May there be lovers in the world who will eventually become dependents.
This sentence is really very moving, but also particularly exciting.
When we are young, it is very easy for us to think that we will be able to meet a person who likes each other in the future, and when we like each other, we must be able to be together, from love to marriage, from marriage to whitehead.
However, the more we grow up, the more we will only find that such ideas are only very childish.
In the adult world, too many men and women, even if they like each other, have never been together at all, even if they really have a beginning, they may not really be able to go on, maybe they are just separated on a certain day.
Too many lovers, after all, are not together, and they are not together, this is the reality.
It sounds a little incredible, but this is actually quite normal.
They all liked it, but they didn't take the initiative.
We all know that it's never easy to meet someone you like and are also interested in.
But sometimes, even if we meet, we may not be able to recognize, can really be brave.
Instead of directly fighting, it will only be very unconfident, feeling that the other party probably does not like themselves, everything is just their own wishful thinking, but they will only feel that if the other party likes themselves, they should take the initiative of the other party, and then just wait.
As a result, they had the opportunity to be together, but because of mutual hesitation, mutual hesitation, and mutual bravery, they simply lost each other and buried that love deep in their hearts.
Sometimes, knowing is one thing, doing it is another, we are really not as honest as we think, we can honestly face our hearts, we can honestly follow our own hearts to live.
And when we have not been brave, just secretly like, the other party has not taken the initiative, but only a crush, even if each other are interesting, even if each other like each other in their hearts, it does not have any meaning after all.
Later, over time, each other just had different choices and went to different places.
Of course, in the days to come, it will be difficult for us to meet such a person again, and to meet such a love again.
I love each other very much, but I don't know how to manage.
In love, there are never many people who can really love once and get married, and go all the way to the end when they get married, and there are never many, or even very few.
Especially at the moment, breakups are commonplace, and the breakdown of two people's feelings is also everywhere.
In the end, each other is not not in love, at the beginning it was really very attractive to each other, very much want to have a future, very much want to really be together for a long time, but even if they love each other again, there is no way to go all the way.
In getting along, there are always too many problems, and there are always too many differences between two people.
Inadvertently, those contradictions consume each other's emotions, make each other feel very tired, let each other not want to continue, feel that the other party does not seem to be the right person.
Too many feelings come to the end, either they don't love and choose to leave, or even if they love, they are still scattered. It may not be how big a problem there is with each other, but there is no way, the feelings are unsustainable, and they can no longer go on.
Between men and women, there is affection for each other, mutual like, mutual attraction, this is an instinct, but only like, that is not the way to solve all the problems, so that the relationship can be sustained.
From acquaintance to together, it only requires mutual sympathy and a confession, and if you want to maintain feelings all the time, you need to be able to communicate well, be more tolerant, and be able to seek common ground while reserving differences, which many people can't do at all.
The time is not right, it can only be missed in vain.
I have to admit that whether I can be with a person or not, the heart is very important, and the time is also very important.
Some people, when the other party meets when we are not mature enough, we really can't stay, don't know how to love each other, can only watch each other become passers-by, and there is no future.
There are also people, we already have people around us, only late to come, at that moment, even if we like, we can only be responsible for our own feelings, responsible for our own families, can not get out, can not do some irrational things.
There are always some feelings, change a time, change a place, everything will really be different.
However, many times, we have no way to decide when to meet each other, and it is impossible, really when we are ready, the time and place are favorable, and everything is so suitable, that person will just arrive.
Emotional things, we have to follow the heart, but we also have no way to do as we please, will need to take care of too much, there will be some things, at the same time need to balance, to make a trade-off.
There are always some likes, missed, we realize our own stupidity, there are always some likes, even if we want to reach out, but we can only do nothing.
Life is always like this, there are always too many misses, and it is never possible to do everything as you wish.
Two people have feelings and are able to be together, which is a blessing.
If you can not only be together, but also be able to travel together for a long time, this is a special blessing.
Fortunate to have, we better cherish it, remember this feeling, how hard-won it was, don't lose each other, love each other well, and continue the feelings.
It's a pity if we can't be together, but we also have to know how to accept it.
Love is not very regrettable, but it is just a normal state of life, and many people are experiencing it.
If you can choose to like each other with yourself, then make that choice, otherwise, just love what you choose, so that each other can be as happy as possible in the future.
Text/Tan Meng
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