#Woman complains that it is too tiring to cook for more than a dozen people at her in-laws' house for the New Year# I can understand. Because I used to be like her, my sister-in-law's family and my brother-in-law's family ate at my house during the New Year, but I was always the only one who cooked rice and stir-fried vegetables.
Like this complaining woman, I used to wash vegetables in cold water every day for a few days in the New Year, and I felt that my bones hurt. Wash the dishes and stir-fry. More than a dozen dishes are fried by yourself. My husband helped bring the dishes to the table.
When I was fried and they were almost ready to eat, I dealt with a few bites of cold leftovers, and immediately cleaned up the table and washed the dishes. The mother-in-law sat like a guest and chatted with her daughter and son.
When I washed the dishes, my tired hands hurt and my waist hurt, and I sat down to rest and didn't ease up, and I had to cook dinner again. A few days in a row of New Year's Day feels more tiring than going to work!
Women still have to be nice to themselves, and now the family treats except for vegetables that I wash and fry, and the rest of the cooked food that I buy.
And I wash the dishes now in cold water with some hot water. That way the hand doesn't hurt.
If there are more than a dozen people eating at home in the New Year, I usually go to small restaurants. The restaurant's cauliflower is delicious, so I don't have to be busy.
Sometimes complaining about what is useful, only to find a way to solve it, and then remember to be kind to yourself. #无锡头条 #
