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Guo Min, who is in her sixties, is an accountant, her hands are covered with calluses, not at all like the hands of an accountant, and she should have retired, and she is still working continuously, with less than 6 hours of rest every day.
She is more than sixty years old, she is the mother of a pair of dragon and phoenix fetuses, originally the age of the grandmother, Guo Min is a pair of years old dragon and phoenix fetus mother, what is the reason, let more than half a hundred years old she risked death to give birth to the dragon and phoenix fetus?
One
Before 2010, Guo Min had not yet given birth to a dragon and phoenix fetus, and she only had a daughter in her 20s.
When her daughter was in the fifth grade, Guo Min went to Beijing to work, and her daughter has been living with her father. Because of the long-term separation of different places and the relationship between husband and wife, Guo Min divorced her husband and remarried her second husband in Beijing.
After the daughter grew up, she went to Beijing to work with Guo Min, an accountant with Guo Min, who has a very decent and stable job in Beijing, and with the help of Guo Min, her daughter also found a great job and got married in Beijing.
The original life was spent so plainly and peacefully, who knew that because of some changes, the daughter had to go back to her hometown.
Guo Min did not approve of her daughter going home, because there was better development in Beijing, but Guo Min could not keep her daughter, and her daughter still returned to her hometown, but in the half a year when her daughter returned home, an accident occurred.
That day, Guo Min went to work at the company as usual, and on the way to work, she received a text message from her sister-in-law, saying that her daughter had a car accident and asked Guo Min to rush back within three days.
The sister-in-law did not dare to tell Guo Min that Guo Min's daughter had died, but only told Guo Min to hurry back.
Guo Min heard about the car accident, her legs were soft on the spot, because the blow was too big, Guo Min fainted on the spot and was sent to the hospital, Guo Min was delayed in the hospital for three days, and when she rushed home, her daughter had been cremated, and Guo Min did not see the last side of her daughter.
After going back, I learned that because there were no street lights in the countryside that day, my daughter was hit by a car and was seriously injured, and she was sent to the hospital for two hours and could not be rescued.
The death of his daughter caused Guo Min to suffer a huge blow, coupled with the fact that he could not see the last side of his daughter in the hospital, Guo Min fell into the pain of losing his daughter for a long time and could not extricate himself.
Under the great pain, a newspaper made Guo Min rekindle his hopes for life.
That newspaper reported that an old Japanese couple, 60 years old artificial pregnancy gave birth to a son, when Guo Min was 6 years younger than the old Japanese lady, since 60 years old can give birth, 54 years old why not?
Guo Min had the idea of having another child, and Guo Min consulted with her second husband, who agreed.
Two
In 2007, Guo Min had made up her mind to have a girl, she went to the hospital for examination, Guo Min had no heart disease, no high blood pressure, and the uterus was also very healthy, but Guo Min worked hard for two years and failed to conceive a child.
Guo Min went to a professional maternity hospital to consult a doctor, and the doctor said:
"It is not easy for you to conceive a child at such an old age, and it is easy to be disabled when you are pregnant, and if you want to have children, you must adjust your body to a young state."
After the conditioning, will you be able to give birth to a healthy child?
The doctor said that after conditioning, even if you are older, you can have children, hearing the doctor's words, Guo Min nodded like a pounding garlic, she asked the doctor to give herself a girl.
There are many patients who come to find experts to solve fertility difficulties, Guo Min's number has been listed for a year later, Guo Min was old, she simply could not wait so long, in order to conceive a child as soon as possible, Guo Min explained his situation to the doctor and begged the doctor to help her.
Knowing Guo Min's situation, the doctor was also very sympathetic to Guo Min, he introduced another hospital for Guo Min, which can be ranked faster, but it is expensive to thirty thousand yuan, Guo Min has not been able to manage so much, she told the doctor:
"I borrow money when I don't have any money, and it doesn't matter how much money I have."
Guo Min rushed to the hospital, but the doctor of the hospital was on a business trip, and it would take several months to come back, asking the doctor when he came back, Guo Min pinched the time point of the doctor's return, rushed to the hospital early in the morning, as soon as he arrived at the doctor's office, he knelt down to the doctor, and she begged the doctor:
"Doctor, help me, please help me, I must be a little girl."
