I was 48 years old, married to Lao Zhao half a month ago, last night I took a shower and prepared to lie in bed to sleep, but Lao Zhao pulled me to the balcony, I had some doubts, but then he suddenly made a request to me

I was 48 years old, married to Old Zhao half a month ago, last night I took a shower and prepared to lie on the bed to sleep, But Old Zhao pulled me to the balcony, I had some doubts, but then he suddenly made a request to me, I was almost difficult to accept after listening. I didn't expect Old Zhao to be such a person:

My ex-husband died 7 years ago, but fortunately my ex left a fortune so that I and a pair of children would not be left without a place to live. In the past two years, I have managed to marry my son and marry my daughter to a good family. A pair of children have a good home, and my heart is also very comforting.

Half a year ago, something happened, that day I bought a few shrimp and meat, ready to stew a pot of seafood casserole porridge, when stewing porridge I was worried about it paste the pot, I sat on the stool in the restaurant to guard, but guarded, I actually fell asleep on my stomach, and when I woke up, people had already entered the hospital.

It turned out that my daughter had not answered my phone call, which had never been the case before, and she felt bad and went home to see it, but as soon as she entered the house, she found the smell of coal in the house, she quickly opened the window and quickly took me to the hospital.

After this incident, my daughter thought that it was definitely not okay for me to live alone, and said that I should find another wife and take care of each other, I think her words are reasonable, so I began the road of blind date.

I met several of them, and they had all kinds of requirements for me, some asked me if I would have a pension in the future, some asked me if I could help their family with their grandchildren, and even some people asked me if I could regenerate. It really makes me cry and laugh. With these few blind dates, I really wanted to give up.

But when I decided not to look for it anymore, I suddenly met Old Zhao. That day I went to the supermarket to buy vegetables, on the way back suddenly rained, I hurried back with the vegetables, but I did not expect that the bag in my hand suddenly pierced the bottom. All the dishes fell to the ground, and I braved the rain to pick them all up.

But without the bag, I couldn't take so much in my hand, when a man passed me with an umbrella, and he stopped. Bending down to help me pick up the dishes on the ground and asking me where I was going, I pointed to the neighborhood in front of me.

He said, not far, I'll send you back. I nodded my head in particular gratitude. When I arrived at the community, I found that half of his clothes were all wet, and I was a little too upset in my heart, so I invited him to the house to drink a cup of hot water and change clothes.

Upstairs, I took a piece of my son's previous clothes and put them in the dryer, then I beckoned him to sit down and went into the kitchen to make a cup of ginger tea.

Later, we drank and talked on the couch, and in the process of chatting, I felt that he was staring at me with a strange look, as if he was admiring something, and could not say the feeling, but I was embarrassed to ask.

Later, I learned that he lived in the neighborhood next door to us, called Old Zhao, 54 years old. I have a daughter, and he is as old and single as I am. My wife passed away two years ago.

When it comes to his wife, he seems to be a little sad, which makes me appreciate it a little, and now there are few men who are so affectionate!

With this incident, we both knew each other. He called me a lot and slowly the two of us developed into dates to meet and he didn't ask anything of me. He said that as long as he was with me, his mood became very good, and he always said that he was grateful for the rain that allowed him to know me.

And I gradually have a different feeling for him, he is really affectionate to me, very considerate, he always shows his emotions and thoughts very directly, I feel that I have finally found a home.

Later, with the consent of our daughter and son, we held a simple banquet and got married!

After marriage, I moved to the old Zhao family, the first few days, the days are very sweet, nothing unusual, when I am cooking, old Zhao will stand outside the kitchen staring at my back, he always likes to look at me. I asked him why he was always staring at me, and he stopped talking several times.

But just last night, when I was taking a shower and preparing to go to bed, Old Zhao suddenly walked into the room and he said let me go to the balcony with him. I was a little confused, but went anyway. On the balcony, he said: You see how windy it is here, and the scenery is good, before my ex-wife would blow the wind here after taking a bath, and we would talk here for a long time.

I was a little upset as to why he was telling me this, and then he pulled a picture out of his pocket and said, "Look, how much do you two look like?"

I took a look at the photo and found that I really looked a bit like the woman in the photo, and then Old Zhao spoke again: My ex-wife has been keeping short hair for so many years, and I think it looks good, so I hope you can also have short hair, it is best to cut the same hairstyle as her.

In terms of dressing, I hope you learn the style of my ex-wife, I really don't like to look at these casual clothes you are wearing now, and then he talks a lot, all about his ex-wife, and when it comes to it, he just wants to make me look like his ex-wife. I was stunned by his words.

I directly refused his request, I said that I did not want to be a shadow of someone else, which made Old Zhao particularly disappointed, he looked at me and suddenly became cold, that night, he did not go into the master bedroom to sleep, but slept in the second bedroom.

All night, I tossed and turned in bed, and began to regret that I was too sloppy, and now that I don't agree with Old Zhao's words, it is estimated that in the future, our lives will definitely not be able to live together, but if I agree, do I want to be the shadow of other people for the rest of my life?

From his reaction from the back, it can be seen that Old Zhao did not marry you at all because he liked you. From the beginning, Old Zhao helped you, to the back to pursue you and marry you, it was all with a purpose, and it was really terrifying to think about it. Even if you are willing to be the shadow of his ex-wife, you can't do exactly the same as his ex-wife, no matter how you learn, how to imitate, it is estimated that he will not be satisfied, there will only be updated requirements, do you want to cater to his preferences to change yourself against your will? Why bother? It is recommended to hurry up and stop the loss in time!

Or, talk to him openly and honestly, and if he's willing to give up the past and look forward to living with you, give him another chance and try to get along again.