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Before the Spring Festival, I went to perm my head, for a decent middle-aged man like me, this is my biggest innovation in hair in more than thirty years, and I feel good after the whole thing, too

author:Psychological counselor Liu Haichao

Before the Spring Festival, I went to perm my head, for a decent middle-aged man like me, this is my biggest innovation in hair in more than thirty years, and I feel good after the whole thing, and I also add a lot of confidence.

Friends ask me, why have I paid more and more attention to appearance in the past two years? Don't ask me and don't think, so ask, I think, I really have such a "problem", now I consciously wash my hair and take a bath every day, wear clothes always want to be spotless, can't get used to and can't stand the untidy and unclean environment of various environments.

The reason for this may be the improvement of cognition, slowly awakening, starting to pay attention to self-discipline has a lot to do with it, and the internal changes driven by other good habits that are formed, because good habits are mutually influential, but I am not aware of it.

Although I am not a bully, but I have a concept, the real bully, never partial to the subject, other aspects will not be too bad, because as long as they can learn a science well, it shows that his method is feasible, self-management is appropriate, a little method migration, can also do other content well.

I don't believe you to observe the child, but those who learn well are often very tidy. Learning is almost bad, often the bag in the table pocket is a pile of various confetti, the books are as if they have been burned. You ask me why I know this, because I was a poor student when I was young.

Learn to bully a pen, poor students have more stationery, this is the truth, because poor students not only poor learning, but also self-management is too chaotic. Throwing three or four all day, either missing a refill, or missing a pen cap, can only keep buying stationery, or put other students' stationery back, four or five days of school, stationery a lot. And the school bully is able to demand themselves in all directions, use up things, things return to their place, in fact, a pen is enough.

Fortunately, after I became an adult, I slowly changed my concept, and I also believe that people who love cleanliness and love neatness will not be bad luck. Because this is not metaphysics, but science, neat and clean, not only will you improve efficiency, but also let others trust you, reduce a lot of communication costs, and more importantly, you use your own actions to prove that you are not willing to be with dirty mess, is a person with a pursuit.

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