Women also want to have lovers

"Happy Birthday to Me", this article, written a few years ago, posted several times in the circle of friends, each time receiving three or five blessings. I replied to all these blessings one by one and told them that today was not my birthday.

Some people are shocked, today is not your birthday, ah, I also forwarded it.

She's a woman who has been lurking in my fandom for a long time, not leaving messages, not tipping, not forwarding, and not adding friends.

I laughed: Am I adding you? Or you add me. At this point, she took the initiative to add me, told me that Mingyan was recommended by so-and-so, and said that my article was well written.

So-and-so is the leader of the group, I am also in his group, a teacher friend pulled in, this group was very lively at first, and then became very quiet, only we sent a link to the group, no matter if there is anyone to see, send it and leave.

I like quiet fish, quietly luring fish into the fish. The quiet fish, like a lantern, has only a very small entrance, and there are still a few turns inside, and the fish do not know how to get out after entering. Put some lees in the basket and carry it into the water, and the smell of wine slowly spreads in the water, and when it is scattered, it will attract the fish. After a few hours to pick up, there will always be some small fish, more than half a pound eight two, as little as three or five, fingers so big, squeezed belly and cheeks, fried under the wine, very sweet.

The WeChat group is like a pond, a pool of stagnant water, and occasionally you can smell a few frogs. Send articles to the group, few people read, many people are busy, the messages are screened off, only a few idle people, occasionally click to see, the amount of information in the group is large, did not have time to see the screen. Therefore, the title is very important, it must be appetizing and eye-catching, otherwise no one will look at it.

Ms. Yan was lured by me like this, and she reminded me of a Yongzhou netizen. I remember writing an article at that time, "Looking at the Phase Measurement Words Is Very Magical, the Teacher Wants to Come to the Door to Pray for Gifts", and when I went to the circle of friends, everyone came to see the picture, which made me not win for a while, and I watched the palms of twenty-five people half a night.

Yongzhou netizens' palms are looking for me during the day, his friend looked for me to see, said very accurate, he added me WeChat, said want to understand the fate. During the day, I don't watch, I want to go to work, he will stalk and beat me, transfer money to my account, and when the time comes, he will urge, so that I have not eaten dinner. I looked at his hand, then at his face, and said, you are worried about your marriage and physical condition, your family is well-off, your parents have given you a lot of financial support, love to make friends, and spend money indiscriminately.

He said, God, how do you know? Continue to talk, seek truth from facts, do not bend over backwards, do not say everything good, and say bad things.

I suggested that he get married after 28 and that getting married early would be unstable. He said he married at 33 and married a wife 12 years younger than himself. Her wife studied with him when she was 20 years old and married him after graduation.

He married such a young wife that I was envious and jealous.

His wife was reading with the child, something inexplicable happened within 3 months, he witnessed his wife with another man, she could not explain clearly, the man could not explain clearly, they swore together that if they did something sorry for him, the whole family would not die. He asked me, can they be trusted?

He can't accept this fact, has been struggling with this, hope is not true, but also hope that his wife can confess, he just wants to ask for an explanation, let his wife admit a mistake to himself, and promise not to repeat it in the future, he will forgive her. But she didn't admit it, and ran back to her mother's house in a huff, and didn't come back for several months. At this moment, he did not scatter in his heart.

His wife is a Xinhua person, he does not understand Meishan culture, the Xinhua dialect is not very understanding, see I am a Loudi person, many things come to ask me. It can be seen that he loves his wife very much, and his ideology and concept are also very feudal, and his heart always can't pass that hurdle.

It is better to demolish ten temples than to scatter a marriage.

I tried bitterly to persuade him, told him to go to the door to pick him up, and used my true feelings to impress my wife's heart and persuade her to change her mind.

He was a donkey, nervous, and couldn't turn his mind for a moment and a half. I didn't bother to pay attention to him, I'm not a savior, and I need to tie the bell to the ringer.

Ms. Yan talked to me for a long time, talking about gender issues, she liked to read the emotional stories I wrote, and believed it. Take these things to the seat, ask the east and the west, for the protagonist of the story to fight unevenly, if it is her, never let go, will do death noise, quarrel I can not be peaceful.

She said, don't let her fall in love with me. If she falls in love, it will be a disaster.

I laughed, fortunately you are not my wife, otherwise this life would be over.

She told me that she had an affair, that person was also a teacher, her child's homeroom teacher, very handsome, two in the middle. She loved him, but he didn't like her. Ignore her. I have been in a relationship for two years, only once skin kissing, the rest are WeChat contacts, she took the initiative to find him, and he did not return much.

She said they were both married, had children and were happy.

I asked, then why are you cheating? This is being in a blessing and not knowing the blessing.

She laughed, people cheated, I also want to have a lover, no lover, feel that life is not perfect.

I said that such an extramarital affair would not bear fruit, that he would not love you at all, and that he would not divorce and marry you. If I love you, I will soak with you every day. If I wanted to marry you, I would have lived with you a long time ago.

She said it didn't matter if he loved me or not, I loved him very much anyway. That's enough. Nor do I expect him to marry me. My husband loves me very much, has two children and feels very happy.

She told him that there would be a skin kiss in the next few days. Unfortunately, he was hospitalized for illness and needed surgery, and whether he could do that after surgery is still a mystery.