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New Year: A wealthy family often does the following four things. 01 There is a couplet that says it well: "Rich family, rich family; family prosperity, career prosperity." "During the Chinese New Year,

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New Year: A wealthy family often does the following four things.

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One couplet said it well: "The rich family, the rich family; the family is prosperous, the career is prosperous."

Everything we do during the Chinese New Year means that families will be more prosperous and healthy in the new year.

However, no matter how good the blessing, it will eventually be decomposed into bits and pieces of life, otherwise it is all empty talk.

So a wealthy family does the following four things from the beginning of the year.

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First, mutual understanding and family harmony.

During the New Year, the family sat around and ate a reunion dinner and talked while eating. Everyone will talk about the harvest of the past year, the troubles of this year.

There are always some people who have worked hard all year and failed to achieve one thing, and the next year will be confused.

Good things, everyone likes, bad things can not understand, so complaining is always inevitable. In fact, people who make mistakes and are confused need more understanding and care.

Everyone is a family, we must pay attention to empathy, do not arbitrarily put forward their own views, and do not get angry at will.

The Ming Dynasty writer Feng Menglong wrote about a woman named Shunge, who was born in the Song Dynasty. When she went to work with her father, she was taken away by robbers. A few days later, Brother Shun married Fan Xizhou, the nephew of the bandit.

Later, the bandit nest was eliminated, and Brother Shun's parents forced her to remarry, believing that the daughter of the official family should be at odds with the bandits. Shun Yue: "Although Fan Zhou is a Xiucai, he was forced to become a robber by his uncle. I can't get married again. ”

With the understanding and help of Brother Shun, Fan Xizhou studied hard and eventually became a military commander.

Tagore said, "Love is another name for understanding."

During the Spring Festival, families should have more love between each other, rather than competing with each other. As long as we set a common goal and encourage each other, the hard times will come to an end.

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Second, do good deeds and be blessed.

Many families, family members, can help each other, but outsiders are very stingy, and even work together to bully them.

In fact, being a person should be "transparent inside and out". If you love others with the attitude of loving your family, you will definitely be happy.

Smart young people will visit their neighbors during the New Year and give some specialties from other places to the neighbors. His actions will impress the neighbors.

Most importantly, if the young person goes out to work, the parents stay at home, and the neighbors have a good relationship, the parents' daily life can be taken care of by the neighbors.

Taking advantage of the Opportunity of the New Year to visit neighbors and help the elderly, weak, sick and disabled in the community can leave a good impression and improve the living environment.

Before the Spring Festival, everyone worked together to eradicate weeds and clean ditches. Through labor, the environment becomes beautiful, everyone gets to know each other, and multiple goals are achieved.

During the Spring Festival, in the community property group, send blessings and exchange greetings. It was a small thing, but it made the whole community laugh.

Don't be nice and small, but don't do anything. Don't think there's nothing good to do in the New Year. As long as we find out with our hearts, there are always some things that we need to help and benefit others.

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Third, plan well and be hopeful.

"Great White Rabbit. "The Cattle Herder" writes: "There is no ploughing in the spring, nothing can be counted on in the autumn, nothing can be afforded, nothing can be done during the day; if you are not diligent, you will never find a home."

The arrangement at the beginning of the year is crucial for the harvest of the year.

Many families will hold Zhuge Liang meetings at the New Year's Day to sort out what to do in the coming year and set priorities. We also take the difficulties out and see how to solve them.

After combing through, you will find that many things can be easily handled as long as everyone agrees.

In my hometown, there are two brothers who are very filial to their parents. Parents are old, the New Year always discuss together, this year who takes care of their parents at home, who goes out to work.

Comprehensive wage level, skill development, rural land use, etc. , in order to find the best solution. People who make more money also voluntarily give more alimony.

In the workplace, we often come across the term "adjustment plan." Through co-ordination, we try to make the best use of everyone's abilities and use time efficiently.

As a family, you must also learn the method of co-ordination. In this way, as long as someone in the family has money, it means that the extended family has money; there is no phenomenon of "three monks without water to eat".

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Fourth, a simple life is good for health.

As the saying goes, "Fireworks in the world can most soothe the hearts of ordinary people."

During the New Year, be sure to eat and drink, visit relatives and friends, and get together for a walk.

But we must not lose the tradition of industriousness and frugality. Food cannot be wasted.

If you think about it, you'll find that a lot of homes don't think about practicality at all when shopping.

For example, a few years ago, several brothers returned to their parents' house from out of town and each bought two boxes of apples. On the seventh day of the sixth day, all the brothers went out. Parents are worried when they see apples, but can only watch them rot.

If the brothers go home and communicate with each other and don't buy things randomly, they won't waste it.

In addition, during the New Year, the most taboo is to get drunk and fight for alcohol.

My grandmother once told such a story: In ancient times, there was a god who saw the suffering of the world and arranged for everyone to celebrate the New Year, so that everyone should not work and eat and drink with confidence.

On the fifteenth day of the first month, the immortals found that there were more and more lazy people, and some people became poor because of eating and drinking. The immortals decided decisively that the "year" would end on the fifteenth day. Next, there are the working hours.

At any time, industriousness, wisdom and frugality cannot be lost. Get used to working hard, control your diet, and you'll be healthier in the new year.

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Poem: "The heavens and the earth are full of wind and frost, and the dry kun weather is too peaceful." Coupled with the new year, spring is full of ancient mountains and rivers. ”

The New Year must have a new atmosphere, not all the time. One year older, one more point of happiness.

Over the years, the earth will awaken and spring will come as promised.

The family is very kind and kind to make money.

Family members are kind, and good deeds are rewarded.

The family had a goal and won.

The family is very hardworking and frugal every year.

In the new year, I wish you and my family happiness and health.

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