Guo Min and her two children
The birth of a baby represents that the family has a future and a new life to continue.
However, the birth of a child is very difficult, and the mother has to endure 10 months of pain.
At the time of the birth of the child, the mother also has to endure severe pain that ordinary people cannot tolerate.
There are also restrictions on maternal age.
According to medical common sense, if a woman is pregnant after the age of 35, she is already considered an advanced age, and if she has a disease, she is also called a high-risk mother.
At this time, the doctor no longer recommends childbirth.
Age of pregnancy
But have you ever heard of such a thing?
In Beijing, a 56-year-old woman became pregnant and gave birth in order to pass on her inheritance.
And successfully gave birth to a dragon and phoenix fetus, what is going on?
pregnant
Time back to 1981.
This woman's name is Guo Min and she is married.
She had a daughter that year.
And her family is not more welcoming because of the birth of a child.
With children, the financial burden on the family becomes greater.
For the sake of the mother, for the sake of the child, a woman traveled alone from Jiangxi to Beijing.
Jiangxi Ancient Town
And her husband simply announced the divorce when she wasn't ready.
What made her even more chilling was that her daughter was sentenced to her ex-husband.
This marriage has brought her indelible scars.
And this woman did not flinch, she chose to move on.
Guo Min
It's 2007, and she's been struggling for years.
While in Beijing, I met a man named Ren Dahua.
The man was divorced and had a son.
She and this man were married because of their affection.
For this woman who struggled alone in Beijing, she had a home and a harbor at this time.
Husband Ren Dahua
At this time, she missed her daughter very much and wanted to bring her daughter to Beijing so that she could have a better future
Fortunately for her, although she had not seen her for many years, her daughter was still close to her.
The idea of this simple woman is simple, she wants her daughter to stay in Beijing.
There are many development opportunities in Beijing, far stronger than their hometown.
The daughter works in Beijing, gets married and has children, so that the two of them can live happily together all the time.
Beijing Railway Station
The idea is always good, but the reality is cruel.
In 2003, her ex-husband offered to let her daughter go home to see, but she did not expect that this distinction was actually yin and yang.
It was something she would never forget for the rest of her life.
On November 21, 2005, my daughter had just turned 24 and died in a car accident in her hometown.
There is no tragedy in the world than a white-haired person sending a black-haired person, and she has experienced such a tragedy.
The grief seemed to kill her, and the excessive grief made the woman turn white all night.
This pain carved a scar in her heart.
Guo Min's daughter
Every day after that, her mind was full of her own children, and she even thought that the accident was of her own making.
Because if the child had not been allowed to go home, her child would not have been lying in the cold morgue.
But where in the world there is regret medicine, things have already happened.
This poor mother could not forgive herself, and every day she carried the shackles of self-blame for herself.
The shackles weighed like a thousand pounds, weighing her breathlessly.
Ren Dahua and two children
At that time, she had lost hope in life, because for her, her daughter was everything.
Thinking during the day and dreaming at night, she thought that her daughter could return to her side.
She even thought about taking her own life.
However, the woman survived her grief and made a decision to have another child.
Why did she think that?
It turned out that one day, she saw in the newspaper that there was a 60-year-old lady in Japan who did IVF and then gave birth to a son, and the mother and child were safe.
Once such an idea comes out, it can no longer be suppressed.
She thought she was only 56 years old, younger than the old lady, and sure enough to have a baby.
IVF
From that day on, her mind was full of thoughts about having children.
Finally, she said directly to her husband: "I will not live without having a child." ”
The husband who heard this expressed understanding because they were remarried and had a 36-year-old son who was not yet married.
In his heart, he expressed his support for her to have another child and be able to continue his bloodline.
But I was very worried about my wife, because 35 years old was already an elderly mother, and my wife was 56 years old, and if she was pregnant and gave birth to a child, she was in danger at any time, so she was persuaded not to give birth again.
She said she was determined to give birth, and after consultation between the couple, they decided to go to the hospital for consultation.
On this day, she had no intention of seeing an advertisement for a hospital on TELEVISION.
Worried about which hospital to find, she immediately wrote down her phone number and address.
Overjoyed, she couldn't sleep the night before she went to the hospital.
She went to the hospital for consultation, and because the hospital needed to make an appointment, she hung up.
When it was time for appointment, she got up early in the morning and waited until 8:30 when the hospital began to work.
Hospital corridors
She went in and found the doctor, and then directly knelt down to the doctor and slammed her head three times directly on the ground.
Say to the doctor, "Doctor, please, please, please help me have a child, I thank you." ”
The woman who had lost her daughter wanted to be a mother too much.
When the doctor saw the situation, he immediately helped her up, because there were more people in contact, and he knew Guo Min's mood very well.
A detailed physical examination was then done for her.
The good news is that the body foundation is good, and it can be fertile with simple conditioning.
He promised to appoint her to conceive the baby within a year, but it would cost a lot of money, a total of 60,000 yuan.
