See a lot of tangled complaints about the imbalance between the income and expenditure of the Spring Festival red packets, in fact, in this way, my family is the most lossy...
My family has a child, my family refers to our family of three, together with the parents' family is six, five adults and one child. Under normal circumstances, when we meet a relative's child, we have to send out three red envelopes and get back one.
Look at the children of our relatives, the uncle has two sons and a daughter, and then three granddaughters, a nephew; two aunts, four daughters and one son, and the grandchildren have five children; the sister-in-law has two children, the cousin has one child, and the cousin has three, for a total of four.
The most frequent relatives are these people, the total number of children plus my family is 14, the red envelopes sent out by our family are 14×3, and the income is about 10. My husband's principle is that whether he sees people or not, as long as the child has not yet participated in the work, the red envelope must have a share. My uncle's younger son is used to being favored at home, more willful, and does not give red envelopes to see the mood. I remember one year, my son was still young, when he saw him, he called an uncle, I quickly corrected him and said it was an uncle, he said, call me uncle, the red envelope is not given! But his two children still gave us two red envelopes.
Relatives of the husband's family, nephews and nieces each have two children of four, the second nephew has three nephews, a total of five children; five nephews have five children. A total of 14 children ~ their side is basically able to recover six or seven red envelopes.
It's a matter of numbers.
Amount, many people say, the other party has two children, their own children, if others give themselves two hundred, they will give each other a hundred, the total number is also two hundred. In fact, I don't understand a little, are you all opening the red envelope to send to each other? Or do you just give money without giving it in a red packet? Maybe the child takes the red envelope to the side to play, and you still have to chase after the red envelope to see before giving the red envelope to other people's children?
We are all packed in red packets in advance, a hundred is all a hundred, two hundred is all two hundred, when we see children, we are not very familiar with it. If the market changes and you don't keep up, you will still feel a little cheap in your heart, and the next year you will increase the price [teeth] [teeth] [teeth].
Most of our red envelopes are based on the reality of doing what we can, we will not consider lucky, they are all close relatives, more or less happy!
