What kind of impact will a person who has been a soldier have on his life? This issue is the one that my husband and I have discussed the most in the past two days. The cause of the problem is because of the father-in-law and the mother-in-law

What kind of impact will a person who has been a soldier have on his life?

This issue is the one that my husband and I have discussed the most in the past two days. The origin of the problem is because of some differences and contradictions between the father-in-law and the mother-in-law.

Husband Jun believes that the father-in-law, who has been in the army for three years, has a sense of rules. What to do, be sure to follow the rules. He was a man who buttoned every button of his life.

To cross the road, you must take the zebra crossing, even if it is inconvenient to move, you must be supported by your husband, and it does not matter if you take dozens of steps.

And the mother-in-law, compared to the father-in-law, her own action is more agile, she does not care where the zebra crossing is, as long as she looks left and right, no car comes straight across the road. On this point, the father-in-law has a great opinion, and the husband has repeatedly persuaded the mother-in-law, which has little effect. When I crossed the street the day before yesterday, I couldn't help but remind her that safety comes first.

The father-in-law has been under the internal management of the army, and his things are always arranged in a disciplined manner, and there is no room for chaos.

The family is as large as the quilt, as small as the books and glasses that have been read, and must be placed neatly and orderly, with a fixed position.

When he used to move easily, he did things himself. Now, after the inconvenience of mobility, I rely on my mother-in-law to help me do it. However, the mother-in-law is an acute child, walking wind and fire, paying attention to speed in doing things, the father-in-law has extremely high requirements, and he is angry when he can't do it, and the two people often contradict each other because things are not put away, whether the clothes are "pulled and shaken" and so on.

In my impression, when my father-in-law moved freely, the most he did was sweep the floor, and the ground at home was really spotless. He swept slowly, repeatedly, and had to sweep before stopping. The mother-in-law sometimes couldn't help but scold him: "You can't do anything, you will only sweep the floor in one day!" ”

He is rigorous in his work and strives to be his best every time he does things. He also uses this standard to demand family. The three sisters and brothers of the husband and the king, who were children, were afraid of him when they were young, they were obedient, and they all developed good habits. However, his mother-in-law, who lived together for a long time after retirement, was very unaccustomed to his "orders". The mother-in-law is diligent and quick,000, and the father-in-law must be a volunteer inspector, pointing out the quality of everything she does, and also putting forward opinions that are not "valuable" to the mother-in-law. One insisted on strict requirements, the other was unwilling to accept "management", and the contradictions between the two people became frequent.

The father-in-law can especially calm down, sit for half a day can also not move the nest, can be called "senior otaku", but at a glance at the mother-in-law asked us: "Where is your mother?" The mother-in-law especially likes to go out and walk, the dream is to "walk away from the trip", in order to take care of the father-in-law, can only accompany at home, of course, often complain about two sentences.

Two old men in their eighties, at home every day, never compromised their own rules, and sometimes quarreled, but more cared for and cared for. I listened carefully to their fights, all of which were trivial matters, but seeing that the second old man was quick to react, clear in his thinking, articulate, and easy to deal with, I found that quarrels were not necessarily bad for preventing Alzheimer's disease.

I smiled to my face and the two elders were really a couple who loved and killed each other.

The father-in-law who has been a soldier for three years, once received military training, never forgot that he was a soldier in his life, and now nearly ninety years old also strictly demands himself and his mother-in-law.

The mother-in-law did not serve as a soldier, but after her father-in-law retired, she had to accept the strict management from his near army, and did things and regularly rested like a soldier.

However, the mother-in-law's personality is also equally strong, not so willing to obey the "management" of the father-in-law, so the two fight with each other, the smoke of gunfire, the war is raging, and the emotions of the children are affected.

Fortunately, the second sister who usually helps to take care of the second old man's diet and living is doing things carefully and carefully, and the father-in-law is still very satisfied. The husband was temperamental and obedient to the "militarized" management of his father-in-law, which was especially loved by his father-in-law.

Friends, do you or you have soldiers around you? What are some of the traces of their enlistment that have influenced them for a lifetime? Welcome to leave a message to share Oh!