I am 61 years old, a month ago, I remarried zijuan, 45 years old, but recently I feel that her whereabouts are a little strange, last night in the early morning, I found that zijuan is actually missing! I called her and the ringtone rang

I am 61 years old, a month ago, I remarried zijuan, 45 years old, but recently I feel that her whereabouts are a little strange, last night in the early morning, I found that zijuan is actually missing! I called her, but the ringtone came from the balcony, and her mobile phone was stuck between the window edge and the anti-theft net, most of the night, where did she go?

I am 61-year-old Uncle Xu, before retiring I was a university professor, Zijuan and I got married a month ago, in fact, we have known each other for two years!

Two years ago, Zijuan was still in my house as a nanny, when my wife had just passed away. My daughter was worried about my body, afraid that I would have another heart attack, so she hired a babysitter for me.

Zijuan was sent by the housekeeping company, 45 years old, quite dignified, especially the black hair, which made me envious, she is a widow, but has a son who has just graduated from college. Since she came to work at my house, my whole body has become refreshed, Zijuan is a good person, a good heart, and a better life. She cleaned the house spotlessly, cooked delicious meals, and when my wife died, I lost 10 pounds, but in less than two months I rose again.

Zi Juan talks a lot, but I don't dislike it at all, because she speaks very well. Never say something sad or complain. Compared with those middle-aged and elderly women who love to complain, I think she is much stronger than this alone!

In the past two years in my family, Zijuan and I have spent time and day together every day and night, respecting each other as guests. But what I didn't expect was that someone outside chewed the root of his tongue and said that there was no clarity between me and the nanny, which made me very angry, and Zijuan also heard it, and she was very aggrieved.

Later, I thought of a way, since I can't control the rumors, then I simply let these people shut up, I said to Zijuan: If you don't hate me for being old, I will marry you into the door!

Zi Juan hesitated, and I understood what she meant.

I went on to say: I will pay your monthly salary from now on, and I will give you your pension card for safekeeping.

Zi Juan smiled and agreed.

The next day, I told my daughter about this, and I didn't expect that my daughter was very unhappy, she said: Dad, Zijuan is your nanny, I have no problem, but I am very disapproving of you marrying her. She has a son who is not yet married, you know, you marry her, who knows what will happen in the future. She's sixteen years younger than you, why marry you? What is the picture you don't know?

Later, the son-in-law came up with an idea, he said: Father-in-law, you can marry Aunt Zijuan if you want, but in order to avoid her calculating you in the future, why don't you simply transfer the two properties and savings under your name to your daughter? This avoids risks!

As soon as I heard this, I was angry! What is risk aversion? I'm only 61 years old, and now I'm giving my property to my daughter, isn't that a risk? And if I live another 20 years and die, what will Zi Juan do? She was also 65 years old at the time, an old lady, was she going to be kicked out of the house and had nowhere to go?

I refused my son-in-law's offer, and my daughter said harshly to me: Dad, if you insist on marrying her, then don't blame us for not filial piety in the future. After saying this, the two of them left in a huff.

My daughter is so disappointed in me, I think of her who I raised hard, but she does not know how to be grateful, so I think, live for myself once for the rest of my life, pursue my own happiness!

A few days later, Zijuan and I got our licenses. I also fulfilled my promise and gave the pay card to Zi Juan for safekeeping. We were happy after marriage.

But this good time lasted less than 20 days, and I found out that something was wrong with Zi Juan. She has been a bit mysterious lately, always saying something during the day, and talking on the phone behind my back. On the phone, I vaguely heard what she said: I will get the money, you don't force me, and then force me to show you.

But I asked her why, and she didn't say. It wasn't until one o'clock in the morning that day, when I found the pillow empty, that I knew that Zi juan was not at home. I searched all over the home, living room, balcony, kitchen, under the bed, cupboards, none. I was very flustered in my heart, could it be that what my daughter warned me before had really come true?

Later, I called Zijuan and found that her phone was actually on the edge of the window. I couldn't help but get scared, and I waited on the couch until the morning before Zi Juan came home.

When she entered the house, she saw me on the couch, a little nervous, and I immediately asked her where she had been all night.

At first, she refused to say anything, and then under my pressure, she said: On the third day of our marriage, my son hit someone with a car, and at that time, the other party demanded 500,000 yuan in compensation, otherwise I would send my son in. In order to protect my son, I had to borrow 200,000 private generations, but after just one month of borrowing, they urged me to pay it back, and the interest rate was frighteningly high. I've been calling lately to urge me. Last night my son called to say that the men were going home again. As soon as I was afraid that something was wrong with my son, I rushed back.

I said, "Then why didn't you tell me that something so big happened?"

Zi Juan said: I just married you, and your daughter said that about me, do I want to borrow money from you? What would you think of me?

I said: You are confused, you and I are both family, will I sit idly by when your son has an accident?

Zi Juan didn't care what I said, just crying vigorously, I thought she was too difficult, so I wanted to borrow 200,000 yuan for her, let her fill in the account first. But when I thought about it later, I felt that things were a bit strange, but I couldn't say it.

People say I can still borrow this money? Am I wrong to marry Zi Juan?

@Acquaintances mundane

Things are indeed a bit strange, but it is not impossible to solve, you can first go to see Zi Juan's son, and then meet the party who was hit, if the other party is indeed injured, then this matter side has some credibility.

The halfway couple really can't stand the scrutiny, it is recommended that you must keep an eye on it in the future. Your daughter and son-in-law's words are a bit excessive, but they are not unreasonable. Relatives do not believe, but they believe in outsiders, and that is not necessarily a case

meddlesome.

As for this money, if it is really true, you can consider lending it out, just by virtue of the Fact that Zijuan did not tell you after the incident, and if you take it alone, you can see that she is a good woman. But when you lend money, be sure to write an IOU and let Zi Juan's son write a note for you, which is more secure!