It is said that 3 women are a play, and 4 women in my family just put together 1 table of mahjong. My mother divorced, followed by my two sisters, and in the end I could not escape this spell, last year's flash marriage flashed away, is divorce really contagious?
My mother is a strong woman, since I can remember, I know that my father is a rake ear, everything has to listen to my mother, he always looks at home with a only look, I look at it pitifully. But it was such a timid man who actually cheated on him, and the woman who cheated on me was nothing compared to my mother, and my father's original words of repentance to my mother were: When the ghost was confused, he coveted her gentleness. Where there was sand in my mother's eyes, she directly swept my father out of the house, and my father left the house and did not take anything, including me and my two sisters.
Since then, my two sisters and I have become the children of a single-parent family, and my mother has also begun to get up early and make money in the dark, desperately supporting the three of us. I am sad about my mother's hard work, but I am also afraid of my mother's temper, since the divorce, my mother's temper has become more and more irritable day by day, frightening us to carefully look at my mother's face every day, afraid that if we are not careful, we will set her on fire.
The eldest sister talked about a boyfriend when she was 19 years old, the two were part-time workers, the boy and the eldest sister were the same age, tall and handsome, the eldest sister was a face value control, and was fascinated by the boy. When the eldest sister brought the boy to my house, my mother expressed strong opposition, on the grounds that the boy was too handsome and the eldest sister could not keep it. But the eldest sister said that he would not marry, so angry that my mother threw the eldest sister and the boy out of the house on the spot.
Soon, the eldest sister was pregnant, my mother had no choice but to agree to their marriage, but she did not attend the eldest sister's wedding, perhaps the marriage without the blessing of her parents will not last long, the boy was less than a month after marriage, he was taken in by a rich woman, directly gave him a large amount of money, let him divorce the eldest sister, the boy saw the wealth and forgot his righteousness, really forced the eldest sister to divorce, the eldest sister had to beat up the child in the belly and return to our side.
Seeing that the second sister has also reached the age of talking about marriage, my mother has spoken, saying that the second sister must come according to her requirements to find a boyfriend, first, she can't look too handsome, and second, the family must have money. It is also a coincidence that when the second sister was 23 years old, she met such a boy who met the conditions of her mother. That day, the second sister brought it home, and my mother busily greeted her and took out the most expensive wine in the house.
Soon, the two families sat together to talk about the marriage, the boy's parents looked arrogant, and all the arrangements for the wedding were subject to the requirements of the man's family. But my mother didn't care, she said that as long as the second sister married and was happy, she had nothing to be wronged. But my mother's wishful thinking is still wrong, the second sister married less than a year ago, the second brother-in-law began to spend the day and wine, the night did not return, the reason is that the second sister's stomach has not been moving, his family needs a son to inherit the family business. The more the second sister wants to have a child, the more she can't conceive, the contradiction between the two is getting deeper and deeper, and finally the second sister herself feels that she can't go on, and takes the initiative to divorce.
My mother saw that her two sisters had become divorced women, and her heart was anxious, and she could only hope that I could find a good marriage. I am a person whose love is supreme, even if his family is surrounded by walls and looks like Wu Dalang, as long as we truly love each other, it is okay. The love of my dreams came as promised when I was 25 years old, we met on the way to travel, it was love at first sight, and when the trip ended, we became a couple in love. He has three sons, my family has three daughters, he said he would like to be my mother's door-to-door son-in-law, my mother is very happy to close her mouth, after all, my family needs a masculine man to enter the door.
After only three months of knowing each other, my family welcomed this man into the door. He is attractive, sweet and diligent, and the 4 women in the family like to revolve around him, which is a good thing, indicating that our family relationship is harmonious. Unfortunately, less than three months after marriage, he began to use his hands and feet on my two sisters, frightening the two sisters not to go home, my mother knew, directly let me leave him, and I, too, can not tolerate a grain of sand in my eyes, no matter how he repents, he will never forgive.
In this way, the 4 women in my family who have experienced marriage are all single again, can you tell me what the problem is?
Thank you for your trust. Do divorces also contagious, you ask? Here I'm pretty clear to tell you that divorce is really contagious. I have a divorced colleague and several of her friends are also divorced women, which is the herd effect and it's easy to emulate. If your family divorces a lot, it may be invisibly affected, such as you and your sisters.
Marriage is sacred, and it is also something that we need to cherish and maintain with our hearts. Let's start with your mother's divorce, in fact, your timid father, just afraid of your strong mother, will be moved by the gentle and watery woman outside, maybe not at all, just longing for your mother to become gentler, but your mother did not reflect on her own problems, nor accept your father's confession, which caused your three sisters to grow up in a single-parent family.
Children who grow up in single-parent families are born with a lack of security, as long as other men give a little sweetness, they will think that it is love, and it is easy to fall into it, and they do not delve into whether it is true love or not. Just like your three sisters, the eldest sister likes handsome men, the second sister looks at a rich man, and you, neither want money, nor picture appearance, you only picture a love word, it is reasonable to say, your two sisters are not happy in marriage is expected, you are not the same, you really want to talk about a vigorous love, but you are also blinded by the so-called love, your short encounter, did not substantively understand each other, he only relied on rhetoric, captured your heart, or complained that you did not open your eyes before marriage, After marriage, he revealed his flowery nature, so it is reasonable that the flash separation brought about by your flash marriage is also reasonable.
In short, a good marriage is a mutual support and mutual achievement. Marriage failure is not terrible, as long as you can learn from it and learn from it, you can still pursue your own happiness again.
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