The doctor examined Guo Min's body again, her uterus did not atrophy, and the follicles were still there, the doctor told Guo Min:
"You still have the conditions to be a mother, yes." I'll give you conditioning, and ten months later you and your husband will come over and get sperm and do a test tube. ”
Guo Min did two test tubes to successfully conceive a child, the first time after the test tube required bed rest for ten days can not move, but also need to ask someone to go to the door for injections, but Guo Min's community is too many people, the door is completely unrealistic.
Guo Min found the doctor and asked if the doctor could come to the door for injections, she reimbursed the travel expenses, one hundred and eleven thousand a day, the doctor refused Guo Min.
Guo Min had to take a taxi to the hospital for injections, only to go back and forth, the child was lost on the road, after the first failure, Guo Min became much more cautious.
They rented a house specifically near the hospital, and with nothing but a bed and cooking, Guo Min lay in the rental room for a month, and this time she got her wish and became pregnant with triplets.
Because of Guo Min's own reasons, the triplets lost one, the remaining twins, the husband's opinion is to shed another one, only one, but Guo Min feels that since it is fate, she wants to give birth to the twins.
In addition to fate, Guo Min is also older, doomed to not be able to accompany the children for too long, and when she and her husband are a hundred years later, the two children can be each other's companions.
Guo Min and her husband had a disagreement, and the two of them were cold for three months, until the child was not allowed to have another abortion after three months, and the husband could only be forced to compromise.
Guo Min, who was originally only 80 pounds thin, once reached 120 pounds, and when she was eight months pregnant, Guo Min came to the hospital to protect the fetus, and all women over the age of 35 had to be delivered by caesarean section, and finally, in 2010, the 56-year-old Guo Min gave birth to a pair of dragon and phoenix fetuses.
Three
When the child was born, Guo Min was 56 years old, raising a child will be an incomparably heavy burden, when Guo Min was 60 years old, the child was only 4 years old, but Guo Min said:
I work my own ability, and my goal is to work for another 10 years and save enough money for my children to go to school.
But when Guo Min was 70 years old, the children were only 14 years old, Guo Min said:
"I don't think I'm 60, I think I'm 50, when I'm 76, the kids are 20, I always think, I'm okay, I'm trying to live to be 90, 80 is definitely no problem!" 」
Before the child was three years old, It was Guo Min who raised the child with her husband, and when the child was three years old, Guo Min's husband suddenly had a cerebral infarction, and his eyes were black and he fell down, and then he could not take care of himself.
Her husband was paralyzed and hospitalized, and there were two children waiting to be fed at home, and Guo Min alone also shouldered the burden of earning money and supporting the family.
Guo Min really did not have the energy to take care of her husband, she could only ask a nurse to take care of her husband, 3900 yuan a month, after hiring a nurse for a month, because she really could not afford to pay the nursing fee, Guo Min's husband could only limp home.
Guo Min's husband and Guo Min also had a son with his ex-wife before marriage, after the husband was paralyzed, Guo Min could not take care of him, nor could he afford to pay the care money, the husband's son took on the burden of taking care of his father, which also reduced the burden for Guo Min a little.
Since then, Guo Min has taken two children alone, the retirement fee is 1700 yuan, the part-time work can earn 1800 yuan, and the living expenses of Guo Min and the two children all rely on the 3000 yuan, but the 3000 yuan is not their food expenses.
The monthly kindergarten fee for the two children is 600 yuan, the rent is 600 yuan, the electricity bill is 51 degrees, the water and electricity bill adds up to more than 200, the gas fee is more than 100, the mobile phone bill adds up to nearly a thousand, and the living expenses left for Guo Min and the two children are only 600 yuan.
These 600 pieces were carefully spent by Guo Min, and the daily food cost was controlled at 20 yuan, eating noodles once a week, eating dumplings once, eating fish once, eating half of the ribs for 10 yuan, dividing the ribs into 6 segments, eating one piece at a time, and drinking with rib stewed radish soup.
Guo Min's two children like to eat fish, in order to buy cheaper dishes, Guo Min goes to the morning market every morning to buy cheap dishes, where the fish is only 9 yuan a piece, a fish to eat for a month, the head and tail to eat for a month, the middle of the fish body is divided into three segments, every week to eat a paragraph, is a month.
There is really no money, Guo Min can only let the children eat, eat instant noodles by themselves, the most placed in the refrigerator is garlic, at the end of the month Guo Min can only take the children to eat cucumbers together, sometimes the cucumbers are eaten, Guo Min will cold mix some white radish.
