The 36-year-old son did not marry, and the 56-year-old mother gave birth to a dragon and phoenix fetus for the inheritance of the family, and fed the brothers and sisters breast milk for 5 months. The 61-year-old husband thought it would be okay to work for another 10 years, and after 3 years he regretted it. Is it worth it for a 60-year-old woman to work 8 part-time jobs to support 2 children and only sleep 5 hours a day?
20 square meters of small room is full of debris, Mrs. Guo Min is working hard to do the accounting, not a minute or a second can not delay, she is 60 years old this year, but took 8 part-time jobs to help the company to do the accounting, can only sleep 5 hours a day. Because they don't work hard, two children can't live.
Guo Min and her husband Ren Dahua are a halfway couple. Last July, Ren Dahua suddenly suffered from a cerebral thrombosis and now lives with his son.
The twin siblings are extremely cute, the brothers and sisters were born only two minutes away, since Ren Dahua was seriously ill, the two children have been picked up by Guo Minlai. People in the kindergarten did not know that Guo Min was a mother of two children, and they all thought that she was the children's grandmother or grandmother.
For all this, Guo Min did not pay attention to it.
Guo Min is 60 years old, a native of Jiangxi, who came to Beijing in his 30s, and Ren Dahua, 65 years old, is an authentic Beijinger, and both have had a marriage. Ren Dahua has a son and Guo Min has a daughter. The two were introduced together and have been married for 15 years now.
The couple, who had reached the age of flower armor, gave birth to the couple three years ago. Dragon and phoenix fetus. Originally, the two had children and daughters, and the family conditions were also average, so why did they have to bear the double pressure of physical and economic pressure to give birth to this pair of dragon and phoenix fetuses?
After a year of conditioning, Guo Min and her husband used only 60,000 yuan to do embryo transfer, and soon, they became pregnant with their own children, and what she did not expect was that she was pregnant with twins, and she regarded this as a gift from God.
Although her husband repeatedly advised her to beat one, Guo Min still insisted on giving birth together. As an elderly mother, the pregnancy period is very hard, once there is a problem, adults and children are in danger of life at any time, eating, wearing, living and traveling must be careful.
She had a caesarean section to give birth to the sisters and siblings of the dragon and phoenix fetus. What was even more unexpected was that Guo Min, who was 56 years old at the time, actually gave the brothers and sisters five months of breast milk. Guo Min also made a vision for the children, the children's future life, what she did not expect was that her husband Ren Dahua's serious illness made her sky collapse.
Looking at the child in front of him, Guo Min was a little hesitant, not knowing whether the decision was right or wrong?
These days, Ren Dahua's spirit was not easy to get better, barely able to get out of bed, seeing the arrival of the dragon and phoenix brothers and sisters, his smiling face, but there was a trace of embarrassment that could not be concealed, and it seemed that he did not dare to face it.
Now he can only live, the son is 36 years old, not yet married, the family conditions are not very good, for the two young brothers and sisters, can not help at all.
Ren Dahua's tone revealed a hint of remorse, he said that it was Guo Min who proposed to get pregnant and give birth to a child, considering the age, Ren Dahua decided to kill a child, but Guo Min insisted on giving birth to twin children.
After the child was born, he originally had the same as Guo Min thought, and there was no problem in working for another ten years, but people were not as good as heavenly calculations, and the sudden illness broke all the plans.
Ren Dahua made a big decision, proposing to send a child away, which would be good for Guo Min and the child. Guo Min's face immediately became a little ugly, and the two children played with themselves, as if they did not understand what their father was saying.
Guo Min is a very stubborn person, especially when it comes to children. In Ren Dahua's view, giving birth to a dragon and phoenix fetus is a mistake. Now, obviously Guo Min has been unable to support to the point of difficulty, sending away a child, for everyone, is the best choice, Guo Min is not willing to admit mistakes.
Every time she can't continue to move forward, she will look at the photo of her daughter, the dragon and phoenix fetus is the continuation of her daughter's life, she has always been very optimistic, actively to face life, her husband proposed to send away the child at this time, her heart is full of mixed feelings, she is also thinking about giving birth to these two children, is it right or wrong, how to go the next way?
Because Guo Min has to work, Long Feng fetus has been in kindergarten at the age of one and a half years old, other children are five days a week, Long Feng fetus brothers and sisters will also come on weekends, many times, Guo Min is the last to pick up the child, the kindergarten teacher can't bear it, sometimes he will take two children to dinner together.
For the two children, such waiting has become accustomed, although they are only three years old, they understand that their mother does not come to pick up because they want to make money, and the brothers and sisters still play with themselves. It is getting dark, Guo Min still has not appeared around the people, some sad, only three-year-old children, now the most needed is the company of parents, forced by the pressure of life, Guo Min can only do so.
At 7:30 p.m., Guo Min's face was tired, but he saw that the two children gradually regained their spirits and smiled. Two children, one on the left and one on the right, a family of three talking and laughing, went home.
When she was busiest, she didn't even have time to cook, and it was too late to run around in a day, so she could only buy a few steamed buns and flower rolls to cope with it. Despite the busyness, she was well organised for everything for both small children. Changing clothes, drinking water, eating, drinking yogurt, washing, not a single link is left behind. I'd rather eat less and drink less than give it to my children.
For Guo Min and his wife to give birth to a child at the age of 60, there is a lot of discussion on the Internet, some people say that the old lady is selfish and does not care about the future of the whole child, and some people say that Guo Min's courage is commendable, worthy of encouragement, and is the positive energy of society.
Everyone's lifestyle is different, in the eyes of others may feel that Guo Min's current life is miserable, the future is dark, but Guo Min in it feels that she is extremely happy, although she spends all her strength in work and children every day, she is indeed tired and happy to live every day, with goals and motivation.
For the dragon and phoenix fetus, Guo Min has his own plan. Every child has her own destiny, and she only hopes that the child can grow up healthily.