At this time, this woman only had thirty thousand pieces on her body, and she was still thirty thousand pieces away from her dream.
At this time, she had no way, she wanted the child too much.
Finally, she called her mother, who heard about this situation and thought that her child might not be able to go up in the future, and directly gave her the 30,000 yuan
Because her mother also looked forward to a new life.
The funds are sufficient, and the body is well nourished.
Start trying it for the first time.
However, the first time, I was pregnant with a child, but I did not survive for a month, and I miscarried.
The second time, she was pregnant with three children.
But she worked hard so that she could keep her job during this period.
She was supposed to lie down in bed and recuperate, but she chose to go to work.
Because of handling some chores, she sat back and forth in the car for nearly 3 hours.
Unfortunately, one was miscarried.
She saw that her lower body was beginning to bleed heavily, and she felt very frightened, and she was afraid that this time her hopes would be shattered again.
However, Heaven took care of her, and under the rescue of the doctor, she was lucky to save two.
Because she learned these two lessons, she decided not to toss and turn and recuperate at home.
If you go out again, your only hope may be gone.
Morning sickness is a normal reaction to pregnancy in pregnant women and can manifest at 12 weeks.
But because of her age, she reacted on day 35.
And the reaction is more intense than that of ordinary pregnant women, a little odor can not be smelled, and even the toilet does not dare to enter.
The husband saw that his wife was in great pain, so he said to her, "Better give up." ”
However, at this time, she only had one thought in her heart, that is, to be a mother.
Guo Min and his two children
This pain made her feel like she was living for years, but the hope in her heart made her survive.
In this way, after half a year, at this time her waist had swollen very badly because of pregnancy.
It hurt so much that I couldn't even walk.
At that time, she weighed only more than 80 pounds, but because of her pregnancy, she weighed more than 120 pounds.
It is equivalent to a small body of 80 pounds, and you have to live with an extra weight of 40 pounds every day.
Even when you get up, it is impossible to rely on yourself, and you must rely on the help of others.
And in such a situation, she did not say a single bitter word.
Guo Min pulled his own child
To their surprise, the day was a month earlier.
At her insistence, under the efforts of doctors.
Fortunately, the mother and child are safe, and what makes them feel even happier is that these two children are dragon and phoenix fetuses.
The birth of the child made her feel very happy, and the sins she had suffered for the past few months were worth it.
Her wish came true, and when she thought it was the beginning of a good day, fate struck her hard.
Not long after the birth of her two children, her husband Ren Dahua suddenly suffered a cerebral infarction, directly paralyzed, and lost the ability to take care of himself.
The old couple's source of livelihood is a pension of only 4,000 yuan per month.
But when the husband fell ill, the burden of life became heavier.
There was no one to help with the newborn child, and her monthly pension of only 1700 could not support the cost of two children.
The eldest son took her husband away to take care of her in order to relieve the pressure of her mother.
Even so, her life burden is still not small.
Guo Min's child
For the sake of the child, for the sake of the hope in her heart, she had to move on.
She had to keep working and keep making money.
With unremitting efforts, she took over the financial aspects of 7 small companies and became an accountant.
During the day, I stay with my children and start working until 3 a.m. in the evening.
She never slept well until her child was four years old.
Once, these seven companies wanted to settle at the end of the year and needed her to issue statements.
To save time, she took her children to eat steamed buns for six consecutive days and stayed up all night for seven nights to get the job done.
On the seventh day, she cooked fish soup for the children.
Seeing the child was very happy, her nose was sour, and tears appeared in her eyes.
Guo Min is cooking
In order to be able to maintain her life, she made careful calculations and thoroughly used her accounting skills in her life.
I don't dare to waste a dime.
She accurately controlled the monthly food expenses to less than 600 yuan.
After buying meat and fish, she gave it to the child first, because if she ate one more bite, two children would not be enough.
If the child is sick, it is a big expense, and once, the big illness is just right, and the small one is sick.
This toss directly lost 1200 yuan, but this is still the cost after reporting medical insurance.
Fortunately for her, she had never been sick once since giving birth to a child.
She didn't want to get sick, or rather, she didn't dare to get sick, because the two children were counting on her.
Guo Min dressed the child
The mother had a plan in mind that as long as she worked for another 10 years, her child's tuition would be enough.
She wants to watch these two children grow up, hoping to live to be 80 years old and strive to live to 90 years old.
You can see your child grow up so that you have no regrets in life.
But these things are hypothetical.
She will encounter various problems in the future.
By the time the child is rebellious, can she communicate well with the child when she is old?
There are many more such problems, which will emerge one by one with time in the future, and can she solve them when she is old?
Guo Min and two children
Maternal love is great, and bringing these two children into the world deserves the word great.
But isn't this maternal love selfish?
If she hadn't waited for the two children to grow up, where would the two children go?
In any case, we hope that these two children will thrive, and we hope that Guo Min will be healthy and watch the children grow up.