I have heard that the galaxy is boiling hot, you are my ideal in the world, I have the feeling of drinking water, and I have also heard that the door is right, and the three views are not compatible. In the eyes of today's young people, love is spiritual and soul-level, and it seems to be more advanced, as if it is more in line with contemporary young people.
Many people may feel that it is very vulgar and traditional to say that the door-to-door is very traditional, and many people's understanding of the word is stuck in the era of past identity, similar to a resource exchange, the same family situation, the same conditions. Most people will think of "forced", "material" and "feudal" as soon as they hear the word "forced", "material" and "feudal", and some people will also think about why my feelings should be used by the previous generation to judge whether it is appropriate.
In the past, what we talked about was the matching of "things" that we talked about, but today's door-to-door pairs actually emphasize that the superstructure bred on the common economic basis is matched, including the original family, common language, values, living habits, hobbies and interests. It's like our schooling career, when we go to primary school, we have the opportunity to go to middle school, and when we go to middle school, we have the opportunity to go to high school, go to college, and finally go to society. It is the existing foundation that can go further.
No matter what kind of love is based, what comes to the end is marriage, many people say that marriage is the union of two families, it is two families that help a newborn family to build and grow, not a family in "poverty alleviation". The original family is actually very easy to understand, your parents are doctors and teachers, my parents are civil servant engineers, your family has two suites, my family has three suites, your annual salary is 300,000, my monthly salary is 20,000, then the two people together do not say icing on the cake and at least do not drag each other down.
Being in the same class is actually very important, only the emotions bred by the original family in the same class are similar, we love to read the same books, like the same way of life, every word I say you pick up, we will always have endless words together.
And for the spiritual level of alignment, it is also called soul mate. You are very principled, I also have my own persistence and pursuit, your three views are very correct, but I am very clear about right and wrong, you have the ability to think independently, I do not easily go with the flow.
Finally, I wish that there are lovers in the world who will eventually become dependents