The other party takes the initiative to tell you this, not deep love, but intends to leave you.

First, start to criticize you, saying that there are various problems in you

Xiaoyi and Xiaomeng have been dating for three months, and in the first month of the beginning, Xiaoyi is particularly sweet, because her boyfriend Xiaomeng is particularly kind to her.

But now Xiao Meng is like a changed person, in the past month, Xiao Meng has always been lukewarm to himself, not very concerned about himself, but also not completely ignoring himself, and occasionally can feel his love for himself.

But Xiao Meng's attitude towards XiaoYi has become more and more bad, and during this time, he often points out Xiaoyi's problems, such as Xiaoyi saying a few words, saying that Xiaoyi has been nagging all day, saying that Xiaoyi's current dressing style is not what he likes.

But his tone was not like blame, it was peaceful.

So Xiaoyi has an illusion, thinking that Xiao Meng wants to make herself better, not like the tone of wanting to break up with herself, but wanting to change this shortcoming, correcting it, Xiao Meng will love herself as she did.

Since then, Xiaoyi has been particularly cautious, crazy to change herself, become no longer nagging, speak also began to speak simply, one or two sentences to express their own meaning, in order to change these, they also specially went to the Internet to strengthen the practice, in their own clothing style also changed a lot, gave up their favorite style, changed to Xiao Meng like.

But not long after, Xiao Meng and Xiao Yi proposed to break up, Xiao Yi did not understand where she was bad, she had changed a lot, why did she break up, she was very depressed and very sad.

Xiao Meng and she showed that it was a place to state that they couldn't stand Xiao Yi, and you should understand the meaning in your heart, not to make you change, but to break up with you euphemistically, how can you not understand.

When a man takes the initiative to tell a woman about some of the shortcomings of a woman, women should not be too naïve to think that the purpose of men saying these words is to change these shortcomings, not to make you love you more after changing, but to break up with you.

Women should not be too naïve, and the man who tells you about your shortcomings is most likely to prove that he has been disgusted with your shortcomings, is telling you, 'I can't stand your shortcomings', and wants to break up with you peacefully.

Second, tell you about the merits of his ex-girlfriend

Compared with Xiaoyi, Xiaoxue is a little smarter than her. She knows very well what men think. She knew certain words about men.

Xiao Xue and Xiao Jiang were in love for four months. In the past four months, Jiang Liang has rarely mentioned his ex-girlfriend. Even if he mentions it, he only tells himself some of his ex-girlfriend's flaws.

But then Xiao Jiang changed a lot. He started mentioning his ex-girlfriend, and this time when he mentioned his ex-girlfriend, he said all about the ex-girlfriend's strengths, not hers.

"My original girlfriend was actually very nice and she was very gentle with me." "My ex-girlfriend was very aggressive. She vowed to take up the position of supervisor. Jiang Liang began to say this often.

Xiao Xue suddenly understood in her heart that Xiao Jiang was going to break up with me. She boldly asked Xiao Jiang what these words meant. Xiao Jiang also said her words: "Xiao Xue, let's break up." ”

When men take the initiative to mention the benefits of ex-girlfriends to women, men actually want to break up with this woman.

Some women believe that the benefit of men mentioning their exs is to find role models for themselves and hope she can work in which direction she can go.

Women comfort themselves with this thought, to love the person who hurts themselves, really shouldn't, men really love you and will never compare you to his ex-girlfriend, that way, it will really hurt the woman's heart.

When a person initiates telling you these things, he doesn't love you deeply, but intends to leave you. Women must be smart and be prepared accordingly in time.

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