Cai Xiaoxiao's story:
01
I was a waiter in a restaurant and an accident got me to have a rich boyfriend.
That night I went to the market alone to buy groceries, because it was raining heavily and no one would accompany me, and while I was waiting for the traffic lights, a car sped past me, and the water on the side of the road spilled on me, and I was wet from my head to my feet.
I scolded him loudly in the back, watched him go, and after a while he came back again, he stopped the car and apologized to me, and gave me a towel and a bag of snacks as compensation.
Later, I asked for my number and said that if I had a cold, he would be responsible for the end, and I didn't react to him for a while.
02
Later he came to our restaurant to eat, saw me, and then he came often, would bring me some good food, and slowly we became boyfriend and girlfriend.
He was from the city and I was from the countryside, and his parents firmly disagreed with us, saying that I did not deserve him.
Fortunately, he was resolute and insisted on marrying me, and I knew that he had suffered a lot of grievances for me, and I wanted to do something for him.
When I got married, I didn't ask for anything, I didn't even buy three gold, I didn't rent wedding jewelry, and I didn't buy a new dress.
03
After getting married, my mother-in-law did not let me go to work, saying that my more than a thousand yuan a month was not enough for their family to eat a meal, so that I could prepare for pregnancy at home.
I can only agree that my husband gives me 5,000 yuan a month, and I am responsible for buying vegetables and cooking and doing housework.
The sister-in-law is also pregnant and lives in our house, she is not well married, the family is wide, and the mother-in-law let her move over to facilitate care.
Mother-in-law and sister-in-law are very tough, every day to eat seafood, to eat fresh natural, but also to buy supplements stewed for her to eat, they gave me 5,000 pieces are not enough, I did not buy myself a good thing.
But my mother-in-law and sister-in-law always said that the dishes I made were not delicious, so I learned more cooking skills, and I did not dare to make a sound.
04
Later, the sister-in-law gave birth to a son, and the mother-in-law was so happy that she was eager to carry her to the heavens.
I was also pregnant at that time, but my mother-in-law asked me to take care of her confinement, and said that I did not go to work, idle was idle, and I could not eat in vain. I was so angry with my mother-in-law that I cried.
Although my husband hurt me very much, he did not dare to say mother-in-law, he only comforted me after my mother-in-law bullied me, coaxed me or gave me a small gift.
He said, "I'm sorry wife, you've been wronged, you put up with it, your mother will have that temper, and when your child is born, she will be good to you." ”
05
But I gave birth to a daughter, and my mother-in-law saw that she was a girl, turned around and left, and did not come to the hospital to see me until she was discharged.
When I was confinement, she also loved to ignore it, let me eat porridge and eat noodles, and said that it could not be too supplemental, it would catch fire, and the child would get acne when he ate milk.
Out of confinement, all the work in the family was thrown to me, and my mother-in-law was taken care of by me, praising my sister-in-law's son every day, buying him toys, clothes, and good food, and my daughter had nothing.
It is also said that when the daughter grows up, she is going to marry someone, and if she does not suffer a little now, she will marry someone in the future, and it will be difficult to stay in the in-laws' house.
My husband's attitude towards me has also changed greatly, holding the mobile phone all day and smiling, and he is too lazy to care about me.
06
At the beginning, my parents did not agree to my marriage, but I had to marry out, and now that I have been wronged, I dare not tell my family.
My former friends were envious of me marrying a rich man, and I couldn't tell them about my grievances.
I had nowhere to vent, I became more and more depressed, and sometimes I wanted to pinch her when I watched my child cry. Sometimes I hate myself for being useless and cry inexplicably.
I kept telling myself that I couldn't get sick, that my children needed me, and that my parents were waiting for me to go back.
07
My daughter grew up day by day, and when I was three years old, I wanted to send her to kindergarten, and I asked my husband to give me money and pay my daughter's tuition. My husband was very impatient and said: "What kind of book to read at such a young age, it is not a waste of money to go, and I will read it again in two years, I have no money." ”
When he finished, he rolled over and ignored me. I couldn't sleep and picked up his phone to see how much money was left.
Who knows but let me see him transfer money to other women, all 520, 1314 turns, and the chat is also disgusting.
I suddenly broke down, I ran out, I thought that someone would come to me and I would go back, but no one came to me, I was desperate, I walked to a bridge, wanted to jump, a hundred.
When I was about to jump, a man grabbed me, a man, and he said, "What are you doing, what stupid thing are you doing?" It's better to die than to live, have you ever thought about your parents thinking about children...? ”
He scolded me fiercely, but he woke me up, and I just left, didn't I go along with their family's wishes?
08
I went home with a plan in mind, I wanted to get revenge on them, I wanted to get back what belonged to me.
I became more docile than before, especially with my husband, who would wait for him no matter how late he came back.
Every day I booed him warmly, bought him something, he sneezed, I was nervous to death, and immediately gave him medicine to drink. When he got drunk at night, I wiped him and washed his feet.
He is also a little guilty, his attitude towards me is much better, although my mother-in-law still picks me wrong, but I never resist, she says, I do, even the underwear is washed for her, she does not want to be so excessive before.
09
After marrying the trust of their family, I found a suitable time to say to my husband: "I know you have an affair, the woman came to me, if she really loves you, I can accept it, one more person to take care of you, I am happier, I am worried that she does not love you as much as I do, she can give everything for you, I worry that she loves your money." 」 ”
Looking at me, stunned for a few seconds, looking at my affectionate eyes, he said firmly: "No, she really loves me, just like you, very much love." ”
I said, "Are you so confident?" Then I will help you try her, and if she really loves you, I will accept to take care of you with her. ”
My husband said confidently: "You can try it any way, and I believe she believes in myself." ”
I said, "We fake divorce, you go out of the house and then go to her, if she is still willing to be with you, she really loves you, then you will all come back, if she leaves you, you will also see her true face, I will remarry you, we will live a good life." For so many years, I have worked hard to take care of this family, never asking you for valuable things, if you are cheated by her, my heart is really too uncomfortable. ”
My husband thought about it for a moment and agreed with my approach, thinking that someone as honest as me would not have any bad intentions.
10
After the divorce, he went to his lover and told her the good news that he had left the house, who knew that his lover immediately turned his face when he knew.
She said, "You have nothing, so what else am I going to do with you, I won't go find a good man to marry?" I carry the notoriety of the little three with you, don't you want to have money? I don't know where your confidence comes from, how far we break up and how far to roll. ”
My husband came back frustrated, which I expected, he said: "You are right, she really looks at my money, thank you wife, or you are the best for me." ”
I said coldly, "Don't call me wife, we're divorced." ”
He looked at me in disbelief and said, "Even you lied to me? When did you become so cunning and so vicious, when I knew you, you were so gentle and so kind. ”
I sneered and said, "It was all forced by your family, others think that I am married to a rich man, in fact, I am not even as good as a nanny, the money you give is spent on yourself, I have not bought a decent thing for myself, and I have to be called by your family to drink, which is what you deserve." ”
He said angrily, "I'm going to sue you, and I'm going to get back my property." ”
I smiled and said, "Whatever, you go and sue, and if you win, I'll pay you back half." ”
summary:
Men should know how to cherish their wives, a good man will make his wife more and more beautiful, more and more kind, an irresponsible man will make women into shrews.
At the beginning of man, his nature was good, he was so kind and gentle at the beginning, why did he become so cunning and so bad, it was not all because of him, whether he had taken back his property or not, but he was afraid that he would never meet a woman who loved him so sincerely.