At the wedding ceremony of colleague Xiao Meng, we gave her a mysterious gift - "The Latest and Most Complete Baby Birth Guide", wishing them a noble son early, Xiao Meng was touched and cried with joy.
Xiao Meng in life is a big grinning person, when asked when she plans to have children, Xiao Meng looks up to the sky and sighs, has been worried about her personality, can not be competent for the role of mother.
And work and life are mixed together, and they are already at a loss. If there is another small baby, it is simply unimaginable.
To this end, this baby guide has been specially prepared, and I want to give it to every friend who is going to become a mother and a mother, so take a look!
First month:
The first month after the baby's birth is both joyful and anxious for the mother. Happy October pregnancy finally "unloaded", anxiety is because the baby crying for a while and happy, there is no regularity to follow, bao mom is anxious.
In any case, the baby at this time is more fragile and needs parents to be extra careful.
Therefore, when taking the baby, Bao Ma must grasp the following points:
1. Within 24 hours after the baby is born, be sure to communicate with the doctor and help the child inject hepatitis B vaccine and BCG vaccine.
2. Within 72 hours after the baby is born, the mother should help the child to do some genetic testing, such as hearing, and whether there are genetic metabolic diseases.
3. The sleep time of newborns is usually maintained at 16 to 20 hours. Before going to bed, the mother tries not to give the child water to drink. When sleeping, be sure to give your child some support to the head, but not too high.
4, the mother hears the child crying, the first thing is to breastfeed. Breastfeeding must follow the principle of feeding on demand, not excessive.
Remember not to feed your child water for half an hour before and after breastfeeding, otherwise it will affect your baby's digestion. If the baby is drinking milk powder, it is recommended that the mother feed the child some water between meals.
5. In this month, more interaction with the baby can help the baby cultivate intelligence. For example, arrange for babies to see some black and white pictures.
But the distance should not be too close, generally maintained at about 20 cm, observe the child's reaction.
Second month:
1. Try to avoid shaking when coaxing your child to sleep. The action of holding the baby should be gentle, regular and small in amplitude to prevent the child's brain development from being damaged.
2. Breastfeed regularly. It is best to feed every three hours for about 15 minutes each time, and breastfeed the two breasts separately, which can help the baby develop a good habit of eating on time.
3, about 45 days, parents can properly guide the child to carry out head-up exercises. Hold for about 10 seconds at a time, twice a day.
Third month:
1. When the baby is about three months old, drink milk 6 times a day. However, the development of each baby is different, so the specific number of breastfeeding needs to be decided according to the child's physical development and the actual situation of the mother.
2, at this stage, parents can take the baby to the baby room to take a bath. In order to promote the development of the baby's nerve and sensory system, you can do some touch massage for the child under the guidance of a professional.
3. The time schedule for the baby to sleep is roughly 1 to 2 times in the morning, 2 times in the afternoon, and 1 to 2 times at night.
In addition, parents should pay attention to their children's sleeping position to prevent long-term head-to-head sleep. The height of the pillow can also be adjusted to 3 to 4 cm.
4, the baby reaches this age, parents can teach the child to pronounce, such as vowel letters a, e and so on. At the same time, it can also exercise the baby's ability to follow the eye.
Fourth month:
1, the baby can carry out some swimming training, on the one hand, improve lung capacity, enhance physical immunity, increase height and weight, on the other hand, can also improve brain intelligence development.
2. Parents can train their babies to recognize colors and improve their visual skills through pictures and videos. But parents must remember that the video should not be shown to the baby for more than 3 minutes.
3, rub your baby's teeth, try to use a cotton swab, and the action should be careful and gentle.
4. It can train the baby's pronunciation and sense of smell, and at the same time exercise the baby's ability to grasp things.
Fifth month:
1. In addition to breast milk or milk powder, Bao Mom can properly feed the baby some rice noodles and other foods as a supplementary food. The addition of complementary foods must be gradual, feeding a small amount, and slowly increasing.
It is best not to add starchy foods to your baby, and when adding new complementary foods, you should carefully observe your baby's reaction to this food.
2. If the baby has the phenomenon of "eating hands" because of teething, parents can choose to use the teething stick to prevent the problem of tooth irregularities.
3, you can train the baby to make some ba, ma sounds.
Sixth month:
1, the baby has its own small temper, will scratch the mother's hair, etc., parents should learn to guide the child to recognize the mistakes, change bad habits.
2. Adhere to formula feeding, refuse milk, yogurt and soy milk.
Seventh month:
1. Wipe your baby's teeth with light salt water every morning and evening to protect oral hygiene.
2. Show the baby some color pictures or tell children's stories, and carefully observe the child's reaction.
3, at this time the baby will be more dependent on mom and dad, afraid of strangers. They will throw things around because they can't grasp the toys because they have little strength, and they will use fake crying to achieve their goals.
Therefore, parents should learn to observe their children's behavior more. Understand the child's inner activities, stop the child's incorrect behavior, accompany the child more, and give the child enough security.
Month 8:
1. When eating, you can guide your baby to learn to use a baby spoon. It is best to feed your child to drink warm boiled water, do not feed your child to drink sugar water and cold water.
2, do not scare the child, to prevent the child from being timid and afraid.
Ninth Month:
1. You can properly feed your child to eat some digestible small steamed buns and pasta, and refuse to puff and pickle foods.
2. It can properly help the baby to practice crawling activities.
Tenth month:
1. Cultivate the good habit of eating on time for babies, properly control the amount of food, and refuse snacks such as chocolate.
2. Parents can play games with their babies to cultivate their children's hands-on ability. Afterwards, you can pack up the toys with the baby, cultivate the baby's good habits, and prevent littering everywhere.
3. Cultivate children's sense of music by playing music.
Month 11:
1. Cultivate children to stand and cultivate children's ability to imitate animal calls.
2. Cultivate the child's ability to concentrate on things by creating a quiet play space for children.
3. When encountering the baby's wayward temper, parents try to keep calm. Try to distract your child and guide them to express their thoughts correctly.
Twelfth month:
1. Parents take their children to read more books and recognize words, on the one hand, they can increase their knowledge. On the other hand, turning the pages frequently can exercise the flexibility of your baby's fingers.
2, it is best not to use a walker. When the baby learns to walk, parents should ensure that the ground is clean and free of debris. If your child falls, try to make your child stand up bravely on his own.
3. Encourage the baby to speak and train the child's oral expression ability. In addition, you can also add some spoken English knowledge to your child appropriately.