When the dishes are finished, Guo Min will buy a pack of squeezed vegetables for 5 cents and eat them with two children, Guo Min has been unable to take care of nutrition problems, and can only ensure that the children can eat enough.
Sometimes there is no rice, Guo Min will buy a 50 cent flower roll, a piece of five sugar buns, buy three, go home with some soy milk powder or tangyuan to eat for two days, until the next salary.
Four
In addition to not enough to eat, there is no money, taking care of the two children cost Guo Min a huge effort, Guo Min's first car accident died of the child is very well-behaved, but this pair of twins is extremely naughty, Guo Min is often dragged by two children, the elderly and thin Guo Min can not drag these two naughty and lively children.
Especially Guo Min's son, this 4-year-old boy seems to have endless strength, and even the kindergarten teacher said that he could not control him.
Because Guo Min has to work part-time to earn money, the two twins stay in the kindergarten all year round, and in the evening Guo Min will pick them up and take them home, and after feeding and bathing the children, Guo Min must ensure that he will take the children to sleep at 10 o'clock.
Because at 12 o'clock in the evening she has to get up to wash clothes and do housework, the next day she has to help others do the accounting, and if she can't complete the housework at night, then the day's chores will be left.
Every day to do laundry and do housework, Guo Min has to be busy until three and a half o'clock to sleep, sleep until seven o'clock in the morning must get up, sometimes housework can sleep fast enough to sleep for five hours, too many things can only sleep for three hours, but Guo Min's sleep has never exceeded 6 hours.
Every day at 1:30 a.m., Guo Min also sets an alarm clock to tell the children to get up and go to the toilet, so that they can sleep until dawn, otherwise waking up in the middle of the night will only bring more trouble to Guo Min.
Knowing that Guo Min's conditions are difficult, the nearby neighborhood committee often helps Guo Min, the children's clothes and toys are old things donated by others, there are also new clothes sent by well-wishers, and from time to time to Bring Guo Min a few fresh fish to help Guo Min's family improve their lives.
Someone asked Guo Min if he regretted giving birth to these two children?
Guo Min said: "I have never regretted it, I am just tired and tired, and I am very relieved to see these two children, and I am very happy." ”
The two children often fight together, and the younger sister is often caught with a face full of wounds, but this is not what Guo Min is most worried about, what worries Guo Min the most is that the child is sick.
The living expenses of Guo Min's family are already tight, and the child's illness means that their family's life will be difficult again this month.
Sometimes, Guo Min's two children take turns to have a cold and fever, Guo Min's husband has a fever and cramps, and her husband's son has no time to take care of him because he goes to work, please ask Guo Min to go back to see the children, but Guo Min has to take care of the two children, and the husband's situation is urgent and can't go back.
In order to help Guo Min improve her life, there are many well-meaning people who send money and gifts to Guo Min, because they heard that Guo Min's two children like to eat fish, and the enthusiastic masses rushed to the market early in the morning and bought a bunch of fish, and these enthusiastic people also bought shoes and quilts for Guo Min's children.
Guo was very sensitive, she said: "You don't have to buy all the new ones, you just need to use the unwanted ones, eight or nine percent new, seven or eight percent new." ”
In addition to the material help, the enthusiastic people also undertook the kindergarten care fee of 600 yuan per month for Guo Min's two children, and the enthusiastic people promised to send fish to Guo Min once a month, and they also brought their friends to donate money and materials for Guo Min.
Guo Min's deeds touched Mr. Zheng, who sent tens of thousands of dollars to Guo Min.
In addition, there is such a group of disabled people, they have a better life with the help of enthusiastic people, and after getting the help of others, they also try to use their own strength to help Guo Min.
Tang Yi is a disabled person who opened an online shop with the help of others, and after accepting the help of others, Tang Yi also joined the team of helpers.
In order to help Ms. Guo Min, Tang Yi sold everything in her store at wholesale prices, and all the money sold was donated to Guo Min, in addition, Tang Yi also contacted her friends and arranged An English class worth 300 for Guo Min's children in the English studio opened by her friends.
Everyone will encounter many difficulties in life, some people have no worries about food and clothing, some people have a very difficult life themselves, but when others need help, they actively extend their own help.
56-year-old Guo Min risked his life to give birth to twins, lost his daughter in his old age, and his wife was seriously ill, Guo Min needed someone to take care of him.
But she took care of two small ones alone, plus an old one, Guo Min's heart was firmer and braver than all young people, and this courage and courage to face everything came from maternal love.
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