their own lives", to be honest, in a complex environment, it is actually a little difficult to really live out their own lives. There will always be a lot of things to weigh in the trade-offs. In particular, this degree is really difficult to grasp, if it passes, it will become my own way. Therefore, living out oneself has also become an ideal. But in the dream of the Red Chamber, more than 200 years ago, there was a girl in the book who really lived out herself, not twisted, not twisted, and truly completed her life according to her own inner wishes.
Lin Daiyu has always been a representative of personality, the second time in the book mentioned that "she is smart and beautiful, she wants to make her read a few words, but pretend to be the meaning of an adopted son", Lin Daiyu is free and willful, and those things that are added to women from the three virtues and the like are much less than others. Zhou Rui's family sent palace flowers to her, and the last one was given to her privately, Lin Daiyu did not add any mannerisms and cover-ups to scare her, and soon Lin Daiyu got the evaluation of "lonely and proud, no dust at the moment".
She would sometimes openly express her dissatisfaction with Jia Baoyu and her jealousy of other girls in front of Jia Mu. In the 20 times, she saw Jia Baoyu coming from Xue Baochao, and sneered, "I said, I stumbled, otherwise, I would have flown long ago." ", when the words are not speculative, they will turn around and leave. This was considered unreasonable in feudal etiquette and inconsistent with boudoir.
Lin Daiyu frankly expressed the love between her and Jia Baoyu, Jia Baoyu was beaten, and her eyes cried into walnuts to visit. Jia Baoyu secretly found the West Chamber, and Lin Daiyu could also enjoy it with Jia Baoyu. Her feelings for Jia Baoyu are very pure, not mixed with anything else, loving a person is loving himself, Lin Daiyu did it. Lin Daiyu's body was thin, but there was a kind of strength within her. She wrote "Five Beauty Songs", she selected five women of different eras, admired their foresight and courage, and expressed her bold pursuit of ideal life ideas.
But when she first entered Jia Province, she was careful step by step, always caring, lest she be laughed at. Living in an aristocratic family, she has different ways of coping with the elder and young interpersonal relationships, up and down, close to estrangement, respect and inferiority, which is very obvious when she eats the first meal in Jia Province. Her ability to observe and discern and make trade-offs has been cultivated since she was a child. At this time, Lin Daiyu was neither frank nor rebellious, but was an orthodox but polite girl.
In the process of living in Jia Province, she is not as heartless as a blank piece of paper. After Jia Baoyu was beaten, a group of people went to visit, Lin Daiyu stood alone under the shade of flowers, watching everyone coming and going, she was also calculating in her heart, and she was also calculating the gain and loss of the choice in the intricate interpersonal relationship of Jia Fu. When Yuan Chun province personally let everyone write poems, Lin Daiyu wanted to get Yuan Chun's approval and wanted to perform well, whether it was the poems she wrote herself or the poems written for Jia Baoyu were written in accordance with the system, and they were all songs and praises. Because Yuan Chun is a heavyweight, Lin Daiyu wants to gain her favor and support.
Jia Tanchun is also an unusual woman, she has insight, regret that she is not a boy,000, can not go out to do a career. When managing the Grand View Garden, she can carry out drastic reforms, starting from herself, starting from the management, and cannot but say that she has courage. Jia Yuqiang married Mandarin duck, Jia Mu was angry at Lady Wang's temper, everyone was silent, even Wang Xifeng, who has always had sharp teeth, chose silence, only Tanchun bravely told the truth of the facts, "The big uncle begs for relatives, how can the little sister-in-law know" to break the siege for Lady Wang. Inspecting the Grand View Garden, Jia Tanchun was originally bitter about the family's nest fighting, Wang Shanbao's family took advantage of the situation to be a blessing, Tanchun slapped it, and played the prestige that a master should have, it can be said that Tanchun has the wind of a big husband.
But Tanchun is more capable and strong, and there are also her weaknesses, and her identity is out of the woods. Birth is a scar that hurts her at a touch, and when it comes to birth, she will lose her mind, and she is very jealous of this. When she was partial to the family, Aunt Zhao also deliberately emphasized the mother-daughter relationship between them, and in order to maintain feudal orthodoxy, Tanchun did not even recognize her mother and uncle, she only recognized her uncle as "promoted to the point inspection of the nine provinces".
We look at Qingwen, Qingwen came to the world with nothing, not even her family lineage, only a cousin, who was bought by Lai Da, the housekeeper of Jia Province, when she was ten years old, to be a servant, and she was a slave of a slave. Jia Mu saw that she was beautiful and capable and gave her to Jia Baoyu, and it can be said that Qingwen is the master of the three moves. But after three moves, the servility in her body disappeared. Ben had nothing to pursue the happiness she longed for in nothingness.
As a slave, she has no personal freedom, but she still has a free personality and dignity. No matter what time, she held her head high, even when it was most necessary to bow her head. "The heart is higher than the sky, and the lowly person is the inferior" is her judgment. She didn't want to fly up the branches and become a phoenix like an attacker, so she wouldn't look down at people's faces with their noses and noses, and she couldn't tolerate sand in her eyes, that is, she wouldn't pretend to be a slave, nor would she be accustomed to others thinking of themselves as slaves.
Qiu Wen was triumphant when she got two old clothes from Madame Wang, and received a meal from Qingwen to grab the white, and Xiaohong wanted to climb the high branch to make her a sarcasm. In front of the attackers, she said that she was a "Western Haba idea", and Baochao went to find Jia Baoyu to play, and she was also angry, and she felt that she was noisy and "did not sleep well in the middle of the night". The lost hand broke the fan, Jia Baoyu rebuked twice, and Qingwen also dared to speak up against this head master. Jia Baoyu was angry and wanted to drive her out, although she didn't want to leave, but she didn't ask for forgiveness.
Because of her frankness, she offended many people, and Wang Shanbao's family framed her in front of Lady Wang, and she became the first target that Lady Wang wanted to get rid of. Although she was called by Madame Wang to scold her fiercely, Qingwen did not show weakness in the slightest. When the Grand View Garden inspected her box, Qingwen "broke in with her hair, opened the box with a loud bang, grabbed the bottom with both hands, poured it out, and poured everything out."
Qingwen used her actions to make a silent protest against this inspection, and only she and Tanchun dared to question this kind of question in the whole Grand View Garden. But Qingwen seems to be much braver than Tanchun, and she is the number one person on the list of flowers that Madame Wang has recorded in the book and is ready to be packed.
This was an unobstructed girl, not even the Heavenly King Lao Tzu. She talks about equality in this unequal place of Jia Fu, pursues freedom in the most unfree place, when Jia Baoyu treats her as a slave, she treats her with an eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth, when Jia Baoyu treats her as a confidant, she doubles her true feelings, Qingwen has complex character connotations, she is more frank than Lin Daiyu, more courageous than Jia Tanchun, she bravely lived out herself, even if she died for this, so Qingwen is also a very classic female image in the history of literature.