Guo Min's life is also pitiful, when she was young, she did not marry a good husband, divorced not long after marriage, they had a lovely daughter, but in the year when the daughter was 24 years old, a car accident took away the daughter's life, whenever she saw the photo of her daughter, she was in tears, many years later, 56-year-old she and her current husband Ren Dahua decided to have another daughter, God did not know whether to take care of her or punish her, did not expect that since she was pregnant with the "dragon and phoenix fetus", which made the old two people of huajia year overjoyed, Originally planning to retire, they decided to work on it for ten years, raising the child, who knows that people are not as good as heaven, when the two children were more than one year old, Ren Dahua lost the ability to work because of cerebral infarction, and the heavy responsibility of raising two children fell on Guo Min, who was nearly 60 years old.
Guo Min, 56, wants to have a child
Guo Min divorced her original husband in her 30s, came to Beijing alone to live, and met her current husband Ren Dahua, who also had a marriage and a son of his own, and the two lived together through the introduction of a matchmaker. Ren Dahua's family is generally well-off, there is a three-bedroom apartment in Beijing, but they have lived for a few years Ren Dahua's son has grown up and is ready to get married, the second elder rented a house of more than 20 square meters outside, both have jobs, Ren Dahua also has a pension life is still OK, originally planned to enjoy the old age life so plainly, suddenly the birth of two children, so that the second elder made a determination to work hard for ten years.
Guo Min and Ren Dahua walked together for a few years, the hometown suddenly came bad news, said that the daughter had a car accident, lost her life in this car accident, Guo Min washed her face with tears every day for half a year after that, until many years later, whenever she saw the photo of her daughter, her mood became very heavy, although many years have passed, but she has not come out of the grief of the bereaved daughter, Guo Min has always told her husband that she wants another daughter, and her husband has been more opposed at first, after all, she has entered the old age of the people, Ren Dahua felt impossible in choosing to have a child.
But Ren Dahua also took into account Guo Min's feelings, she had just experienced the pain of losing her daughter in the previous few years, and she had not come out for so many years, Ren Dahua said that if Guo Min's physical condition allowed, he agreed to have another child, although now the couple has reached the age of enjoying the old age, but Ren Dahua for his wife, he would rather work on it for ten years, and it does not hurt to retire 10 years later.
Just like that, they decided well, they went to the hospital to consult their situation how to have children, and after walking a number of hospitals, they said that the possibility of natural pregnancy was gone, only to do "artificial embryos", but they also told them very clearly, Guo Min at this age in pregnancy and childbirth, there will be great risks, and even life danger, but Guo Min repeatedly insisted that they took out the only tens of thousands of savings to make this artificial embryo.
Missing her daughter Guo Min finally got her wish, she successfully conceived the child, when they went to the obstetric examination, the doctor said that she had two children in her belly, and it was a "dragon and phoenix fetus" of a man and a woman, which made them very surprised, of course, they were very happy, but they had to bear huge financial pressure, according to their income, raising a child was just right, and now suddenly it was a dragon and phoenix fetus, which made their plans all empty, and had to re-plan, but no matter what, they had made up their minds to win.
After the birth of the child, no one can help them, the child only they bring themselves, the child cried all night, the second old was choked up enough, this just fell asleep that woke up, that just ate enough and this and hungry, but although it was very hard and tired, but they were painful and happy, fortunately Guo Min's body was more contentious, the two children ate her milk for five months, which reduced a lot of burden for them who were not rich.
Ren Dahua suddenly fell ill
Normal children will not go to kindergarten until they are three years old, but they sent them to kindergarten when the two children were more than one year old, just to work a little more time and earn a little more money to raise two children, but the good times were not long, and it was not long before Ren Dahua fell ill because of cerebral infarction, which made Guo Min, who had just cleared his mind, press the pause button at once.
After getting sick, Ren Dahua completely lost the ability to work, but Guo Min could not take care of Ren Dahua, the two children spent a whole day of her time, and could not spare more time to take care of her husband, helplessly Ren Dahua could only live in the eldest son's home, the eldest son took care of himself, and the burden of raising two children from then on fell on Guo Min alone.
Ren Dahua also can't bear to see his wife so hard, he also said to Guo Min many times, it is really not okay to give his son to others to raise, but Guo Min does not agree, she feels that this is the favor of heaven for her, losing a daughter, the heavens sent her a pair of children, Ren Dahua knows that Guo Min is stubborn, so he will no longer say that he wants to send his son away.
Guo Min in order to raise children, every day she can only sleep 5-6 hours to get up, after sending the child to the kindergarten she will have to go to the supermarket to work, to the afternoon after work to go to the kindergarten to pick up the two children home, cook for the child, and when the two children sleep, she will take out the part-time job, every day to stay up late to sleep.
This ability to resist pressure, it is estimated that few of our young people can stand it, but Guo Min worked hard every day after a day, the moment she went to pick up the child, she was like a chicken blood, when she saw the child, all the exhaustion of the day was left behind, and the whole person looked refreshed.
She said that before her husband got sick, they also made up their minds to send their two children to the university campus by hand, but after her husband fell, she decided that her children would not go to college, go to technical school after graduating from junior high school, and go out to work after learning a skill. Since her husband fell, she was also worried about what to do with her two children, and she was always worried every time she thought about it.
She brings hope to many families who have lost their independence
Since Guo Min gave birth to two children, she has met many women from families who have lost their independence, and when she learned that Guo Min's wife was sick, they often came to visit Guo Min and the two children, and every time they came, they would bring guo Min some food and drink, and they saw a different spirit from Guo Min.
For the average family that has lost their independence, most of them will choose to adopt or not to adopt, and Guo Min chooses to risk his life and resolutely choose to regenerate under the dual pressure of economic difficulties.
In the eyes of these orphaned families, Guo Min is full of positive energy people, her love for her children, her enthusiasm for life, inspiring these orphan families, so that they have the confidence to reinvigorate.
The mother who lost her independence said that her child died suddenly when she was 16 years old because of playing ball, she understood the meaning of a child to the family, if the family loses the child like a disaster, the reason why she is willing to help Guo Min get through the difficulties is because she knows Guo Min very well, and it is Guo Min who makes her see the hope of the family again.
For Guo Min, who is more than half a hundred years old, every time she walks on the street with her child, others always think that this is his grandson and granddaughter, but whenever someone asks her if this is a grandchild, she will stand tall and proudly tell the other party that this is my son and daughter, they are dragon and phoenix fetus.
At first, others always look at her with a special look, and even someone will chant behind her, but she never pays attention to the gossip of these people, but over time, she knows more and more about allergies, every day everyone looks at this old lady with two children who have just gone to kindergarten, they slowly began to admire Guo Min, a person with two children, but also work, had to be admired.
Guo Min's attitude towards the child makes us deeply feel the greatness of maternal love, for this no one can refute, but after all, she is old, but also know that she thinks of her son, risking her life to give birth to a child, this point as a mother can understand, the child she has, but can she give the child a future? That's where she owes it to consideration. In the future, I don't know what difficulties are still waiting for Guo Min, but I hope that Guo Min and the two children can spend every day happily, and I hope that they can get through every difficult time, and I also wish the two children a happy growth.