The relationship between Wang Xiaofei and Big S finally came to a successful end.
After a couple chooses to divorce, custody of the children becomes a major play. Just like the interpretation in major film and television dramas, couples will eat in order to compete for the custody of their children and become ugly, for fear that the children will be snatched away by each other.
But in fact, in real life, children are not only not as sought-after as imagined, but will become a burden for couples to start a new life. If nothing else, the children are raised by their mothers.
After divorce, couples have very different attitudes towards their children
Women will not hesitate to choose children
In a street interview, dozens of passers-by were randomly asked for their opinions on whether they would fight for custody of their children after divorce, in which all women would choose children and all men would choose property.
This ending shocked everyone, is this the biggest difference between mother and father? Is the so-called fatherly love gone?
The reasons given by men vary widely, either because they feel they can't figure it out or because they are worried about the impact their remarriage will have on their children. He even revealed the idea that children were a burden to themselves.
Women are weak, but mothers are strong
It is said that after a woman gives birth to a child, it is a metamorphosis. Whether it is physical or psychological, there have been great changes, and any situation will be naturally considered for the child, and the child will always be ranked first.
This may be the best explanation for the connection between mother and child. From the moment the child is a fertilized egg, the connection between the child and the mother is very close, and after the birth of the child, breastfeeding pushes this attachment relationship to a new climax.
In the eyes of women, children are their greatest wealth, as long as they can support their children, they will not let the children leave themselves half a step, because a mother will not believe that anyone can take care of the child better than herself.
Wang Xiaofei revealed the details of the divorce: choosing not to have children, and never wanted to set an example for them
Similarly, even celebrities cannot escape this law. Wang Xiaofei unabashedly said his thoughts in a talk show, although he said very euphemistically, you can respect the child's wishes to choose who to follow, but the sound of the string is that he will not fight for the child.
Moreover, he will also feel that his marriage with Big S will affect the child, if it really affects the child's future marriage concept, he can only feel sorry, the rest have become very weak.
In fact, it is not surprising that he holds this kind of idea. After all, after a month of separation from Big S, he found a new love more than ten years younger than himself, although Big S blessed him very generously, but netizens could not forgive him so generously.
His behavior also proves another truth, how old men like young and beautiful women, like the new and dislike the old is their nature.
Some men can act faithful, like the three good men, maybe they haven't experienced any temptation! Remember that human nature is not tested at all!
If divorce is really coming, how can a mother guide her children?
Don't throw dirty water on Dad
We often see such a thing, after the mother divorced because she hates her husband, she explicitly forbids the child from interacting with the father, and even does not allow the child to mention the father.
And often instill in children the idea of father's unforgivable, in the subtle twist of the child's concept. As a result, many children are very resistant to men and choose not to marry when they become adults.
In fact, this practice is very irrational. Even if the husband has a thousand differences, the mother does not have to involve the child. After all, the child is not familiar with the world, he can not understand the troubles of adults, they only know that in order to make their mother happy, they can only obey.
And the right thing to do is to maintain the image of Dad Wei'an. Even if it is a little beautified, it is not impossible. Only in this way can we help children form a correct view of marriage, and the three views can be more sound.
Let the child grow up freely
Some single mothers will have a very strong desire to control, because they put all their hopes on their children, and the meaning of their lives is to cultivate children.
Therefore, the child is like a puppet in their eyes, must be obedient, strictly in accordance with their own requirements, academic performance to reach a certain height, what kind of clothes to wear, what kind of friends to make.
Living in this environment for a long time, the probability of children's personality distortion is very large, coupled with their habitual suppression of themselves, sooner or later something big will happen.
Today's Topic:
Do you think Wang Xiaofei is a qualified father? If you were a big S, would you do it so generously? Welcome to share your thoughts!